My ex and I separated in November 2008, after he cheated on me with another women. He moved out and we didnt see eachother for a few weeks to give each other some space. I then moved into a new place in March and since then we have been sort of seeing eachother again, well we have sort have been seeing eachother since January, but since I moved into my new place he has been staying over every night, and its like we are in a relationship again, behind closed doors we act like a couple, we go to get togethers together and still go out with our old group of friends together. The only difference is we are not ';actually'; together, and I want to know how long this can continue for before you say, ';right its either now or not at all'; I dont want to say that and he says he is not ready, the only problem is we are practically a couple anyways so there would really be no difference apart from on the committment side.
He seems to think he can still do as he wants, which is right as we are not a couple however when the shoe is on the other foot and it comes to me, i have to check with him first that it is ok to do something, and let him know where i am, and who i'm with and when I am texting somebody he likes to know who it is, however when I ask him anything he says he is not my boyfriend so it is none of my business, but he acts like my bf... its so confusing!! LOL
Anyone got any advise for me as I am so down about this whole situation...
Thanks xxAdvice about my ex, how long can this go on for?? Help please!!?
you can move on from him being unfaithful as long as youve fully forgiven him and are over this, this is common after people split they end up sleeping with each other, is this really worth fighting for,are you going to be together in ten years, could you marry a man whos cheated on you once, is it worth spending another year..two years together, are you happy now if you have the talk and get back together do you think there wil be any issues still in the relationship sort them out now, if they can be sorted then move on sure it feels good now but the novelty soon wheres off and you have to decide where does this leave you and how do you feel about everything
good luckAdvice about my ex, how long can this go on for?? Help please!!?
You are a booty call, and he doesn't want you to sleep with other men. You are being used and are to blind to realize this. If you can remember you left him for a reason. Move on, kick him out and don't talk with him again. You can do better for yourself.
He wants to sleep with you and other women at the same time. Sorry.
EDIT: Who says you just have to have sex at night? %26gt;.%26gt;
He is abusing you. Simply that, abusing you. Do you really want to live like this where he rules and you comply and he can and you cant?
Next time tell him it's none of his business when he asks what you're doing, you have no obligations to him. Say it's your house, your rules. The guy cheated on you. He's probably texting some other girl whilst using you and your place for reasons not known.
You deserve someone better than him, he's getting comfortable and probably feels like he got away with cheating on you so he'll do it again because he knows you're a soft touch. Find someone better.
He may be with these other women during the day, you don't know.
okay well, human nature is to want what you don't have, but when you were with him, he cheated on you. So there's something in you that he doesn't like, or he just isn't getting enough, you know? so do you really want to start dating a guy who openly cheated on you? i mean yes there is someting there, that's how you guys got together. It's the end result that isn't good. I know it's tempting to go back into familiar patterns, but you really need to just take a breath, and get over it. Because no matter how much he begs, he's still the guy that mistreated you and it takes alot for people to change
to be honest with you, he cheated once and that was while you were together. he is going to do it again. dont take him back because he will most likely play you unless you can really tell he changed his ways. and i dont think you would know if he was sleeping with other women, obviously cheaters know how to hide things. sex isnt limited to night time.
so basically your been **** buddies at the mo and yes he will get jealous of you with other guys and what not even if he has got another girl same way that you would with him even doh you might not be together any longer were you still got that connection it doesn't feel right to see your ex with sum 1 else and it will last as long as you let him, you need to ask him straight up what is happening if he wants you to be with you other wise then go your separate ways cos your not getting anything out of it apart from sex, and as for the phone call txt and so on just do the same to him come on he is already been protective of his personnel belongings is for a reason we don't hide our phones or leave the room to answer a call if we haven got anything to hide.
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