Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Need advice about this guy!!!?

I just started a new trimester and there is this really sweet and attractive guy who鈥檚 from Slovakia in my class...and recently he sat next to me and started talking to me...He was such a gentleman he introduced himself and shook my hand ...and I know it may seem conceited but I think he likes me...his body language gives it away ...he鈥檚 always smiling and im always smiling because he is just soo handsome and sweet ...and the other day I was leaving class early and as I was leaving he walks up to me and in his sexy accent he asks where I was going and when he asked me ...it seemed as if he was going to hug or kiss me ...Id so love to get to know him be friends maybe down the line b/f ...g/f type thing ya know ..WHAT DO I DO?Need advice about this guy!!!?
well dnt jump to b/f g/f get to know him become best friends then ask him out,go to the movies or just hang out and instead of a hand shake hug him when u feel like u know him he will get a feeling that u like him and if he hugs back then u know that hes making a effort in being friends or even b/f g/f try it trust me it'll work
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  • Advice advice advice, I need advice!! :) about boys.. la la la la la laaaa?

    K, well I am your typical 13 year old girl, I like the Jonas Brothers, I am girly, and I like boys! The problem is I like this guy, and I am afraid I seem invisible. I am a funny,nice, and friendly girl, and I don't know what happens but whenever I am around this guy, I get nervous and shy.





    So I just barley started liking him, We talk, not a ton, but like once a week :( I want him to notice me and talk to me... All girls should know what I am feeling. The thing is, do you girls ever feel like you have to dress slutty to get a guys attention? Or act fake, or stupid? I know I do, I feel like I am a preppy annoying girl, and the guy of my dreams would never take a chance on me. If it helps here is a picture of me:





    http://s407.photobucket.com/albums/pp151鈥?/a>


    I'm on the left.


    Please no rude comments...











    I need advice, before Christmas break ends. Shanks! :DAdvice advice advice, I need advice!! :) about boys.. la la la la la laaaa?
    wow


    IM REALLY DIFFERENT THAN U~


    Im a cute regular girl who wants to be a doctor!


    PS. just turned 16 today!


    WHOO





    And also dont try to act like someone your not


    act like your self!


    Or else your turn out like my class mate aniah! ( shes a *****!)


    She ugly! ( your not trust me!)


    Boring


    spends to much money on clothes


    and is not her slef!


    Dont be lke her!Advice advice advice, I need advice!! :) about boys.. la la la la la laaaa?
    Idk. Just don't act like a ignorate bitchy asswhole. And you should be good.


    Oh and act fake, slutty, and stupid. God Likes that.


    lawlz. I preteen 2!

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    Wow, your really gorgeous. I think that you should try to get his attention just by walking by and smiling, or saying hi in the hallways at school.





    I know exactly how you feel about that! Like look at me:


    http://s74.photobucket.com/albums/i251/yeadawg0777/sweet%2016/?action=view%26amp;current=003.jpg


    in the middle.





    I have been told I am pretty, but whenever a guy likes me, it's like only for the looks? It's hard to know. But I really think your pretty. If this guy isn't the right guy, then life will provide you will the right one :)

    Need advice about this girl?

    There's this girl I know who seems to like me but in early August she stated how she wants to have 2 summer flings, I'm not sure how much she likes me but she broke up with her on-again, off-again relationship with her idiot b/f in June and says she still loves him, she cares about him %26amp; respects him, yet she said she won't go back wit him...Is she lying? and when it comes to me. She always seems to be in denial? I dun compliment at all really...only here and there *in a small manner* %26amp; if i say something like *wow, you looks pretty in that shirt, she'll get mad'; I've told her personally that I like her, I'm doing my part as a guy to be normal and 2 be there for her....But is it really worth it? Does she seem like she has low-self esteem? Is she confused? Does she seem immature? by the way...Shes 15, I'm not sure if that matters or notNeed advice about this girl?
    She sounds very emotionally confused.


    She's probably used to being used for her body, and therefore expects only that, hence the ';summer flings'; thing.


    She also might think that she's not worthy of a normal relationship, but it seems a bit like she wants one with you, because emotionally you're there for her... if you compliment her body too much, she might think you only want her body, and that would upset her.





    She is, very confused- from what I can gather. You have to figure out if you like her emotionally or physically.


    If you like her emotionally, tell her that. Tell her that you love her personality, tell her what it is about her that you adore.





    At the least, let her know she's worthy of a good relationship.





    Take care, best of luck!Need advice about this girl?
    I would stays friends for now. She might need more time to work out her feelings for her boyfriend. Her planned summer flings might have been planned to help her rebound from her b/f. If you care about her, I'd be patient and wait until she can be clear about her feelings. Otherwise, you might be in for some unneeded drama.
    Well from my point of view I think she's Very confused, She seems like she still has feelings for his ex but don't want to get back with him, As for you she might be just trying to forget her Ex Boyfriend with you! I think she's confused with herself she's either thinking of getting back with her Ex or it's too scared to start a new relation with you because what she feels about her ex. The only way to know it's to let her know! Ask her if she likes you back and want something serious! She might get mad but trust me it's better if you know the truth from her and what she's feeling! I wish you luck on that!
    This could mean 'puppy love'. A little immature on her side but given sufficient time, you'll be able to tell whether she's serious with you. Based on what you've described, she's not that into you yet. It's just a way of she getting over her ex. Girls won't usually get mad if the guys that they're interested in compliment them but she's totally different. I don't see any signs of liking for you from her although she talks to you despite tiredness. I don't think it's worth pursuing this relationship after all at this moment. Time will tell...
    It's obvious that either she doesn't know what she wants. Or, she wants to have her cake and eat it too. Don't waste anymore of your time on her. You'll only end up hurt. Like she said she wants 2 flings. You might just be one of them.
    The fact of the matter is she likes male attention. She does not seem very emotionally connected to any of the guys she is dating but likes keeping them around to give her attention. Picking fights usually means she wants the thrill of you groveling to get back in her good graces. I would say that you should ask yourself - Are you looking for a relationship with this girl? If so, I anticipate hardship and more drama than you're like. But if you're in for fun (and you know you won't get your heart broken), then go for it.





    Honestly though, I don't think she likes you any more than any of the other guys. And you are right - it is very likely that it has to do with poor self esteem and insecurity. Not uncommon in 15 year olds.





    I also suspect her parents are divorced or somehow has an absent father.
    call her bf an ahole and degrade him infront of her...and make yourself look like a real big man. and then she will see your sexuall potential and she will bang you
    I think this girl is trying to have her cake and eat it too. She obviously enjoys the attention that you give her - what girl would. But that is not the same as liking you or being in love with you. If she was she would not have treated you in the flippent way that she seems to be doing.





    We cannot help who we fall in love with. But be careful not to dwell on this girl. She has lots of unresolved issues re her ex. It would be very risky to get involved with someone who is still emotionally attached to a previous relationship. By talking about having at least two flings she is showing that she is not ready for another steady relationship. She is going to break your heart.
    ok

    Need Advice about g/f?

    Ok I am seeing this female for about 7 months now. She says her ex-was abusive towards her, which I do kind of believe. But she still talks to him, and on his myspace account he just updated his picture to be w/ him and her in it. Now in her deffense she has not seen it yet, but is she still w/ this dude? She has hung out w/ him because they still have mutual friends. But she nevers tells me when he is going to be around, and now the whole myspace picture deal, I am kind of worried.Need Advice about g/f?
    women who have been abused either physical or mental for some reason fell attached to this person. Its werid, its almost like they have a hold on you and no matter what they can always bring you back in.





    She needs to break away from him or she may wind up going back with him.





    She may want to be with you but those guys make you feel bad about who you are, they tell you that your worthless and no one will ever want them and then, you start to beleive it, and you go back to them. Please, talk to her. She may even need help from a counseler or therapist.Need Advice about g/f?
    Hes probably trying to get her back. But dont judge her by his actions. Ask her if she knows whats going on with him.
    don't sound like he abused her to me
    Hm.


    Well, abusive or not why is she still talking to an ex if she is with you.


    If he was abusive he should be in jail.


    If he was abusive she should NOT be talkng to him at all.





    You either have to have a major heart to heart with her or call this off now because it's not going to get better...
    do you see that big red flag waving in front of your face....pay attention to it...good luck
    You need to break up with her. She's treating you like a chump. Once you break up with her, the truth will work its way back to you.
    You should talk to her about it I mean maybe they are just friends but you never know honestly if a guy was ever abusive towards me i would never even speak to him but you probably should talk to her and she pry wont say that she is cheating but you can tell when someone is lying and then also you can sometimes tell if someone is cheating because their kiss is different or so i have heard on the tyra show lol well hope i helped
    aright dude you need to figure out what is going through this chicks head. like she's obv still got something going with this guy so you needa talk to her and be like it's her or me and figure out if she's a good girlfriend to you. she's obv got something going with this dude cause if he was really an *** like that then she wouldn't be talking to him. and since she just put her pic of of her and her ex BADD IDEA ! is she like stupid aright dude get your stuff straight talk to her and be like yo we gotta talk about this ****!
    yeah ask her about it and be like whats going on. because if she is with him that would be awful. and if she just says shes friends then.. tell her how u feel
    ask her what she thinks about it and tell her how you feel. be honest.
    well. you need to check up on her. you should ask her straight out. is she still with him. was he abusive and make sure that she noes that you know when she is lying she needs to take this stuff seriously. but on the other hand if she still sees them she might just be joking around. just get her story straight. if he does ever become abusive and u see the physical change with her you should take it to the police.
    talk to her about this situation....tell her it makes you uncomfortable tell her that you care about her and what to know why she wants to be around a guy who hurt her. she might still have feelings for him.....but she obviously has feelings for you too.








    good luck
    Ask her
    They are boning, and she made up getting beat by him or is one of those women who like to be knocked around. Lose her
    Sometimes in an abusive relationship the female feels responsible for why she is being abused. She may feel she can help him, or change him, however she has brought you into the situation, which means in a sense you are now being abused mentally. By seeing her getting hurt and you are with her may seem to make you feel out of place. She may need counseling, she must stay away from this man at all cost, and you are putting yourself in danger being with her. He may try to hurt you for being with her. Tell her your feelings, and mostly look at your safety.

    Need advice about this guy?

    ok it seems like little kid stuff but its just flirty..me and this one guy talked on facebook IM till 4 at night being really cute, etc. the next day i messaged him with my number, which i shouldnt have but i did..and this is what happend :





    ME:


    facebook is kinda lame so I think you should text me insteadd ;)





    (my number )





    Him:





    did u jus insult facebook? take it bak take it bak











    but he never texted me?? should i message back or notNeed advice about this guy?
    You should msg him back. If you do, ask him if what you said was ok to him, or ask him if you hurt him in any way whatsoeverrr.Need advice about this guy?
    DARLIN'! I think you've got yourself a boyfriend--or at least the beginning of one. Haha.





    He's probably just as nervous as you are about texting. Let him know that you really want him to text you sometimes; that way, he'll feel like he has insurance (if, as he is worried about, you don't 'like him like that', he'll know he can say that you TOLD him to text you).





    Haha, have fun with your new tease!
    Oh yes. Definitely message him back.


    But make sure that you be cutesy about it. Pretend you're like extremely sorry. For example: Omg, I'm sorry! I didn't know that you liked Facebook that much. I take it back =(


    Something to that extent. If you make the guy feel bad, they in return will be flirty back.


    Good Luck!
    Sugar, he's teasing you. Give him a really overdone, flowery, sarcastic apology (like as a joke) and see what happens.


    Good luck.
    Lol pretty sure he's just being a flirt, text him back %26amp; see, your not gunna find out if you dont try :)
    Message him back..


    I'd just be like ';would you rather facebook instead? I just thought texting would be easier. But if you don't want to then that's cool';.





    That's what I'd do.
    Don't message him back!! That could just plainly mean he's a fat ugly dude thats a computer addict. and never give ur phone number

    Quick Advice, About Girls?

    Ok, i am interested in someone, havnt know her forawhile but we get along really well, i think theyre is potential, so, what can i do to speed up the proocess, she doesnt pick up on subtle hints, and isnt that into gestures.Quick Advice, About Girls?
    They understand subtle hints and gestures, when she doesn't pick up on them, it means she is ignoring them because she doesn't want a relationship with you.Quick Advice, About Girls?
    Buy her rosses, it will give her all the gsture she needs to respond.
    Ask her if she'd like to hang out sometime.
    There is no way.





    Just forget her.
    tell her and be real straight forward.. why are you scared? jeez its just a woman!!
    well be upfront...n ask her if she likes u or not...if she wud tell u NO...tell her not to bother her again anymore........well take chances
    Don't speed up the process. Don't be hurry. Girls always need time to realize and decided, but sometimes they are suspicious. The girl will think that someone doesn't love her if he less care to her. So, the best advice is to keep close to her naturally, don't insult her with your aggressive and make her fed off. Keep calm but still aware.





    Good luck.
    Hit her with your club and drag her back to your cave..God i miss the cave man days.

    Need Advice about a shy guy!!!!?

    There is this guy who works at a casino, and every now and then when me and my sister go there, we see him. But lately he has been acting weird, he seems shy but he still seems to make that effort to be around us, yet he never does anything to talk to us. A couple nights ago one of the guys that work there told my sister that one of the staff members liked her and I'm thinking its him but my sister says if it was him then why isn't he trying to talk to her...How can I help this situation???..... my sister doens't want to be the one to go up to him first, she thinks he might freak out or something!!! I want to help.Need Advice about a shy guy!!!!?
    Personally I think you might need to intervene, because it sounds like he's really shy and your sister is kinda shy but maybe alitte insecure too. I had that same problem with a guy, he was shy and yes he acted annoyingly weird, he always seemed to be where I was but he never ever tried to talk to me until I got my friend to give him my number. So maybe that sounds alittle upfront but trust me sometimes with these shy guys a first step is always better than waiting and waitng.... Do you have a good feeling about your sister and this guy ??? If yes then my advice is: try to get them together!!! Have fun playing Cupid.Need Advice about a shy guy!!!!?
    I would agree with what Rhiannon said, except that I think you should approach him if you like him. I always say don't leave love to chance. Not all relationships started with the guy coming forward.
    just wait for sometime i think he'll come up. u juz try to show tht u r ignoring him then he'll come automatically. hy dear thts the rule *MORE U IGNORE PEOPLE MORE THEY COME CLOSER* just apply this rule and see te result. gud luck....
    Well my opinon is if a guy likes a girl enough then he will overcome his shyness and confront the girl himself.
    Just wait it out. If he is thinking about her and talking about her sooner or later he will approach her.
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