Need Advice about g/f?

Ok I am seeing this female for about 7 months now. She says her ex-was abusive towards her, which I do kind of believe. But she still talks to him, and on his myspace account he just updated his picture to be w/ him and her in it. Now in her deffense she has not seen it yet, but is she still w/ this dude? She has hung out w/ him because they still have mutual friends. But she nevers tells me when he is going to be around, and now the whole myspace picture deal, I am kind of worried.Need Advice about g/f?
women who have been abused either physical or mental for some reason fell attached to this person. Its werid, its almost like they have a hold on you and no matter what they can always bring you back in.





She needs to break away from him or she may wind up going back with him.





She may want to be with you but those guys make you feel bad about who you are, they tell you that your worthless and no one will ever want them and then, you start to beleive it, and you go back to them. Please, talk to her. She may even need help from a counseler or therapist.Need Advice about g/f?
Hes probably trying to get her back. But dont judge her by his actions. Ask her if she knows whats going on with him.
don't sound like he abused her to me
Hm.


Well, abusive or not why is she still talking to an ex if she is with you.


If he was abusive he should be in jail.


If he was abusive she should NOT be talkng to him at all.





You either have to have a major heart to heart with her or call this off now because it's not going to get better...
do you see that big red flag waving in front of your face....pay attention to it...good luck
You need to break up with her. She's treating you like a chump. Once you break up with her, the truth will work its way back to you.
You should talk to her about it I mean maybe they are just friends but you never know honestly if a guy was ever abusive towards me i would never even speak to him but you probably should talk to her and she pry wont say that she is cheating but you can tell when someone is lying and then also you can sometimes tell if someone is cheating because their kiss is different or so i have heard on the tyra show lol well hope i helped
aright dude you need to figure out what is going through this chicks head. like she's obv still got something going with this guy so you needa talk to her and be like it's her or me and figure out if she's a good girlfriend to you. she's obv got something going with this dude cause if he was really an *** like that then she wouldn't be talking to him. and since she just put her pic of of her and her ex BADD IDEA ! is she like stupid aright dude get your stuff straight talk to her and be like yo we gotta talk about this ****!
yeah ask her about it and be like whats going on. because if she is with him that would be awful. and if she just says shes friends then.. tell her how u feel
ask her what she thinks about it and tell her how you feel. be honest.
well. you need to check up on her. you should ask her straight out. is she still with him. was he abusive and make sure that she noes that you know when she is lying she needs to take this stuff seriously. but on the other hand if she still sees them she might just be joking around. just get her story straight. if he does ever become abusive and u see the physical change with her you should take it to the police.
talk to her about this situation....tell her it makes you uncomfortable tell her that you care about her and what to know why she wants to be around a guy who hurt her. she might still have feelings for him.....but she obviously has feelings for you too.








good luck
Ask her
They are boning, and she made up getting beat by him or is one of those women who like to be knocked around. Lose her
Sometimes in an abusive relationship the female feels responsible for why she is being abused. She may feel she can help him, or change him, however she has brought you into the situation, which means in a sense you are now being abused mentally. By seeing her getting hurt and you are with her may seem to make you feel out of place. She may need counseling, she must stay away from this man at all cost, and you are putting yourself in danger being with her. He may try to hurt you for being with her. Tell her your feelings, and mostly look at your safety.