I always find that the girls i like are the ones that have no interest in me i need some advice on how to talk to this one because im sick and tired of going out with people i dont find very interesting at all.I need some advice about a girl i realy like but so far i havent talked to?
i think u should just be yourself. if she is really worth your liking, then there is a chance she might like you too. Be confident, because that is one thing that girls always fall for. if u find her an interesting person, talk to her about something u think she'll want to talk about. show her u want to get to know her and like her as a person. and if shes right for u, it'll happen :)I need some advice about a girl i realy like but so far i havent talked to?
Well...play a little romeo. Leave her a flower with a note ';from a secret admirer';. guess its a first step and take it from there.
Go up to her and just talk to her. Muster up some courage and DO IT!! Girls like guys who have the b@lls to say something. Buy her a single flower, not a rose, but something pretty, and say to her, ';I saw this today and thought of you, so I had to buy it for you';... see her reaction then!!!
Good luck!
ok i used to have the same problem. this is what i found. Just be Proud of you. be exactly who you are and let everyone know that your proud of it. don't be afraid to talk to anyone. just go up and talk. even if it's just saying hey and asking how she is... i'm telling you most women like a confident man so that's what you have to be. hope it helps a little. let me know how things work out.
Saturday, July 31, 2010
I need your advice about my mother's problem.....?
My mother is 75 and since I remember she used to provoke jeoulsy between her children to force them to do things that she wanted....For example if my brother wouldn't study she would tell him how my sister was good at school.and if my sister was not obeying what she wanted she would tell her how wise and mature my brother was and if I was naughty she would tell how my brother and sister were and would never do such a things I were doing.....well the result is that none of the children have good relationship with each other and of course with her now....although she was a wonderful mother and was very caring and had sacrifised everything in her life for the sake of her children....even now when she wants something from me she does the same thing she first admires my brother or my sister in front of me because of what she desires and then she asks me what she wants me to do.she is old and fragile now ...so what can I do when I get angry with this?I need your advice about my mother's problem.....?
Do we know each other ?You are describing my mom to boot.They are manipulators.Do only what you can for herI need your advice about my mother's problem.....?
My grandmother is that way. I thought about it one day and I came to this conclusion: She probably ain't gonna change and I'll just have to accept it. As hard as that sounds, ya know, she's in her golden years and I wouldn't want her to leave me on bad terms. Don't let this put a cleft between you all. Try to focus more on the good times with each other.
Forgive %26amp; forget it it's in the past.Deal with it %26amp; move on.
“And your Lord has decreed that you not worship except Him, and to parents, good treatment. Whether one or both of them reach old age [while] with you, say not to them [so much as], ';uff,'; and do not repel them but speak to them a noble word.” [Quran 17: 23]
“And We have enjoined upon man [care] for his parents. His mother carried him, [increasing her] in weakness upon weakness, and his weaning is in two years. Be grateful to Me and to your parents; to Me is the [final] destination.” [Quran 31:14]
“…No mother should be harmed through her child, and no father through his child…” [Quran 2: 233]
';…My Lord and Sustainer! Be kind and have mercy on them as they cherished, nurtured and sustained me in childhood.” [Quran 17: 24]
Once a companion asked the Prophet as to whom he should show more kindness. The Prophet replied: ';Your mother.'; He asked who comes next and the Prophet again replied: ';Your mother.'; He asked the Prophet yet again who comes next. The Prophet replied: “Your mother.'; When the companion asked for the fourth time, only then did the Prophet reply: ';Your father.';
Start comparing her to other mothers who would never do such a thing.
Since you already knew your mother from the very first start I suggest you just keep it astride and don't get jealous and pityful, remember your mom is already in his twilight years any moment or time now she will be called by our maker. So there will be no more mom to talk too or see.
Just imagine the good things you two do when you are still a child, regardless of what she does to any of your sister or brother, she is just a good story teller to make each and every one of you to move on and strive hard in this life. In other words she challenge you all to think for yourself because in the end she will be gone and will be just brothers and sisters, that is what's life is all about. Think positive not just dwell on the past, we can never returned to the past but definitely look up for the future. Will you still dwell in the past?
She learnt how to manipulate you all and it worked! You should do only what you can since you already know that this is her method of getting things done. There is no point in being jealous or trying to outdo your siblings, you're all adults with your own lives so it's petty to let it carry on. If you get angry with her about it, instead of blowing up or sulking, just laugh and say in a jocular way that you learnt long ago that she tries to 'trick' you into doing things and then say what you are able to do and will do depending on her request. She may not do it next time...
what can you do? except dont repeat the cycle with your own children ..we learn from our experiences and i bet your kids will have a great relationship with eachother but they will resent you for other reasons ,no one is a perfect parent and there are no model children ..thank your mom for doing her best and hope that you can do yours...and think of all the great things she told your siblings about you......learn to forgivemakeup look
Do we know each other ?You are describing my mom to boot.They are manipulators.Do only what you can for herI need your advice about my mother's problem.....?
My grandmother is that way. I thought about it one day and I came to this conclusion: She probably ain't gonna change and I'll just have to accept it. As hard as that sounds, ya know, she's in her golden years and I wouldn't want her to leave me on bad terms. Don't let this put a cleft between you all. Try to focus more on the good times with each other.
Forgive %26amp; forget it it's in the past.Deal with it %26amp; move on.
“And your Lord has decreed that you not worship except Him, and to parents, good treatment. Whether one or both of them reach old age [while] with you, say not to them [so much as], ';uff,'; and do not repel them but speak to them a noble word.” [Quran 17: 23]
“And We have enjoined upon man [care] for his parents. His mother carried him, [increasing her] in weakness upon weakness, and his weaning is in two years. Be grateful to Me and to your parents; to Me is the [final] destination.” [Quran 31:14]
“…No mother should be harmed through her child, and no father through his child…” [Quran 2: 233]
';…My Lord and Sustainer! Be kind and have mercy on them as they cherished, nurtured and sustained me in childhood.” [Quran 17: 24]
Once a companion asked the Prophet as to whom he should show more kindness. The Prophet replied: ';Your mother.'; He asked who comes next and the Prophet again replied: ';Your mother.'; He asked the Prophet yet again who comes next. The Prophet replied: “Your mother.'; When the companion asked for the fourth time, only then did the Prophet reply: ';Your father.';
Start comparing her to other mothers who would never do such a thing.
Since you already knew your mother from the very first start I suggest you just keep it astride and don't get jealous and pityful, remember your mom is already in his twilight years any moment or time now she will be called by our maker. So there will be no more mom to talk too or see.
Just imagine the good things you two do when you are still a child, regardless of what she does to any of your sister or brother, she is just a good story teller to make each and every one of you to move on and strive hard in this life. In other words she challenge you all to think for yourself because in the end she will be gone and will be just brothers and sisters, that is what's life is all about. Think positive not just dwell on the past, we can never returned to the past but definitely look up for the future. Will you still dwell in the past?
She learnt how to manipulate you all and it worked! You should do only what you can since you already know that this is her method of getting things done. There is no point in being jealous or trying to outdo your siblings, you're all adults with your own lives so it's petty to let it carry on. If you get angry with her about it, instead of blowing up or sulking, just laugh and say in a jocular way that you learnt long ago that she tries to 'trick' you into doing things and then say what you are able to do and will do depending on her request. She may not do it next time...
what can you do? except dont repeat the cycle with your own children ..we learn from our experiences and i bet your kids will have a great relationship with eachother but they will resent you for other reasons ,no one is a perfect parent and there are no model children ..thank your mom for doing her best and hope that you can do yours...and think of all the great things she told your siblings about you......learn to forgive
I Need Some Advice About This Boy Please!!!?
I like my friends brother. during the school year i got to know my friends older borther cuz he was in a lot?
of my classes. he was nice, funny and always helped me with homework. his sister-my friend-is a year younger than us.shes a really good friend cuz we both play a sport so we're together a lot. 1 day i told her i liked her brother she said hes weird and has never had a girlfriend and is like anti-girlfriend or something, she didnt really know how to explain him. i think hes just shy or doesnt know how to ask a girl out or something like that. anyways now thats its summer he has been away at camp and i havent seen/talked to him. really want him as my boyfriend, but i think that would be so awkword around my friend, (i think she thinks i dont like him anymore cuz she talks about him alot and doesnt ask if i like him anymore). a few days ago i told some1 i liked him and they're like ohh!! hes so cute, hes the nicest person ever you gotta do it!! everyone says that but idk what toI Need Some Advice About This Boy Please!!!?
Remember your friend first because she was there first. But if you really like him and don't make it uncomfortable for your friend then go for it. Just be honest with your friend, him, and yourself. Take it slow aswell never rush into things.I Need Some Advice About This Boy Please!!!?
I did not get u wat do wanna say???
Well me i'm not an expert in this type of situation my situation is so different but why would your friend hate you for something like that i mean if one of my younger friends liked my brother i wouldn't mind hey as long as my brother is happy it's cool with me and as long as my friend treats hiim right the only reason your friend would hate is if she allready had someone in mind to setup her brother with or she really doesn't likes you as a friend and pretends to be your friend or maybe she would get jealous that you would spent more time with her brother if you were his girlfriend then spending time quality with your younger friend.
If you dont want your friend to hate you, and people already know you like her brother, then you just need to be honest with her and say, hey. I still like your brother.
I mean, not many people would be immature enough to do something psychotic like end a friendship over a truthful statment like that. and as for getting him to ask a girl out, you might be the kind of girl he is trying to avoid, that standard mentality.
You see, you just talked about getting him to ask you out. Maybe he is like me, and wouldnt ever want to date a girl not independent enough to ask the guy out for a change. :)
Ask your sister about him, why he doesnt like girls. He might just be fed up with the overwhelmingly typical type of girl in todays world.
My advice, is to just follow whatever your heart tells you!
go up and ask then talk to him if you friend thinks its okay........the worst thing that could happen is well he could not like you........
Well.....hes like me,i never really asked a girl out yet....im kinda shy.....i think it would be easier if you girls gave us guys some hints...its hard to make a move on you girls if you always make it seem like you dont notice us,what i think you should do is say hi to that guy...if not then he'll probly be like me and not even bother with you EVER. So im just sayin its worth a shot =D
Let's make it real simple--do you REALLY like this guy? Then offer to be his girlfriend, tell him how you feel and be straight-forward.
If you care more about your friendship than him, then don't bother. You're only going to hurt him and you and your friend by making a lame attempt at a relationship. He's not worth your time if you can't give it to him.
Good luck!
i think you should first tell your friend you still like her brother regardless of how anti girfriend she says he is if she is your true friend she will not hate you then you should talk to him go for it hes probably just shy and needs you to make the first move...good luck!
Clear it with your friend first. Tell her point blank that you like him and are interested in a relationship. Tell her you want an honest answer as to how she feels about it. Tell her that you will respect her wishes, because your friendship is the most important to you because boys come and go, and friendship is what truly last. With all that said, make sure she understands how much you actually like him. When you get her honest answer, listen to her. If she is ok with it, go for it. If she is not, then respect her wishes. There are tons of guys at your school, I'm sure, and that is nothing compared to the world that's full of them. Odds are, ten years down the road, you will have no relationship with him, however, there's a great chance you %26amp; her will still be friends. Good Luck!
just tell her the truth if shes your friend you should be able to talk to her.if she gets mad then shes not a real friend.
you cant help how ya feel but what you do about says who you are.
ok?
first of all change your retarded looking avatar its distracting my thinking
i think you should get to know him better first. ask your friend before asking him. if you get to know him better you might be able to tell if he likes you or not that's how i did it! but I'm pretty much real straight forward..... and ummm... good luck...... yeah i feel weird telling someone that =/
of my classes. he was nice, funny and always helped me with homework. his sister-my friend-is a year younger than us.shes a really good friend cuz we both play a sport so we're together a lot. 1 day i told her i liked her brother she said hes weird and has never had a girlfriend and is like anti-girlfriend or something, she didnt really know how to explain him. i think hes just shy or doesnt know how to ask a girl out or something like that. anyways now thats its summer he has been away at camp and i havent seen/talked to him. really want him as my boyfriend, but i think that would be so awkword around my friend, (i think she thinks i dont like him anymore cuz she talks about him alot and doesnt ask if i like him anymore). a few days ago i told some1 i liked him and they're like ohh!! hes so cute, hes the nicest person ever you gotta do it!! everyone says that but idk what toI Need Some Advice About This Boy Please!!!?
Remember your friend first because she was there first. But if you really like him and don't make it uncomfortable for your friend then go for it. Just be honest with your friend, him, and yourself. Take it slow aswell never rush into things.I Need Some Advice About This Boy Please!!!?
I did not get u wat do wanna say???
Well me i'm not an expert in this type of situation my situation is so different but why would your friend hate you for something like that i mean if one of my younger friends liked my brother i wouldn't mind hey as long as my brother is happy it's cool with me and as long as my friend treats hiim right the only reason your friend would hate is if she allready had someone in mind to setup her brother with or she really doesn't likes you as a friend and pretends to be your friend or maybe she would get jealous that you would spent more time with her brother if you were his girlfriend then spending time quality with your younger friend.
If you dont want your friend to hate you, and people already know you like her brother, then you just need to be honest with her and say, hey. I still like your brother.
I mean, not many people would be immature enough to do something psychotic like end a friendship over a truthful statment like that. and as for getting him to ask a girl out, you might be the kind of girl he is trying to avoid, that standard mentality.
You see, you just talked about getting him to ask you out. Maybe he is like me, and wouldnt ever want to date a girl not independent enough to ask the guy out for a change. :)
Ask your sister about him, why he doesnt like girls. He might just be fed up with the overwhelmingly typical type of girl in todays world.
My advice, is to just follow whatever your heart tells you!
go up and ask then talk to him if you friend thinks its okay........the worst thing that could happen is well he could not like you........
Well.....hes like me,i never really asked a girl out yet....im kinda shy.....i think it would be easier if you girls gave us guys some hints...its hard to make a move on you girls if you always make it seem like you dont notice us,what i think you should do is say hi to that guy...if not then he'll probly be like me and not even bother with you EVER. So im just sayin its worth a shot =D
Let's make it real simple--do you REALLY like this guy? Then offer to be his girlfriend, tell him how you feel and be straight-forward.
If you care more about your friendship than him, then don't bother. You're only going to hurt him and you and your friend by making a lame attempt at a relationship. He's not worth your time if you can't give it to him.
Good luck!
i think you should first tell your friend you still like her brother regardless of how anti girfriend she says he is if she is your true friend she will not hate you then you should talk to him go for it hes probably just shy and needs you to make the first move...good luck!
Clear it with your friend first. Tell her point blank that you like him and are interested in a relationship. Tell her you want an honest answer as to how she feels about it. Tell her that you will respect her wishes, because your friendship is the most important to you because boys come and go, and friendship is what truly last. With all that said, make sure she understands how much you actually like him. When you get her honest answer, listen to her. If she is ok with it, go for it. If she is not, then respect her wishes. There are tons of guys at your school, I'm sure, and that is nothing compared to the world that's full of them. Odds are, ten years down the road, you will have no relationship with him, however, there's a great chance you %26amp; her will still be friends. Good Luck!
just tell her the truth if shes your friend you should be able to talk to her.if she gets mad then shes not a real friend.
you cant help how ya feel but what you do about says who you are.
ok?
first of all change your retarded looking avatar its distracting my thinking
i think you should get to know him better first. ask your friend before asking him. if you get to know him better you might be able to tell if he likes you or not that's how i did it! but I'm pretty much real straight forward..... and ummm... good luck...... yeah i feel weird telling someone that =/
HELP! I need advice about a boy!?!?!?
My best friend is 18 and im 15. and i really like her younger brother!!! But they hate each other! and they live across the country every time i see them i think he might like me but i dont know. is it wrong to like him and i dont no if i should make a move!?!? every time we see each other we get closer but i dont no wat to do! HELP?!!!!!HELP! I need advice about a boy!?!?!?
long distance isn't good. Sounds like drama. Don't.HELP! I need advice about a boy!?!?!?
yes, i don't think you should date her brother.
dont the girls have a saying like:
chicks before d*cks or something?
of course its not WRONG to like him, you can't help it. however, if you think this could ruin a great friendship with you best friend, i would advise against being more than friends with him. boyfriends don't usually last as long as friendships, especially with girlfriends. i wouldn't date him unless you are planning to marry him. If they truly HATE each other, decide which you value more, because its kind of hard to have your 2 best friends hate each other if they know each other.
if you really like him, than your friend will understand. if you're worried that she wouldn't, than ask her. if she seems completely disgusted by the idea, hide it by saying 'just kidding!!', and smile. if you're not worried about her approval, but his, than give it a try, don't go too far before you know for sure, though, or things might turn out ugly. good luck!!
Jump his bones. ^_^
I would simply recommend talking to the boy. If you find out he likes you too and wants to pursue something, then you should talk to his older sister and see if she would mind. It could put a large strain on your friendship because she may feel as she is coming 2nd to him. You need to make it clear to her that you are engaging in a relationship with him, but you will always be friends with her, regardless of how the relationship with her brother plays out. It will also be important for you to ask her if it is okay if you talk to her about issues you are having in the relationship, it may be that she is uncomfortable knowing things about her brother in that way. I think you need to think about how you intend to juggle it, splitting your time between them equally like you would do if you were engaging in a relationship with anyone. Talk to the boy first, and if he likes you, then go to your best friend. By talking to the boy first, you relieve yourself and your best friend of any unnecessary tension. Good luck!
never go for a freinds brother, causes to much trouble for all concerned.
TOSS MY SALAD!!!!
definitely do NOT.
a girl who i was friends with (not best) but still close, i found out she hookedup/madeout with my brother and we were never friends after that. when people found out they thought it was really messed up for her to do that. ontop of that i lost all respect for her. its just something you dont do, a true friend wouldnt do it. its one thing if you hookedup and then became friends with her, but other than that... nononono dont do it if you want to keep your friendship
im a guy and i know some stuff ok? first how old is this guy? if he is under your age........ well thats kinda weird cause the guy usualy is older than the women not that im sexist though im sorry if u think that but ive heard that saying alot....but if u love him alot gofor it im not god or anything and i didnt TELL u to do anything.
talk to her!!!!!!!!!!!! use an icebreaker like when ur on the subject of guys anyway. u HAVE to make it right with her or otherwise it will b MORE awkward whenever u go over there!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! just dont think about it 2 much. hope it helps
Okay well if he likes you, he probably is already noticing you. You could do your hair differently, or where ever he goes follow. And plus you could find out what he likes and strike up conversation.
i say talk to her and him about things and how u feel
How old is he? If you like him and he likes you...sure go for it, but remember it'd be long distance.
Follow your heart and your friend, if she is really your friend, will understand, and maybe all three of you will become closer!
What's more important your best friend or the possibility that her brother might like you.....they don't go hand in hand. If you take a chance and he doesn't like it you've totally blown it. And, if he's interested let HIM make the move. Then your friend can't hate you.
just talk to him
i like salads
this might cause probs w/friend mabey u should talk to her about it to get a feel for her reaction
Ask yourself: is your friend important to you? If you date her brother, she may get VERY upset with you. For girls, it's more important to keep your girl friends than to date guys. The same goes for guys: it's more important to keep your guy friends than trade them for girlfriends.
Don't let fear stop you from exploring! Your path is your own have fun.
You should do what your heart tells you. If you like someone tell them if you think they might feel the same way. Your friend should understand any decision you make no matter what.
No Dear, it's not wrong to like him! You can't help when the love bug bites!! If she truly is your best friend then she will understand how you feel. Who knows, it might even help bring them closer together. Good Luck and relax and let nature take it's course. When you are around him, act just like you always have. You said that ever time you see each other you get closer, so have fun and take things easy!!! Good Luck, all will work out in the long run, don't worry too much!!
idk
I think you have the right to like anyone you want. I would suggest a serious talk with your best friend before you make a move so you can explain the situation to her, and she should understand your feelings, im mean shes your best friend. Just dont try to make it without her knowledge otherwise it could be worse.
Good luck ;)
maybe you can help them with their relationship...through the guy of course...you'll get closer in a positive way but won't be in a romantic relationship
Find someone else to like.... There are plenty of fish in the sea, and I am sure you will find someone wonderful, because you deserve nothing less... Sorry hon that you are in this situation, but chin up!
dont make the first move...
forget him
You're 15 and believe me there are plenty of guys in your future. Don't risk a friendship over some guy who lives across the country.
It is definetly not wrong to like him!!! I say you go and make a move, girl! If your best friend has a problem with you liking him, she has some serious issues. A best friend, in my opinion, is someone who loves you no matter what you get yourself into, even if it means dating her brother. If she's truely your best friend, she will love you no matter what you do in life. That's what BFF's are for!
You're Best Friend is Not You're Brain She's You're Partner. But Don't Choose A Guy Over You're Best Friend Or Else Yo u Won't Have Any';! So it's Really What You're Hart Desires For You Ask Him Out When You're Friend Not Around';! Inplus She'll Be Going Off To College Soon Right';?
long distance isn't good. Sounds like drama. Don't.HELP! I need advice about a boy!?!?!?
yes, i don't think you should date her brother.
dont the girls have a saying like:
chicks before d*cks or something?
of course its not WRONG to like him, you can't help it. however, if you think this could ruin a great friendship with you best friend, i would advise against being more than friends with him. boyfriends don't usually last as long as friendships, especially with girlfriends. i wouldn't date him unless you are planning to marry him. If they truly HATE each other, decide which you value more, because its kind of hard to have your 2 best friends hate each other if they know each other.
if you really like him, than your friend will understand. if you're worried that she wouldn't, than ask her. if she seems completely disgusted by the idea, hide it by saying 'just kidding!!', and smile. if you're not worried about her approval, but his, than give it a try, don't go too far before you know for sure, though, or things might turn out ugly. good luck!!
Jump his bones. ^_^
I would simply recommend talking to the boy. If you find out he likes you too and wants to pursue something, then you should talk to his older sister and see if she would mind. It could put a large strain on your friendship because she may feel as she is coming 2nd to him. You need to make it clear to her that you are engaging in a relationship with him, but you will always be friends with her, regardless of how the relationship with her brother plays out. It will also be important for you to ask her if it is okay if you talk to her about issues you are having in the relationship, it may be that she is uncomfortable knowing things about her brother in that way. I think you need to think about how you intend to juggle it, splitting your time between them equally like you would do if you were engaging in a relationship with anyone. Talk to the boy first, and if he likes you, then go to your best friend. By talking to the boy first, you relieve yourself and your best friend of any unnecessary tension. Good luck!
never go for a freinds brother, causes to much trouble for all concerned.
TOSS MY SALAD!!!!
definitely do NOT.
a girl who i was friends with (not best) but still close, i found out she hookedup/madeout with my brother and we were never friends after that. when people found out they thought it was really messed up for her to do that. ontop of that i lost all respect for her. its just something you dont do, a true friend wouldnt do it. its one thing if you hookedup and then became friends with her, but other than that... nononono dont do it if you want to keep your friendship
im a guy and i know some stuff ok? first how old is this guy? if he is under your age........ well thats kinda weird cause the guy usualy is older than the women not that im sexist though im sorry if u think that but ive heard that saying alot....but if u love him alot gofor it im not god or anything and i didnt TELL u to do anything.
talk to her!!!!!!!!!!!! use an icebreaker like when ur on the subject of guys anyway. u HAVE to make it right with her or otherwise it will b MORE awkward whenever u go over there!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! just dont think about it 2 much. hope it helps
Okay well if he likes you, he probably is already noticing you. You could do your hair differently, or where ever he goes follow. And plus you could find out what he likes and strike up conversation.
i say talk to her and him about things and how u feel
How old is he? If you like him and he likes you...sure go for it, but remember it'd be long distance.
Follow your heart and your friend, if she is really your friend, will understand, and maybe all three of you will become closer!
What's more important your best friend or the possibility that her brother might like you.....they don't go hand in hand. If you take a chance and he doesn't like it you've totally blown it. And, if he's interested let HIM make the move. Then your friend can't hate you.
just talk to him
i like salads
this might cause probs w/friend mabey u should talk to her about it to get a feel for her reaction
Ask yourself: is your friend important to you? If you date her brother, she may get VERY upset with you. For girls, it's more important to keep your girl friends than to date guys. The same goes for guys: it's more important to keep your guy friends than trade them for girlfriends.
Don't let fear stop you from exploring! Your path is your own have fun.
You should do what your heart tells you. If you like someone tell them if you think they might feel the same way. Your friend should understand any decision you make no matter what.
No Dear, it's not wrong to like him! You can't help when the love bug bites!! If she truly is your best friend then she will understand how you feel. Who knows, it might even help bring them closer together. Good Luck and relax and let nature take it's course. When you are around him, act just like you always have. You said that ever time you see each other you get closer, so have fun and take things easy!!! Good Luck, all will work out in the long run, don't worry too much!!
idk
I think you have the right to like anyone you want. I would suggest a serious talk with your best friend before you make a move so you can explain the situation to her, and she should understand your feelings, im mean shes your best friend. Just dont try to make it without her knowledge otherwise it could be worse.
Good luck ;)
maybe you can help them with their relationship...through the guy of course...you'll get closer in a positive way but won't be in a romantic relationship
Find someone else to like.... There are plenty of fish in the sea, and I am sure you will find someone wonderful, because you deserve nothing less... Sorry hon that you are in this situation, but chin up!
dont make the first move...
forget him
You're 15 and believe me there are plenty of guys in your future. Don't risk a friendship over some guy who lives across the country.
It is definetly not wrong to like him!!! I say you go and make a move, girl! If your best friend has a problem with you liking him, she has some serious issues. A best friend, in my opinion, is someone who loves you no matter what you get yourself into, even if it means dating her brother. If she's truely your best friend, she will love you no matter what you do in life. That's what BFF's are for!
You're Best Friend is Not You're Brain She's You're Partner. But Don't Choose A Guy Over You're Best Friend Or Else Yo u Won't Have Any';! So it's Really What You're Hart Desires For You Ask Him Out When You're Friend Not Around';! Inplus She'll Be Going Off To College Soon Right';?
I need relationship advice about if i should end it or not?
Ive been dating this girl since she was 16, and i was 19 at the time, for 3 years. She has hurt me a lot in the past but i still love her. Some of the things she has done in the past are....
She cheated on me and made out with another guy.
She kissed 2 of my previous best friends and gave one a hand job.
Made out with a guy more then once at her apt. near college.
Said she got raped by a guy she thought was very hot.
went to a dorm party where i saw pictures of naked guys prancing around.
Kissed a guy downstairs of her apt.
Broke up with me then 2 weeks later had sex with another guy.
This stuff has all mosty happend in the past. Is it still cheating if even tho we werent exacty together but on a break did this stuff? I feel like im blind and cant leave her. Should i leave her? I feel like she has made me numb now because of all the stuff that has happend. I cant trust her. Its hard for me to leave bad relationships. Please help me.I need relationship advice about if i should end it or not?
you need to move on she is using you just to say she has a boyfriend. If she loved you she would not do any of those thingsI need relationship advice about if i should end it or not?
You gotta walk away. Her sexual appetite is too strong to ever be faithful to you and you will be forever betrayed. You will be hurt again and again if you try to continue this. Just take a deep breath and suffer through ending this now for good. Now that you're 21, you might then look for a girl in her early- or mid-20's because she'll be well past the sexploratory stage of a teenager or college girl.
Once a **** always a ****.....She'll f$#@ your mother if you let her. Dump her. First find a new girlfriend yourself. Then when the time is right....let her catch you cheating on her. But by the time this happens you will really like your new girlfriend and won't even care. Remember....A liar will cheat,a cheater will steal and a thief will kill....she'll boil your puppy if you let her think she can get away with it. No matter how much it hurts to read this. She doesn't love you enough to not rub on your friends nuts.....sorry
leave her! how often should you be hurt by her lack of respect before you get cheated on again?she should broken up with because she's immature to be in a relationship and thinks she's hot stuff to be kissing and sex with other men. then find a better person to be with that does know the word COMMITMENT.
If there's no trust, there's no real realtionship as that is a key part of the foundation of a successful one. You have to decide for yourself to go or stay, but if you cannot trust someone, why stay? Can the trust be repaired? Couples counseling perhaps? If not...s'up to you but I wouldn't be with someone I couldn't trust. This life is too short to stay in a situation that isn't happy and pleasant when it's within our power to change it.
Dude, I'm sorry to hear all that has happened to you. People don't deserve to be put through such hell. But you have to allow her to let go of your heart. Right now she knows that you will be there for her and she is using your for that. Don't let her do it anymore. You need to somehow shut her out of your life for a while until you can get over her. I know it's hard after 3 years because you can still think of the good things that went on in the relationship...but she's not that person anymore. Think about all the bad stuff for a while until you have no feeling of wanting her back. I'm sorry to tell ya, but she is never going to change. She doesn't want you Hun, she is sleeping around and you are convincing yourself she still loves you when she wouldn't do that to someone she loves. You gotta move on with your life, there's a lot of women out there that would appreciate you.
She cheated on me and made out with another guy.
She kissed 2 of my previous best friends and gave one a hand job.
Made out with a guy more then once at her apt. near college.
Said she got raped by a guy she thought was very hot.
went to a dorm party where i saw pictures of naked guys prancing around.
Kissed a guy downstairs of her apt.
Broke up with me then 2 weeks later had sex with another guy.
This stuff has all mosty happend in the past. Is it still cheating if even tho we werent exacty together but on a break did this stuff? I feel like im blind and cant leave her. Should i leave her? I feel like she has made me numb now because of all the stuff that has happend. I cant trust her. Its hard for me to leave bad relationships. Please help me.I need relationship advice about if i should end it or not?
you need to move on she is using you just to say she has a boyfriend. If she loved you she would not do any of those thingsI need relationship advice about if i should end it or not?
You gotta walk away. Her sexual appetite is too strong to ever be faithful to you and you will be forever betrayed. You will be hurt again and again if you try to continue this. Just take a deep breath and suffer through ending this now for good. Now that you're 21, you might then look for a girl in her early- or mid-20's because she'll be well past the sexploratory stage of a teenager or college girl.
Once a **** always a ****.....She'll f$#@ your mother if you let her. Dump her. First find a new girlfriend yourself. Then when the time is right....let her catch you cheating on her. But by the time this happens you will really like your new girlfriend and won't even care. Remember....A liar will cheat,a cheater will steal and a thief will kill....she'll boil your puppy if you let her think she can get away with it. No matter how much it hurts to read this. She doesn't love you enough to not rub on your friends nuts.....sorry
leave her! how often should you be hurt by her lack of respect before you get cheated on again?she should broken up with because she's immature to be in a relationship and thinks she's hot stuff to be kissing and sex with other men. then find a better person to be with that does know the word COMMITMENT.
If there's no trust, there's no real realtionship as that is a key part of the foundation of a successful one. You have to decide for yourself to go or stay, but if you cannot trust someone, why stay? Can the trust be repaired? Couples counseling perhaps? If not...s'up to you but I wouldn't be with someone I couldn't trust. This life is too short to stay in a situation that isn't happy and pleasant when it's within our power to change it.
Dude, I'm sorry to hear all that has happened to you. People don't deserve to be put through such hell. But you have to allow her to let go of your heart. Right now she knows that you will be there for her and she is using your for that. Don't let her do it anymore. You need to somehow shut her out of your life for a while until you can get over her. I know it's hard after 3 years because you can still think of the good things that went on in the relationship...but she's not that person anymore. Think about all the bad stuff for a while until you have no feeling of wanting her back. I'm sorry to tell ya, but she is never going to change. She doesn't want you Hun, she is sleeping around and you are convincing yourself she still loves you when she wouldn't do that to someone she loves. You gotta move on with your life, there's a lot of women out there that would appreciate you.
I need advice about my major and career!?
When I picture my future I picture me being successful, living in a large city like Manhattan or Boston and having a great job. I'm majoring in Psychology and I wouldn't mind being a Clinical Psychologist with my own practice and specializing in Marriage and Family therapy. I've taken a billion career aptitude tests online and basically every single one said that I would make a good therapist because I'm good with people. However, ever since I was little I wanted to be a vet. The thing is I hate chemistry and blood and can't picture myself putting an animal to sleep. I know people say you get used to it but I don't think I want to get used to killing an animal or having guts and blood in my hands. I honestly can't see myself in the profession but for some reason I don't want to let it go. What should I do? Are there any careers that encompass both psychology and animals?I need advice about my major and career!?
To become a psychologist you have to get a doctorate. This will take you enough work that any animal studies will distract you from what you will make your living at. And any animal involved job not involving being a vet will pay a lot less.
However, nothing will stop you from volunteering when you can at animal shelters where you may continue your other interest and to help out our furry friends. Besides, by doing that and your psych doctorate perhaps your research for you doctorate could be how animal behavior mimics human behavior in so many ways.I need advice about my major and career!?
sure, you can do research about animals and their psychology. there is always something that you can do.
Animal training, maybe
To become a psychologist you have to get a doctorate. This will take you enough work that any animal studies will distract you from what you will make your living at. And any animal involved job not involving being a vet will pay a lot less.
However, nothing will stop you from volunteering when you can at animal shelters where you may continue your other interest and to help out our furry friends. Besides, by doing that and your psych doctorate perhaps your research for you doctorate could be how animal behavior mimics human behavior in so many ways.I need advice about my major and career!?
sure, you can do research about animals and their psychology. there is always something that you can do.
Animal training, maybe
Need good advice about a relationship?
Me and My ex-girlfriend have broken up three times now. One of the problems in the relationship was she was black and I was white. I knew mt parents wouldn't approve, so i never told them. for the first two months we were madly in love with each other. But over the course of the relationship things happened between my parents and how I handled them.
After the last break-up which was three weeks ago we had been talking. the problem is that right after we broke-up she went out on a date with the guy I thought she was cheating on me with. she says that there little more than friends. now I still have feelings for her, made the mistake of saying I still loved her and all that. For a while it was normal, we hanged out and it was fun. then it became painful to be around her. it put me into a depression and I told her how I felt. Im over that part. but she said that there was a slim chance that we would get back together.
im willing to take that. so any advice would help.Need good advice about a relationship?
i sat here thinking, but im out of advice here man lolNeed good advice about a relationship?
something similar happened to me...
the best advice i would give that people break up for a reason...
me and my fiance have broken up like 20 times now and i went thru the same thing with her...
things got good but there is still that something in the back of my mind that i hate remembering seeing her with someone else..
the best thing to do is to let it go...
you will find a girl for you i guarantee it!
You were being spineless and she got passive aggressive with you.
The damage is done - learn from your mistakes and move on.
Don't date girls of a different race if you are so wanting your mom and dad's approval.
haha im not too good at giving advice, can i interest you in a sarcastic comment?
First of all do NOT act desperate. She will just blow you off most likely.Act like you love her without sounded corny, or it sounding forced so shell come back. Explain to her why you love her and she just might come back
And good luck, Im also white with a black girlfriend.
don't chase after a chick who's not even sure if she wants you.
but if you truly do like her then put in effort without throwing yourself at her.
Shes going out with some one else and your feeling sick...Uve broke up 3x....she told you theres a slim chance of u 2 getting back together..sorry my friend but ur pretty much done...
Maybe she's saying there's a slim chance that you guys would get back together just to see how you react and so she's playing with your head. since you told her you still love her and want to be back together, she might be thinking that she can easily call the shots.
girls do that a lot.
If she continues to act as if she doesn't want you back, then try and stay cool and act as if things are okay and that she isn't so important to you anymore. by doing this, she might be scared that she would really lose you or might be upset that she won't mean as much to you for you to care anymore.
Or you can hang out with another girl and get her jealous.
But if things don't work out then might as well walk away and not make a fool out of yourself after so long if its obvious she's not going to get back with you.
best of luck :]
After the last break-up which was three weeks ago we had been talking. the problem is that right after we broke-up she went out on a date with the guy I thought she was cheating on me with. she says that there little more than friends. now I still have feelings for her, made the mistake of saying I still loved her and all that. For a while it was normal, we hanged out and it was fun. then it became painful to be around her. it put me into a depression and I told her how I felt. Im over that part. but she said that there was a slim chance that we would get back together.
im willing to take that. so any advice would help.Need good advice about a relationship?
i sat here thinking, but im out of advice here man lolNeed good advice about a relationship?
something similar happened to me...
the best advice i would give that people break up for a reason...
me and my fiance have broken up like 20 times now and i went thru the same thing with her...
things got good but there is still that something in the back of my mind that i hate remembering seeing her with someone else..
the best thing to do is to let it go...
you will find a girl for you i guarantee it!
You were being spineless and she got passive aggressive with you.
The damage is done - learn from your mistakes and move on.
Don't date girls of a different race if you are so wanting your mom and dad's approval.
haha im not too good at giving advice, can i interest you in a sarcastic comment?
First of all do NOT act desperate. She will just blow you off most likely.Act like you love her without sounded corny, or it sounding forced so shell come back. Explain to her why you love her and she just might come back
And good luck, Im also white with a black girlfriend.
don't chase after a chick who's not even sure if she wants you.
but if you truly do like her then put in effort without throwing yourself at her.
Shes going out with some one else and your feeling sick...Uve broke up 3x....she told you theres a slim chance of u 2 getting back together..sorry my friend but ur pretty much done...
Maybe she's saying there's a slim chance that you guys would get back together just to see how you react and so she's playing with your head. since you told her you still love her and want to be back together, she might be thinking that she can easily call the shots.
girls do that a lot.
If she continues to act as if she doesn't want you back, then try and stay cool and act as if things are okay and that she isn't so important to you anymore. by doing this, she might be scared that she would really lose you or might be upset that she won't mean as much to you for you to care anymore.
Or you can hang out with another girl and get her jealous.
But if things don't work out then might as well walk away and not make a fool out of yourself after so long if its obvious she's not going to get back with you.
best of luck :]
I need advice about having a baby...?
Okay, so I am 17. BUT, I have been married for 2 years, I have a 2 year old with my husband, we are financially stable, we have a three bedroom house (plenty of room for another little one) and I will be done with school in Oct. Now, I am SUPER baby hungry and I don't see any reason we shouldn't get pregnant other than my age, which I would be 18 by the time the baby was born anyway. What do you think? Should I wait to even get pregnant until I am 18? Please, don't be rude.
I am curious to hear some advice! =)I need advice about having a baby...?
Married at 15? Crazy.
Anyway, you should look at all the medical aspects of having children so young and the negative effects on both you and your child.
But, it's your life and your body, so if you want to have another one then don't let anyone stop you. But... Yeah, I agree with the statement that if you have to ask on here, then no. You're just going to get rude people or 16 year olds saying ';YOU GO GIRL!'; and neither of that is very helpful.
Think it over for longer, talk to your husband, discuss your options, think about the current economy and whether or not your husbands job is going to be there in a couple months (not to be mean, I just know plenty of people who have lost their jobs), and whether or not you'll be financially stable to have TWO kids (I hope you remember how expensive it can be to have a baby, or if your parents did everything, I hope you can understand how expensive it can be). Just because you're financially stable now does not mean you should have one now, you need to be mentally and physically ready as well, not to mention things like insurance and plenty of backup money for emergencies.
But, good luck either way. I only hope the best for you and your family. You're so young, you have a lot to learn. I'm only 21 myself and I know I have a ton of growing up to do still, but I'm pregnant with my second child and my life is crazy right now, so I can't really tell others that having a child isn't in their best interest without being a hypocrite.I need advice about having a baby...?
Sure why not if your responsible enough to have one baby and both want another one and can take care of it. Which sounds like you can. I think it is your decision and if you feel like your ready why not. I mean you are young but that doesn't make you a bad parent. I get baby hungry but i don't want to have another baby until my husband and I feel ready. And after our last baby we decided to fix that problem.
If you honestly have to ask on *here* whether or not you should have another baby then, no, you should not have another one yet.
Talk to your husband.
**To Army Mommy and wife - medical aspects? The optimal age for females to reproduce is between 18-22. So really, this girl's body is primed at this time. What 'medical aspects' are you talking about??
wow 17 and married and a 2 yr old and want a baby
well thats the gap thats my kids are its a nice gap in age
u can get the 2 yr old potty trained then have one to change
i realy think school should come first then the 2 baby so u don't put to much on your dish at one time
u are young u have lots of time take your time
I would say, wait until you are out of school in Oct
Then talk to your husband about what he wants and what you want
Maybe by next summer you will have or be pregnant with your second child
I would suggest you wait until you are done with school
Have as many kids as you want. its your life, be happy with kids if that's what you want, I have 4 and another on the way..no one can tell you when to stop having kids or when you should have them, go on and be happy...best of luck to your family...
You are way to young for a baby. Babies need a mature mom and dad and a stable life. I think you are just trolling but thats besides the point. Don't bring innocent children in this world.
Am I the only person who thinks that the phrase ';baby hungry'; is a little disturbing?
I think you should figure out who you are. I don't think you ever had a chance to do that. :( There will be plenty of time to have more babies. Go to college!
I think you should wait till you are a lot older. Its bad enough to have 1 at that age let alone 2
Sure, go for it if you guys are happy and stable.mineral makeup
I am curious to hear some advice! =)I need advice about having a baby...?
Married at 15? Crazy.
Anyway, you should look at all the medical aspects of having children so young and the negative effects on both you and your child.
But, it's your life and your body, so if you want to have another one then don't let anyone stop you. But... Yeah, I agree with the statement that if you have to ask on here, then no. You're just going to get rude people or 16 year olds saying ';YOU GO GIRL!'; and neither of that is very helpful.
Think it over for longer, talk to your husband, discuss your options, think about the current economy and whether or not your husbands job is going to be there in a couple months (not to be mean, I just know plenty of people who have lost their jobs), and whether or not you'll be financially stable to have TWO kids (I hope you remember how expensive it can be to have a baby, or if your parents did everything, I hope you can understand how expensive it can be). Just because you're financially stable now does not mean you should have one now, you need to be mentally and physically ready as well, not to mention things like insurance and plenty of backup money for emergencies.
But, good luck either way. I only hope the best for you and your family. You're so young, you have a lot to learn. I'm only 21 myself and I know I have a ton of growing up to do still, but I'm pregnant with my second child and my life is crazy right now, so I can't really tell others that having a child isn't in their best interest without being a hypocrite.I need advice about having a baby...?
Sure why not if your responsible enough to have one baby and both want another one and can take care of it. Which sounds like you can. I think it is your decision and if you feel like your ready why not. I mean you are young but that doesn't make you a bad parent. I get baby hungry but i don't want to have another baby until my husband and I feel ready. And after our last baby we decided to fix that problem.
If you honestly have to ask on *here* whether or not you should have another baby then, no, you should not have another one yet.
Talk to your husband.
**To Army Mommy and wife - medical aspects? The optimal age for females to reproduce is between 18-22. So really, this girl's body is primed at this time. What 'medical aspects' are you talking about??
wow 17 and married and a 2 yr old and want a baby
well thats the gap thats my kids are its a nice gap in age
u can get the 2 yr old potty trained then have one to change
i realy think school should come first then the 2 baby so u don't put to much on your dish at one time
u are young u have lots of time take your time
I would say, wait until you are out of school in Oct
Then talk to your husband about what he wants and what you want
Maybe by next summer you will have or be pregnant with your second child
I would suggest you wait until you are done with school
Have as many kids as you want. its your life, be happy with kids if that's what you want, I have 4 and another on the way..no one can tell you when to stop having kids or when you should have them, go on and be happy...best of luck to your family...
You are way to young for a baby. Babies need a mature mom and dad and a stable life. I think you are just trolling but thats besides the point. Don't bring innocent children in this world.
Am I the only person who thinks that the phrase ';baby hungry'; is a little disturbing?
I think you should figure out who you are. I don't think you ever had a chance to do that. :( There will be plenty of time to have more babies. Go to college!
I think you should wait till you are a lot older. Its bad enough to have 1 at that age let alone 2
Sure, go for it if you guys are happy and stable.
I need advice about TTC & Swine Flu?
My husband and i have been planning on TTC in in November bcuz we really wanted to conceive by december. Anyway, a girl in my town just died of swine flu. She got it when she was pregnant and they had to give her an early emergency c-section cuz she was so sick and then she died a few weeks later. So now im really scared!! What is your take on this ladies. Do you think getting pregnant in the winter months is pretty darn stupid? Or does it even matter cuz ur pregnant so long part of it is bound to be in winter time anyway??? Please help . Is anyone on here preg now with the swine flu? Howz it going for you. Any advice would be great. ThanxI need advice about TTC %26amp; Swine Flu?
How weird...
same thing just happend where I live too,
I'm just going with the flow, planning the best way possible and let mother nature do the rest.
I don't think getting pregnant in the winter months is stupid, just my opinion though.I need advice about TTC %26amp; Swine Flu?
Swine-flu showed its face May-July and is expected to show its face during winter as well. Once you become pregnant you will be priority to receive the vaccine
you cant live life being scared just do the things you want life is too short and i had my first in december and it was fine and now ttc #3
Get the Swine Flu vaccine as soon as you concieve. Pregnant ladies are top priority to get the shot!
Dont be scared, and dont stop trying!
Good luck
How weird...
same thing just happend where I live too,
I'm just going with the flow, planning the best way possible and let mother nature do the rest.
I don't think getting pregnant in the winter months is stupid, just my opinion though.I need advice about TTC %26amp; Swine Flu?
Swine-flu showed its face May-July and is expected to show its face during winter as well. Once you become pregnant you will be priority to receive the vaccine
you cant live life being scared just do the things you want life is too short and i had my first in december and it was fine and now ttc #3
Get the Swine Flu vaccine as soon as you concieve. Pregnant ladies are top priority to get the shot!
Dont be scared, and dont stop trying!
Good luck
I need advice about love making?
Ok let me fill you in first what I am going to tell you is not a lie or an exaggeration. I'm asking because of this reason! My girlfriend and I have been together for three years but have not had penetrative sex. We were waiting for the right time. Shes not a virgin and neither am I but she's only been with 1 person. Which is good so have I, but the last girl I was with was unfortunately a whore. Anyways.. my girlfriend now is practically a virgin. We want to make love soon. but we she is very nervous.. here is why.. this is not exaggeration and Im actually really afraid of hurting her. my penis is only 6 inches long but it is 2 1/2 inches wide. ( please don't laugh) I want to make love to her but she's practically a virgin and we're both very nervous we know its going to hurt her at first but we want to go through with it and im also afraid she'll end up not because of the girth scaring her. Any advice on how we can make this easier?I need advice about love making?
you actually measure! sickI need advice about love making?
a lot of foreplay to get her ready for you??
seeing as a woman can get a baby out of there im sure she can deal with 2 and a half inches...she'll just need some help to get there
I get scared like hell, as much as I want it, I wish we wait until I am in your arms for real. I dont know if you can understand how it is for an average person who has no special powers, but trust me on this one, this is completely mind blowing. I dont know where I have found the strength to stay this long. Please dont do it and leave me laying in the dark alone wondering what will be tomorrow or in a year time. I am afraid I will not be able to forgive you that pain. And we have had it enough on both sides, right?
All you need to know is to knock the bottom out of that!!!
yes!... buy lubricants.
Do lots of foreplay.
Finger her vagina with your fingers, 1, then 2 and eventually three before you penetrate. Take the time, arouse her a lot, use lots of lube and eventually stretch her big enough for you.
Hope this helped....anyway...how the hell did you make it so thick :-O
LOTS of lube.
and take it easy on her.
tell her to relax her muscles, and if she says to stop, then stop!!
take the penetration nice and slow
JUST RELAX ... LET HER DO THE MOVE .... GET ON BABY.............
Its will be good if you lubricate your penis first before penetrating. But please dont force it. And please do not let her be a minor. bcos the law do not accept it.
I will like it if you can wait till marriage. dont listen to what others say about you. I know what i am saying.
Take your time getting ready for the actual penetrative bit, plenty of stimulation first.
Be gentle and listen to her if she says it hurts.
Try a little bit of foreplay and oral. Get her wet first, helps her to relax and loosing up. Trust me. You lick it right, down their,and hit that G-spot, she'll beg for more...
I wouldn't worry, we are made to take whatever.
Just shove that sucker in there sure its goona hurt but after the inital blow she will love it!
you actually measure! sickI need advice about love making?
a lot of foreplay to get her ready for you??
seeing as a woman can get a baby out of there im sure she can deal with 2 and a half inches...she'll just need some help to get there
I get scared like hell, as much as I want it, I wish we wait until I am in your arms for real. I dont know if you can understand how it is for an average person who has no special powers, but trust me on this one, this is completely mind blowing. I dont know where I have found the strength to stay this long. Please dont do it and leave me laying in the dark alone wondering what will be tomorrow or in a year time. I am afraid I will not be able to forgive you that pain. And we have had it enough on both sides, right?
All you need to know is to knock the bottom out of that!!!
yes!... buy lubricants.
Do lots of foreplay.
Finger her vagina with your fingers, 1, then 2 and eventually three before you penetrate. Take the time, arouse her a lot, use lots of lube and eventually stretch her big enough for you.
Hope this helped....anyway...how the hell did you make it so thick :-O
LOTS of lube.
and take it easy on her.
tell her to relax her muscles, and if she says to stop, then stop!!
take the penetration nice and slow
JUST RELAX ... LET HER DO THE MOVE .... GET ON BABY.............
Its will be good if you lubricate your penis first before penetrating. But please dont force it. And please do not let her be a minor. bcos the law do not accept it.
I will like it if you can wait till marriage. dont listen to what others say about you. I know what i am saying.
Take your time getting ready for the actual penetrative bit, plenty of stimulation first.
Be gentle and listen to her if she says it hurts.
Try a little bit of foreplay and oral. Get her wet first, helps her to relax and loosing up. Trust me. You lick it right, down their,and hit that G-spot, she'll beg for more...
I wouldn't worry, we are made to take whatever.
Just shove that sucker in there sure its goona hurt but after the inital blow she will love it!
I need advice about husband ?
Well, first of all.. My husband told me he is not going to his moms house today. I made a meal for dinner and then waiting for him to come over to house and then he is starting to tell me he wants to go to his mom's house. I said ';I thought you were not going there today and you told me you are going there tomorrow?!'; I wanted to be alone with him and watching movie together and then he is starting to tell me ';My grandmother were going to pay movie for 8:45pm'; I told him to go there tomorrow. He went to his mom's house straight 3days this week and i told him to stay with me today and then i told him '; if you really want to go there then go to your mom's house and stay there as long as you want'; He is starting to telling me '; You are very crazy and sick girl'; . I said '; I am very crazy and sick girl because of i am telling you to go to your mom's house?'; I can't believe he is talking to me in that way or is this my fault? I need advice about him?I need advice about husband ?
Go with him and see why he is so interested in going over there. Did his Dad pass away, or is his Mom single?I need advice about husband ?
Either he is going to his Mom's because there is a problem there or he is going out on you. You could call his mom during the week, and get yourself an invite over to find out the truth
You married a mama's boy..sorry
sounds like he is hiding something or he is just stressed and needs to think before he speaks. we all think that the man is supose to be perfect casue there the man but i know you can remember a day or two where you didnt talk to him repectfully so forgive and forget and talk it out
Go with him and see why he is so interested in going over there. Did his Dad pass away, or is his Mom single?I need advice about husband ?
Either he is going to his Mom's because there is a problem there or he is going out on you. You could call his mom during the week, and get yourself an invite over to find out the truth
You married a mama's boy..sorry
sounds like he is hiding something or he is just stressed and needs to think before he speaks. we all think that the man is supose to be perfect casue there the man but i know you can remember a day or two where you didnt talk to him repectfully so forgive and forget and talk it out
I need advice about track and field?
Alright. Starting today this is my first time participating in a real team sport. I participated in Track practice today and I didn't do horrible to the point that I was crying but I was very tired and it felt like I couldn't hear out of one ear. So what can I do at home or outside of school so that I can be prepared for track practice? I need some good ideas. What exercises could I do at home to build by endurance and stamina and strength? Do I drink more energy drinks? What to do? Please please please help me. I am not quitting (I know that much). Oh, I forgot. I have asthma. So yes please help me. I want to improve myself so much more. Your advice could really help a lot.I need advice about track and field?
Okay one... you don't need to be an athelete to do track, you just need to enjoy it.
Any way it is common, the lack of hearing in one ear thing. You were probably so tired you were slightly dissoriented, especially if you are not used to physical excurtion like that either. After a while you will get into shape and it won't be problomatic to run at all, your body will adjust. That will pass you just got to get in shape. I would suggest doing some things at home: run up some stairs then jog easily back down then run back up and repeat, after the third rest a minute and do it again. This will help your calves get stronger and your endurance get better. Don't over exurt yourself, be careful!
Food-
Energy Drinks: Don't drink energy drinks!!!!!!!!!!!! Really, those are so bad for runners. If you absoultly are addicted to those then drink no more than a half of one on friday night. And not every friday!
Soda: Caffeine is so bad for you. It dries out any water that is in your system over a day. It is bad as well because it affects your throat and thereby your resporation system to where it hurts to breath in after a long enough of practices (Believe me, I didn't stop drinking pop... and when I had to do long runs my throat would get dry, and I would get dehydrated... it's not good for you!).
Sugar: No you don't have to eat not sugar. really just cut down on the amount of non-complex carbs. These are simple sugars that are easy for your body to digest... it does not give you energy and it makes you chubby because your cells take it in and do not burn it off. So you can eat candy every know and then... just cut back on it.
Meals: Eat a lot of carbs. If you want energy do it naturally, don't drink energy drinks eat bagels, rice, bread, yougurt, bananas, protein bars, cereal, anything grainy really and chicken and pasta. All of these things are LOADED with carbs, your body takes them in and because they are complex it takes a while to break down, therefore you are allowed to burn your carbs over a period of time.
GOOD LUCK! Take it easy, eat smart, make wise choices and enjoy yourself. After all if it wasn't fun for you, then what would be the point of it? Over time you won't get as tired, just work it easy until you get strong. Have you tried weight lifting? That is the track kids secret way to success with-in one season. Promise! Also try wall sits, those are wonderful too. Just got sit against the wall, thighs parallel to the ground and arms above your head. Do this for 2 minutes, take a minute break, do it for 2 minutes then take a minute break, then do it for a minute and stretch! Again good luck!I need advice about track and field?
First and foremost you must be willing to try. Track and field is all about your drive and how much soul you put into it. Motivation is important too - think of reasons why you did track and who you might want to impress with your abilities. There will be a lot of times when you will want to quit a run or just get lazy, but you must promise yourself from the beginning that you will indeed pull through.
Some tips/things to do:
- Lots of water and less sugary drinks, unless it's an energy drink/vitamin source.
- Exercise daily. When you have a day off, use it as an opportunity to stretch your hamstrings and arms. Quad stretches and regular pushups are helpful.
- Do not concentrate on the pain when you run hard. Concentrate on what you want to accomplish and how effort will get you there.
- Try to get as much sleep as you can. It can really improve your running performance.
- Talk to others while running. Finding a running buddy will make you feel more appreciated on the track.
- Make sure you have the proper running shoes that work well with your running. Gloves and gear for the weather is important as well.
- Take your inhaler whenever necessary.
- Look at running positively and not something you have to do. It can release some anxiety, and in addition, it evidently benefits your body.
- Find passion in track and field so you are excited when you're about to run. When you get outside, you're golden.
It does take time, but you'll get it. Everyone has potential.
Best wishes.
You jsut need to get in a little bit more shape is all, if you want to do 'okay', if you want to go for the best on your team, you'll have to push yourself.
Do some strength trainging, go to your YMCA, or a gym, or see about if your school has a gym/weight room.
Try and sign up for programs that will have you run. On your own you will feel like you are finished, when you could keep it up, some programs can psh you so you can get better than you could on your own.
eat better, of course. really more people should eat better whether they run or not. Although, don't get eating better mixed up with this no-carb diet crap. Carbs are your eneryg! ignore diets, focus on a healhty lifestyle.
running can become funner as you get more expierenced. If you know pain is coming, (like practice) embrace it and make the best of it.
oh btw- as others have said don't drink a bunch of energy drinks. I get annoyed when I see kids from my school drinking gatorade as a causal thing. Gatroade is for AFTER practice. it rehydrates you, it's basically just flavored water with salt, the salt makes your cells want water, and so they get water to the cells faster than just drinking straight up water. But to much salt/overhydrating cells..isn't good.
keep your hopes up. all you got to do is get more practice. every day you should run aruond the block for an hour. energy drinks will never help its just your body and your systems are not ready to be in a big race you got to give it time.
track is HARD lol. i do 300 hurdles 100 hurdles long, triple, high jump and 4x4. whatever they need me for lol. i am anemic. and i have like NO energy. ive been doing track since 9th grade. i am now in the 12th. and honestly i am just naturally talented. varsity for 3 years. at practices i stride while others run full out. i get a sense of adrenaline at track meets. and i just hate others beating me. so i usually win. but you have to be self motivated. try jump roping and running on ur own time to better yourself. stretch really well. and use trainer shoes while working out. hope this helps a little.
eat better is well drink a lot of water only. About Energy Drinks you should only drink them after you do your training. It's good that you were really tired you will get quicker results also about training go for a 30min run when you get up or after you have dinner you run at a comfortable yet run so it pushes you a bit you will be able to run further and further
be a man not a p*ussy....play a mans sport. chicks don't dig guys that run in circles.
Okay one... you don't need to be an athelete to do track, you just need to enjoy it.
Any way it is common, the lack of hearing in one ear thing. You were probably so tired you were slightly dissoriented, especially if you are not used to physical excurtion like that either. After a while you will get into shape and it won't be problomatic to run at all, your body will adjust. That will pass you just got to get in shape. I would suggest doing some things at home: run up some stairs then jog easily back down then run back up and repeat, after the third rest a minute and do it again. This will help your calves get stronger and your endurance get better. Don't over exurt yourself, be careful!
Food-
Energy Drinks: Don't drink energy drinks!!!!!!!!!!!! Really, those are so bad for runners. If you absoultly are addicted to those then drink no more than a half of one on friday night. And not every friday!
Soda: Caffeine is so bad for you. It dries out any water that is in your system over a day. It is bad as well because it affects your throat and thereby your resporation system to where it hurts to breath in after a long enough of practices (Believe me, I didn't stop drinking pop... and when I had to do long runs my throat would get dry, and I would get dehydrated... it's not good for you!).
Sugar: No you don't have to eat not sugar. really just cut down on the amount of non-complex carbs. These are simple sugars that are easy for your body to digest... it does not give you energy and it makes you chubby because your cells take it in and do not burn it off. So you can eat candy every know and then... just cut back on it.
Meals: Eat a lot of carbs. If you want energy do it naturally, don't drink energy drinks eat bagels, rice, bread, yougurt, bananas, protein bars, cereal, anything grainy really and chicken and pasta. All of these things are LOADED with carbs, your body takes them in and because they are complex it takes a while to break down, therefore you are allowed to burn your carbs over a period of time.
GOOD LUCK! Take it easy, eat smart, make wise choices and enjoy yourself. After all if it wasn't fun for you, then what would be the point of it? Over time you won't get as tired, just work it easy until you get strong. Have you tried weight lifting? That is the track kids secret way to success with-in one season. Promise! Also try wall sits, those are wonderful too. Just got sit against the wall, thighs parallel to the ground and arms above your head. Do this for 2 minutes, take a minute break, do it for 2 minutes then take a minute break, then do it for a minute and stretch! Again good luck!I need advice about track and field?
First and foremost you must be willing to try. Track and field is all about your drive and how much soul you put into it. Motivation is important too - think of reasons why you did track and who you might want to impress with your abilities. There will be a lot of times when you will want to quit a run or just get lazy, but you must promise yourself from the beginning that you will indeed pull through.
Some tips/things to do:
- Lots of water and less sugary drinks, unless it's an energy drink/vitamin source.
- Exercise daily. When you have a day off, use it as an opportunity to stretch your hamstrings and arms. Quad stretches and regular pushups are helpful.
- Do not concentrate on the pain when you run hard. Concentrate on what you want to accomplish and how effort will get you there.
- Try to get as much sleep as you can. It can really improve your running performance.
- Talk to others while running. Finding a running buddy will make you feel more appreciated on the track.
- Make sure you have the proper running shoes that work well with your running. Gloves and gear for the weather is important as well.
- Take your inhaler whenever necessary.
- Look at running positively and not something you have to do. It can release some anxiety, and in addition, it evidently benefits your body.
- Find passion in track and field so you are excited when you're about to run. When you get outside, you're golden.
It does take time, but you'll get it. Everyone has potential.
Best wishes.
You jsut need to get in a little bit more shape is all, if you want to do 'okay', if you want to go for the best on your team, you'll have to push yourself.
Do some strength trainging, go to your YMCA, or a gym, or see about if your school has a gym/weight room.
Try and sign up for programs that will have you run. On your own you will feel like you are finished, when you could keep it up, some programs can psh you so you can get better than you could on your own.
eat better, of course. really more people should eat better whether they run or not. Although, don't get eating better mixed up with this no-carb diet crap. Carbs are your eneryg! ignore diets, focus on a healhty lifestyle.
running can become funner as you get more expierenced. If you know pain is coming, (like practice) embrace it and make the best of it.
oh btw- as others have said don't drink a bunch of energy drinks. I get annoyed when I see kids from my school drinking gatorade as a causal thing. Gatroade is for AFTER practice. it rehydrates you, it's basically just flavored water with salt, the salt makes your cells want water, and so they get water to the cells faster than just drinking straight up water. But to much salt/overhydrating cells..isn't good.
keep your hopes up. all you got to do is get more practice. every day you should run aruond the block for an hour. energy drinks will never help its just your body and your systems are not ready to be in a big race you got to give it time.
track is HARD lol. i do 300 hurdles 100 hurdles long, triple, high jump and 4x4. whatever they need me for lol. i am anemic. and i have like NO energy. ive been doing track since 9th grade. i am now in the 12th. and honestly i am just naturally talented. varsity for 3 years. at practices i stride while others run full out. i get a sense of adrenaline at track meets. and i just hate others beating me. so i usually win. but you have to be self motivated. try jump roping and running on ur own time to better yourself. stretch really well. and use trainer shoes while working out. hope this helps a little.
eat better is well drink a lot of water only. About Energy Drinks you should only drink them after you do your training. It's good that you were really tired you will get quicker results also about training go for a 30min run when you get up or after you have dinner you run at a comfortable yet run so it pushes you a bit you will be able to run further and further
be a man not a p*ussy....play a mans sport. chicks don't dig guys that run in circles.
I need advice about my mom?
Ok, so i caught my mom on a dating site. plenty of fish or some thing. (my mom is NOT signal) in order for u to get this my mom and my dad are getting a divorce sooner or later. but my mom has a bf. he is in jail though for drunk driving. and she is seening other guys by the internet! their could be some rapist on there or killer. it says she is on their for ACTIVTY PARNTER!! i busted in tears when it said that. not to mention her picture on there is ***** slutty!
I told my older sister and she made an account on there to see what is she doing. She message her saying to meet her at the bar. in HER replay she gave out our address. in big detail. and she said she had a 13 and 17 year old kids that were girls! some **** murder could come by the house and kill me! im soo mad at her i havent talk to her in days. i cired myself to seelp as well. my sisterdoes too.
what should i do?I need advice about my mom?
try talking to her, telling her how you fell bout her dating guys that she doesnt really know.I need advice about my mom?
You need to live with your dad if you can. Your mother is putting you in grave danger! I've never heard of somebody being that stupid to give out that kind of information on the internet!
I guess this would depend if there are any other issues you have with your mom.
Has she ever put you in any other situations that you did not feel safe?
Otherwise, if not I would just talk to her about your feelings and concerns.
You have to remember that even though she is your mom she is a woman, and no matter how old you get you are always growing as a person. But people make mistakes and maybe you should point out to her in a nice manner that she may be making some that could potentially harm you. I don't think she is doing it on purpose.
If she's anything like me she will listen to you if you tell her you don't like a certain man. I couldn't date a man for very long that my children don't like. I did do it once and regret it.
My kids have to come before any man, and I'm afraid I made some serious mistakes in that department. I hope your mother doesn't do the same thing.
That is nasty...You should actually have a conversation with your mother so that she can understand where exactly you are coming from. I know it will be hard but just try it.
Tell your father .
you should talk to your mom
This is a pretty serious problem you're having and I think you're mom needs to seek professional help. I would suggest that you talk to someone close to her. You're mom's sister or brother. I would not advice you to discuss it with you're dad because it may just worsen the situation.
i agree w/ Hal, talk to her. Tell her how freaked out you are, and how much this hurts you.
Forget talking to mom.
If you can't find and talk to Dad, contact Child Protective Service.
Hopefully, you have an adult relative who can and will take over.
Talk 2 your mom!
I told my older sister and she made an account on there to see what is she doing. She message her saying to meet her at the bar. in HER replay she gave out our address. in big detail. and she said she had a 13 and 17 year old kids that were girls! some **** murder could come by the house and kill me! im soo mad at her i havent talk to her in days. i cired myself to seelp as well. my sisterdoes too.
what should i do?I need advice about my mom?
try talking to her, telling her how you fell bout her dating guys that she doesnt really know.I need advice about my mom?
You need to live with your dad if you can. Your mother is putting you in grave danger! I've never heard of somebody being that stupid to give out that kind of information on the internet!
I guess this would depend if there are any other issues you have with your mom.
Has she ever put you in any other situations that you did not feel safe?
Otherwise, if not I would just talk to her about your feelings and concerns.
You have to remember that even though she is your mom she is a woman, and no matter how old you get you are always growing as a person. But people make mistakes and maybe you should point out to her in a nice manner that she may be making some that could potentially harm you. I don't think she is doing it on purpose.
If she's anything like me she will listen to you if you tell her you don't like a certain man. I couldn't date a man for very long that my children don't like. I did do it once and regret it.
My kids have to come before any man, and I'm afraid I made some serious mistakes in that department. I hope your mother doesn't do the same thing.
That is nasty...You should actually have a conversation with your mother so that she can understand where exactly you are coming from. I know it will be hard but just try it.
Tell your father .
you should talk to your mom
This is a pretty serious problem you're having and I think you're mom needs to seek professional help. I would suggest that you talk to someone close to her. You're mom's sister or brother. I would not advice you to discuss it with you're dad because it may just worsen the situation.
i agree w/ Hal, talk to her. Tell her how freaked out you are, and how much this hurts you.
Forget talking to mom.
If you can't find and talk to Dad, contact Child Protective Service.
Hopefully, you have an adult relative who can and will take over.
Talk 2 your mom!
I need advice about an ex.....should i or should i not go?
ok so we were togather for awhile...i ended up breaking up w/ him at the end of july. He was my first love. But it was a bad breakup. iapologized and all that..and we would chat every now and then just a hi how r u kind of thing.
He sorta became wild after our breakup like getting drunk every day and sleeping with random girls. It was hard but i did end up mostly just letting it go...it took me awhile because like i said he was my first love..and i regretted the way i dumped him because i was scared. But eventually it passed ya know. I mean like i said we r civil with another. Well...like i said he went wild..which wasnt my business ne more...but he started dating some girl and it was only 3 weeks they went out lol...and i guess she dumped him yesterday. I've been going through a lot of crap lately...and posted a new blog on my myspace and he commented on it saying u go girl..some people just suck..sorry if i was ever an ******...and he called but i didnt have my phone..and weI need advice about an ex.....should i or should i not go?
Same thing happened to me but I hadn't seen him for 2 years and we met up and ended back together and we as well had a bad breakup I say just go for it.. Yea the bad memories will come back start building new ones.... Good Luck.I need advice about an ex.....should i or should i not go?
I wouldn't go. Getting over people is hard, this will just make it harder.
so what if he went wild who doesnt once in a while real love is worth going the extra mile
I wouldn't do it. You need a lot of time because when you see that person again all of the pain and bad memories come streaming back.
Hun I seriously wouldn't go trust me it will just be painful. I know you want to see him %26amp;nd what not, but ugh it will just suck. Give yourself time....most hated word in these kind of things I know but TIME heals all.
thank him for the offer but politely decline - you need to move on with your life - and it is not going to happen by spending time with him - you two will drink - you know what it will lead to...and you wind up hurt and confused...
If it were me, I wouldn't go! Breaking up is painful, almost like an open wound. Leave it alone and protect it and it will eventually heal. But if you accidently bump it, you will bleed all over again! You may eventually get to the point where you will remember the bad instead of the good everytime you see him...that's when you know you are over him. There are valid, serious reasons why we break up with someone...it's important to remember what they were, and don't be taken in again by lonliness or by forgetting the pain . Once you forget the pain, you are doomed to have it repeated. Time to move on and enrich your life somewhere else. Focus on tomorrow and let yesterday go.mineral makeup
He sorta became wild after our breakup like getting drunk every day and sleeping with random girls. It was hard but i did end up mostly just letting it go...it took me awhile because like i said he was my first love..and i regretted the way i dumped him because i was scared. But eventually it passed ya know. I mean like i said we r civil with another. Well...like i said he went wild..which wasnt my business ne more...but he started dating some girl and it was only 3 weeks they went out lol...and i guess she dumped him yesterday. I've been going through a lot of crap lately...and posted a new blog on my myspace and he commented on it saying u go girl..some people just suck..sorry if i was ever an ******...and he called but i didnt have my phone..and weI need advice about an ex.....should i or should i not go?
Same thing happened to me but I hadn't seen him for 2 years and we met up and ended back together and we as well had a bad breakup I say just go for it.. Yea the bad memories will come back start building new ones.... Good Luck.I need advice about an ex.....should i or should i not go?
I wouldn't go. Getting over people is hard, this will just make it harder.
so what if he went wild who doesnt once in a while real love is worth going the extra mile
I wouldn't do it. You need a lot of time because when you see that person again all of the pain and bad memories come streaming back.
Hun I seriously wouldn't go trust me it will just be painful. I know you want to see him %26amp;nd what not, but ugh it will just suck. Give yourself time....most hated word in these kind of things I know but TIME heals all.
thank him for the offer but politely decline - you need to move on with your life - and it is not going to happen by spending time with him - you two will drink - you know what it will lead to...and you wind up hurt and confused...
If it were me, I wouldn't go! Breaking up is painful, almost like an open wound. Leave it alone and protect it and it will eventually heal. But if you accidently bump it, you will bleed all over again! You may eventually get to the point where you will remember the bad instead of the good everytime you see him...that's when you know you are over him. There are valid, serious reasons why we break up with someone...it's important to remember what they were, and don't be taken in again by lonliness or by forgetting the pain . Once you forget the pain, you are doomed to have it repeated. Time to move on and enrich your life somewhere else. Focus on tomorrow and let yesterday go.
I really need some advice about my ex, and woudl appreciate your advice...?
it's been 2 years since i broke up with this guy..he was my first, but he never really treated me that great...anyway, i can't get over him no matter what i do, and i haven't met a guy that compares to him, so i think this is why i keep thinking about him...what do i do? I know i shoudlnt' go back to him, but what woudl you do if you coudln't get over someone? Is it possible that i'll never love again? i'm freaking out!!!I really need some advice about my ex, and woudl appreciate your advice...?
I was in same boat as you a couple years ago. My first love and I broke up and even a year later I still couldn't stop loving him, missing him, wanting to be with him. He was my first what can I say. But eventually (1 year later) he contacted me and so i got together with him and he and i were together for about 3 or 4 months and basically i got bored of him. So that is the way i got closure, i went back to him and I was the one who didn't want to be with him anymore. I mean it's different with everyone so i don't want you to think you will get closure that way but everyone is different. You have to find out a way to get closure or else you will NEVER get him off your mind. Now when it comes to him he is just like any other guy to me, i don't have any feeling for him anymore.I really need some advice about my ex, and woudl appreciate your advice...?
anythings possible. but i doubt youll never find love again. thers someone out there for you...you obviously just havent met him yet but you will.i dont think i really havent gotten over my first love and that was almost 11 years ago. i still think about him to....good luck hun youll find someone
you will believe me just give it some time.he treated you like garbage is that what you want.someone like that just waite and don't go looking for it it will come to you.
2 years is quite a while to still obsess about someone even if he was your first. If he didn't treat you great then you shouldn't be to hung up on him. Don't compare him to other men. That is where your problem lies. Each man you meet already doesn't have a fair chance. Look for qualities in men for themselves not for comparison to your ex. You will never love again if you don't give yourself the opportunity to let go of the past and see someone for who they are.... and what they can bring to a relationship. Good Luck to you.
You say yourself that he never treated you that great.
Why would you want to be treated like you are not worthy of being treated with respect ?
You always deserve the best.
Yes, you will love again...probably several times ( I don't know your age ).
Just don't feel like you deserve less than. If you do, you will always end up with a loser.
Make a list of the pros and cons about the guy. See which side is longer. Don't sugar coat it...be honest with yourself.
The right guy will come along when you are not looking. It never happens when you a desperately searching for someone.
Also remember. If you act insecure, or like you have low self esteem you will attract that.
Whatever we put out there people pick up on and they will search you out.
Think positive and move on !
Good luck !
the farther away from him you get the better he looks
VIP (Virgil Partch) once had a cartoon in four panels.
first - guy sitting at one end of the bar and a really woman at the other end
second - he's had some to drink and he's moved another seat closer to her
third - he's had a lot more and is two seats from her and she looks pretty good
fourth - he's plastered and she looks like madonna
IF you go after him and get back to him you'll remember really soon why you ditched his fanny and kick yourself for all the time you lost by not looking for a winner
Believe me youll love again. But stop comparing other guys to him, would you want a future boyfriend to compare you to his ex's. Everyone is different. Delete his number so you cant call him or get in touch with him and go on with everyday life. you'll get over him. y would u want him after he treated you bad. One day just take a long big cry, then wipe them and go out and enjoy yourself
if he made you uncomfortable he wasnt the one for you
and i suppose you cant find someone because of ';high expectations'; or you really arent looking
take it from me....i have been going threw this for 4 years stuff happens you will eventuly drop him out of your mind
first off calm down, take a breather... Scream it out if you have to...
Now what I want you to do is this.... think of all the things that wasn't done right in your relationship. Think about the things that pissed you off, and the things you could stand about him, after you've done that go read a good book, go talk to some friends about how life is treating them, keep busy for a while, if you feel yourself thinking about him again, take a breather and repeat the begining.
He may have been your first and you maybe still in love with him, but you even said so yourself that he didn't treat you all that great... So why go back to something that wasn't good in the first place... Stop comparing other guys to him... Stop wasting you time, do something that keeps you busy, if you have to think about him then then do, but don't think to long, Because all woman should be treated like queens and if you are taking less than that then you really don't want to be happy in the first place...
Laugh,
Cry,
Live,
Learn
Scream if you feel like, it doesn't matter where you are
Just keep busy...
YOUR LIFE SHOULDN'T BE WASTED ON THINKING ABOUT 1 GUY!!!!
Because you and I both know you deserved better.
So go out and get it
Stop thinking about what you lost rather focus on what you might find. Just because the next guy to come along is not the right one doesn't mean the past is the only thing you got. Look forward to falling in love again and that feeling of newness and getting no know someone from the beginning. You'll get over him but you need to stop giving him so much praise in your pretty little head when he really and truly was not that great. The right guy will be great to you and treat you the way you know you want to be treated. Have patience and PRAY...prayer really works.
In my 80 years I've learned everything changes with time. Have a little patience. You will have a different outlook with more maturity.
I don't think you should go back to him at all. What I did with my break up was, kept on ignoring the memories %26amp; trying to move forward. That helped me. I guess, whenever his memories hit your mind, change %26amp; switch to thinking of something else. I tried helping you
The first person you were intimate with is always a tough one to get over. You may never forget, but I promise you will get over it.
You said so yourself that he didn't treat you that great. You need to fill your time with other things and stop thinking about this guy. Call some friends, go to the movies, play a game a football, have a party, visit family/friends...
if he treated you bad, don't go back to him. you'll find someone new, it just takes time. it took me four years to get over my ex and i finally did and couldn't be happy with my boyfriend. %26lt;3
lol. honey calm down..
my first b/f broke up with me thru myspace(he couldn't even do it in person or a note.) a month ago..it's been really hard.
but i think i 've finally started to get over him. mabe just listen to some musicwith hatefull lyrics and cry..it's what i do everytime i think of how good things ';seemed to used to be';
you'll love again. trust me. my friends have done the exact of you. :)
Learn about how you hypnotize yourself by saying ';I can't get over him no matter what';. If you learn to speak in a way that reflects what you want it will change your reality.....I am so happy to now be in a relationship with someone I love respect %26amp; admire who also treats me so great.....you can read ';You Can Heal Your Life'; or get it on DVD to learn more about this.
I'm in the exact same situation... but my ex wasn't bad to me when we were together and he won't talk to me now. If I could take him back I would in a heartbeat. You can love another guy, it's just never the same. I've tried and even almost got married but it's just not the same. Never will be. When you figure out what to do will you message me too??
time is a doctor ! sorry..
work on how to accept friendliness of other person..then more...then more .. friendship in the way working with a lot of guarantees...( healthy sex is helpful)
cheers
if he was your first he will always have a place in your heart.. just dont let it bug you too much cause it will interfer with your next relationship!!! i am married and still think about my first. i even get butterflies when i see him.
hang out with your friends alot, get involved with sports or something, write a book, read a book, do anything that keeps your mind busy
You sound young and probably are. Time will heal and it's just a matter of finding someone else that is good. It will happen as long as you try. If you sit inside all day thinking about the ex then how can you meet a new guy? Next time he pops in your head think of the bad things he did. You need to be reminded that he was no good.
Have sex with someone else. What you are focussing on is the orgasms. You really think that no one else will ever make you feel that good again...well that is BS big time. If he treated you badly then he is selfish and selfish men are rarely good lovers. He made you think he was Cassanova because you were a virgin and had no one with whom to compare him.
Believe me, there are millions of potential suitors for you out there. And many of them will be MUCH better in bed thatn that creep was!! LMAO!!
try meting new people. if he didn't treat you right the first time hes not gonna treat you right the next itme. don't go back out with him. foucus onthe more positive things in your life like sports, school, friends, and the holidays comming up. =] good luck :D
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First of all calm down. Your young, you will love again. Everyone goes through there first love... And it does suck cause if they end bad your just so ugh for a while and cant seem to find anyone you like besides that ex because you got so much along with him. Give it time, stay single. enjoy it while it last.
Good Luck!
When I broke up with my boyfriend I was actually quite glad to get rid of him. He had been bugging me for a few months and I was tired of him staying over at his mates all the time. You have to get over him! It was 2 years ago, I'm sure your heart will be healed by now! Either way, Mr. Right will come and bump into you soon... :) It doesn't take a day to find a new boyfriend, I know, but when I met my current one I loved him MORE than I had ever loved my ex and probably more than he loved me. Just get him out of your mind and move on.
You will fall in love again, you just need to stop comparing everyone you date with your ex. Why would you want to be with someone who treats you bad. Forget him and find somebody who will treat you how you deserve to be treated.
you have never really experienced the true beauty of love so that why it hard for you to decide whats best. once you have you will not settle for less and you will know what your want and wont tolerate. just hang in there. the right on will come.
If I were you I'd get counseling to help with this. At least you're able to realize he never treated you great; that will help you realize (eventually) that other guys DO compare to him, because they're better for you and to you. Good luck.
Calm down. He's not the only guy on the planet. I hear so many people saying ';they can't get over their ex';. For one, you broke up for a reason. People tend to only remember the ';good times'; after a period of time after the break up. You said it yourself, he wasn't that great of a bf. So what's their really to get over. Stay busy and sooner than you know it, he'll me only a memory. Be happy and live your life and move on.
you know i have the same problem when i break up with a guy... a certain song comes on the radio and i think of him and the good times we had togahter..but my advice to yo is that when you meet someone elese you will forget all about him
I was in same boat as you a couple years ago. My first love and I broke up and even a year later I still couldn't stop loving him, missing him, wanting to be with him. He was my first what can I say. But eventually (1 year later) he contacted me and so i got together with him and he and i were together for about 3 or 4 months and basically i got bored of him. So that is the way i got closure, i went back to him and I was the one who didn't want to be with him anymore. I mean it's different with everyone so i don't want you to think you will get closure that way but everyone is different. You have to find out a way to get closure or else you will NEVER get him off your mind. Now when it comes to him he is just like any other guy to me, i don't have any feeling for him anymore.I really need some advice about my ex, and woudl appreciate your advice...?
anythings possible. but i doubt youll never find love again. thers someone out there for you...you obviously just havent met him yet but you will.i dont think i really havent gotten over my first love and that was almost 11 years ago. i still think about him to....good luck hun youll find someone
you will believe me just give it some time.he treated you like garbage is that what you want.someone like that just waite and don't go looking for it it will come to you.
2 years is quite a while to still obsess about someone even if he was your first. If he didn't treat you great then you shouldn't be to hung up on him. Don't compare him to other men. That is where your problem lies. Each man you meet already doesn't have a fair chance. Look for qualities in men for themselves not for comparison to your ex. You will never love again if you don't give yourself the opportunity to let go of the past and see someone for who they are.... and what they can bring to a relationship. Good Luck to you.
You say yourself that he never treated you that great.
Why would you want to be treated like you are not worthy of being treated with respect ?
You always deserve the best.
Yes, you will love again...probably several times ( I don't know your age ).
Just don't feel like you deserve less than. If you do, you will always end up with a loser.
Make a list of the pros and cons about the guy. See which side is longer. Don't sugar coat it...be honest with yourself.
The right guy will come along when you are not looking. It never happens when you a desperately searching for someone.
Also remember. If you act insecure, or like you have low self esteem you will attract that.
Whatever we put out there people pick up on and they will search you out.
Think positive and move on !
Good luck !
the farther away from him you get the better he looks
VIP (Virgil Partch) once had a cartoon in four panels.
first - guy sitting at one end of the bar and a really woman at the other end
second - he's had some to drink and he's moved another seat closer to her
third - he's had a lot more and is two seats from her and she looks pretty good
fourth - he's plastered and she looks like madonna
IF you go after him and get back to him you'll remember really soon why you ditched his fanny and kick yourself for all the time you lost by not looking for a winner
Believe me youll love again. But stop comparing other guys to him, would you want a future boyfriend to compare you to his ex's. Everyone is different. Delete his number so you cant call him or get in touch with him and go on with everyday life. you'll get over him. y would u want him after he treated you bad. One day just take a long big cry, then wipe them and go out and enjoy yourself
if he made you uncomfortable he wasnt the one for you
and i suppose you cant find someone because of ';high expectations'; or you really arent looking
take it from me....i have been going threw this for 4 years stuff happens you will eventuly drop him out of your mind
first off calm down, take a breather... Scream it out if you have to...
Now what I want you to do is this.... think of all the things that wasn't done right in your relationship. Think about the things that pissed you off, and the things you could stand about him, after you've done that go read a good book, go talk to some friends about how life is treating them, keep busy for a while, if you feel yourself thinking about him again, take a breather and repeat the begining.
He may have been your first and you maybe still in love with him, but you even said so yourself that he didn't treat you all that great... So why go back to something that wasn't good in the first place... Stop comparing other guys to him... Stop wasting you time, do something that keeps you busy, if you have to think about him then then do, but don't think to long, Because all woman should be treated like queens and if you are taking less than that then you really don't want to be happy in the first place...
Laugh,
Cry,
Live,
Learn
Scream if you feel like, it doesn't matter where you are
Just keep busy...
YOUR LIFE SHOULDN'T BE WASTED ON THINKING ABOUT 1 GUY!!!!
Because you and I both know you deserved better.
So go out and get it
Stop thinking about what you lost rather focus on what you might find. Just because the next guy to come along is not the right one doesn't mean the past is the only thing you got. Look forward to falling in love again and that feeling of newness and getting no know someone from the beginning. You'll get over him but you need to stop giving him so much praise in your pretty little head when he really and truly was not that great. The right guy will be great to you and treat you the way you know you want to be treated. Have patience and PRAY...prayer really works.
In my 80 years I've learned everything changes with time. Have a little patience. You will have a different outlook with more maturity.
I don't think you should go back to him at all. What I did with my break up was, kept on ignoring the memories %26amp; trying to move forward. That helped me. I guess, whenever his memories hit your mind, change %26amp; switch to thinking of something else. I tried helping you
The first person you were intimate with is always a tough one to get over. You may never forget, but I promise you will get over it.
You said so yourself that he didn't treat you that great. You need to fill your time with other things and stop thinking about this guy. Call some friends, go to the movies, play a game a football, have a party, visit family/friends...
if he treated you bad, don't go back to him. you'll find someone new, it just takes time. it took me four years to get over my ex and i finally did and couldn't be happy with my boyfriend. %26lt;3
lol. honey calm down..
my first b/f broke up with me thru myspace(he couldn't even do it in person or a note.) a month ago..it's been really hard.
but i think i 've finally started to get over him. mabe just listen to some musicwith hatefull lyrics and cry..it's what i do everytime i think of how good things ';seemed to used to be';
you'll love again. trust me. my friends have done the exact of you. :)
Learn about how you hypnotize yourself by saying ';I can't get over him no matter what';. If you learn to speak in a way that reflects what you want it will change your reality.....I am so happy to now be in a relationship with someone I love respect %26amp; admire who also treats me so great.....you can read ';You Can Heal Your Life'; or get it on DVD to learn more about this.
I'm in the exact same situation... but my ex wasn't bad to me when we were together and he won't talk to me now. If I could take him back I would in a heartbeat. You can love another guy, it's just never the same. I've tried and even almost got married but it's just not the same. Never will be. When you figure out what to do will you message me too??
time is a doctor ! sorry..
work on how to accept friendliness of other person..then more...then more .. friendship in the way working with a lot of guarantees...( healthy sex is helpful)
cheers
if he was your first he will always have a place in your heart.. just dont let it bug you too much cause it will interfer with your next relationship!!! i am married and still think about my first. i even get butterflies when i see him.
hang out with your friends alot, get involved with sports or something, write a book, read a book, do anything that keeps your mind busy
You sound young and probably are. Time will heal and it's just a matter of finding someone else that is good. It will happen as long as you try. If you sit inside all day thinking about the ex then how can you meet a new guy? Next time he pops in your head think of the bad things he did. You need to be reminded that he was no good.
Have sex with someone else. What you are focussing on is the orgasms. You really think that no one else will ever make you feel that good again...well that is BS big time. If he treated you badly then he is selfish and selfish men are rarely good lovers. He made you think he was Cassanova because you were a virgin and had no one with whom to compare him.
Believe me, there are millions of potential suitors for you out there. And many of them will be MUCH better in bed thatn that creep was!! LMAO!!
try meting new people. if he didn't treat you right the first time hes not gonna treat you right the next itme. don't go back out with him. foucus onthe more positive things in your life like sports, school, friends, and the holidays comming up. =] good luck :D
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First of all calm down. Your young, you will love again. Everyone goes through there first love... And it does suck cause if they end bad your just so ugh for a while and cant seem to find anyone you like besides that ex because you got so much along with him. Give it time, stay single. enjoy it while it last.
Good Luck!
When I broke up with my boyfriend I was actually quite glad to get rid of him. He had been bugging me for a few months and I was tired of him staying over at his mates all the time. You have to get over him! It was 2 years ago, I'm sure your heart will be healed by now! Either way, Mr. Right will come and bump into you soon... :) It doesn't take a day to find a new boyfriend, I know, but when I met my current one I loved him MORE than I had ever loved my ex and probably more than he loved me. Just get him out of your mind and move on.
You will fall in love again, you just need to stop comparing everyone you date with your ex. Why would you want to be with someone who treats you bad. Forget him and find somebody who will treat you how you deserve to be treated.
you have never really experienced the true beauty of love so that why it hard for you to decide whats best. once you have you will not settle for less and you will know what your want and wont tolerate. just hang in there. the right on will come.
If I were you I'd get counseling to help with this. At least you're able to realize he never treated you great; that will help you realize (eventually) that other guys DO compare to him, because they're better for you and to you. Good luck.
Calm down. He's not the only guy on the planet. I hear so many people saying ';they can't get over their ex';. For one, you broke up for a reason. People tend to only remember the ';good times'; after a period of time after the break up. You said it yourself, he wasn't that great of a bf. So what's their really to get over. Stay busy and sooner than you know it, he'll me only a memory. Be happy and live your life and move on.
you know i have the same problem when i break up with a guy... a certain song comes on the radio and i think of him and the good times we had togahter..but my advice to yo is that when you meet someone elese you will forget all about him
HELP! I need advice about a boy!?!?!?
My best friend is 18 and im 15. and i really like her younger brother!!! But they hate each other! and they live across the country every time i see them i think he might like me but i dont know. is it wrong to like him and i dont no if i should make a move!?!? every time we see each other we get closer but i dont no wat to do! HELP?!!!!!HELP! I need advice about a boy!?!?!?
long distance isn't good. Sounds like drama. Don't.HELP! I need advice about a boy!?!?!?
yes, i don't think you should date her brother.
dont the girls have a saying like:
chicks before d*cks or something?
of course its not WRONG to like him, you can't help it. however, if you think this could ruin a great friendship with you best friend, i would advise against being more than friends with him. boyfriends don't usually last as long as friendships, especially with girlfriends. i wouldn't date him unless you are planning to marry him. If they truly HATE each other, decide which you value more, because its kind of hard to have your 2 best friends hate each other if they know each other.
if you really like him, than your friend will understand. if you're worried that she wouldn't, than ask her. if she seems completely disgusted by the idea, hide it by saying 'just kidding!!', and smile. if you're not worried about her approval, but his, than give it a try, don't go too far before you know for sure, though, or things might turn out ugly. good luck!!
Jump his bones. ^_^
I would simply recommend talking to the boy. If you find out he likes you too and wants to pursue something, then you should talk to his older sister and see if she would mind. It could put a large strain on your friendship because she may feel as she is coming 2nd to him. You need to make it clear to her that you are engaging in a relationship with him, but you will always be friends with her, regardless of how the relationship with her brother plays out. It will also be important for you to ask her if it is okay if you talk to her about issues you are having in the relationship, it may be that she is uncomfortable knowing things about her brother in that way. I think you need to think about how you intend to juggle it, splitting your time between them equally like you would do if you were engaging in a relationship with anyone. Talk to the boy first, and if he likes you, then go to your best friend. By talking to the boy first, you relieve yourself and your best friend of any unnecessary tension. Good luck!
never go for a freinds brother, causes to much trouble for all concerned.
TOSS MY SALAD!!!!
definitely do NOT.
a girl who i was friends with (not best) but still close, i found out she hookedup/madeout with my brother and we were never friends after that. when people found out they thought it was really messed up for her to do that. ontop of that i lost all respect for her. its just something you dont do, a true friend wouldnt do it. its one thing if you hookedup and then became friends with her, but other than that... nononono dont do it if you want to keep your friendship
im a guy and i know some stuff ok? first how old is this guy? if he is under your age........ well thats kinda weird cause the guy usualy is older than the women not that im sexist though im sorry if u think that but ive heard that saying alot....but if u love him alot gofor it im not god or anything and i didnt TELL u to do anything.
talk to her!!!!!!!!!!!! use an icebreaker like when ur on the subject of guys anyway. u HAVE to make it right with her or otherwise it will b MORE awkward whenever u go over there!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! just dont think about it 2 much. hope it helps
Okay well if he likes you, he probably is already noticing you. You could do your hair differently, or where ever he goes follow. And plus you could find out what he likes and strike up conversation.
i say talk to her and him about things and how u feel
How old is he? If you like him and he likes you...sure go for it, but remember it'd be long distance.
Follow your heart and your friend, if she is really your friend, will understand, and maybe all three of you will become closer!
What's more important your best friend or the possibility that her brother might like you.....they don't go hand in hand. If you take a chance and he doesn't like it you've totally blown it. And, if he's interested let HIM make the move. Then your friend can't hate you.
just talk to him
i like salads
this might cause probs w/friend mabey u should talk to her about it to get a feel for her reaction
Ask yourself: is your friend important to you? If you date her brother, she may get VERY upset with you. For girls, it's more important to keep your girl friends than to date guys. The same goes for guys: it's more important to keep your guy friends than trade them for girlfriends.
Don't let fear stop you from exploring! Your path is your own have fun.
You should do what your heart tells you. If you like someone tell them if you think they might feel the same way. Your friend should understand any decision you make no matter what.
No Dear, it's not wrong to like him! You can't help when the love bug bites!! If she truly is your best friend then she will understand how you feel. Who knows, it might even help bring them closer together. Good Luck and relax and let nature take it's course. When you are around him, act just like you always have. You said that ever time you see each other you get closer, so have fun and take things easy!!! Good Luck, all will work out in the long run, don't worry too much!!
idk
I think you have the right to like anyone you want. I would suggest a serious talk with your best friend before you make a move so you can explain the situation to her, and she should understand your feelings, im mean shes your best friend. Just dont try to make it without her knowledge otherwise it could be worse.
Good luck ;)
maybe you can help them with their relationship...through the guy of course...you'll get closer in a positive way but won't be in a romantic relationship
Find someone else to like.... There are plenty of fish in the sea, and I am sure you will find someone wonderful, because you deserve nothing less... Sorry hon that you are in this situation, but chin up!
dont make the first move...
forget him
You're 15 and believe me there are plenty of guys in your future. Don't risk a friendship over some guy who lives across the country.
It is definetly not wrong to like him!!! I say you go and make a move, girl! If your best friend has a problem with you liking him, she has some serious issues. A best friend, in my opinion, is someone who loves you no matter what you get yourself into, even if it means dating her brother. If she's truely your best friend, she will love you no matter what you do in life. That's what BFF's are for!
You're Best Friend is Not You're Brain She's You're Partner. But Don't Choose A Guy Over You're Best Friend Or Else Yo u Won't Have Any';! So it's Really What You're Hart Desires For You Ask Him Out When You're Friend Not Around';! Inplus She'll Be Going Off To College Soon Right';?
long distance isn't good. Sounds like drama. Don't.HELP! I need advice about a boy!?!?!?
yes, i don't think you should date her brother.
dont the girls have a saying like:
chicks before d*cks or something?
of course its not WRONG to like him, you can't help it. however, if you think this could ruin a great friendship with you best friend, i would advise against being more than friends with him. boyfriends don't usually last as long as friendships, especially with girlfriends. i wouldn't date him unless you are planning to marry him. If they truly HATE each other, decide which you value more, because its kind of hard to have your 2 best friends hate each other if they know each other.
if you really like him, than your friend will understand. if you're worried that she wouldn't, than ask her. if she seems completely disgusted by the idea, hide it by saying 'just kidding!!', and smile. if you're not worried about her approval, but his, than give it a try, don't go too far before you know for sure, though, or things might turn out ugly. good luck!!
Jump his bones. ^_^
I would simply recommend talking to the boy. If you find out he likes you too and wants to pursue something, then you should talk to his older sister and see if she would mind. It could put a large strain on your friendship because she may feel as she is coming 2nd to him. You need to make it clear to her that you are engaging in a relationship with him, but you will always be friends with her, regardless of how the relationship with her brother plays out. It will also be important for you to ask her if it is okay if you talk to her about issues you are having in the relationship, it may be that she is uncomfortable knowing things about her brother in that way. I think you need to think about how you intend to juggle it, splitting your time between them equally like you would do if you were engaging in a relationship with anyone. Talk to the boy first, and if he likes you, then go to your best friend. By talking to the boy first, you relieve yourself and your best friend of any unnecessary tension. Good luck!
never go for a freinds brother, causes to much trouble for all concerned.
TOSS MY SALAD!!!!
definitely do NOT.
a girl who i was friends with (not best) but still close, i found out she hookedup/madeout with my brother and we were never friends after that. when people found out they thought it was really messed up for her to do that. ontop of that i lost all respect for her. its just something you dont do, a true friend wouldnt do it. its one thing if you hookedup and then became friends with her, but other than that... nononono dont do it if you want to keep your friendship
im a guy and i know some stuff ok? first how old is this guy? if he is under your age........ well thats kinda weird cause the guy usualy is older than the women not that im sexist though im sorry if u think that but ive heard that saying alot....but if u love him alot gofor it im not god or anything and i didnt TELL u to do anything.
talk to her!!!!!!!!!!!! use an icebreaker like when ur on the subject of guys anyway. u HAVE to make it right with her or otherwise it will b MORE awkward whenever u go over there!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! just dont think about it 2 much. hope it helps
Okay well if he likes you, he probably is already noticing you. You could do your hair differently, or where ever he goes follow. And plus you could find out what he likes and strike up conversation.
i say talk to her and him about things and how u feel
How old is he? If you like him and he likes you...sure go for it, but remember it'd be long distance.
Follow your heart and your friend, if she is really your friend, will understand, and maybe all three of you will become closer!
What's more important your best friend or the possibility that her brother might like you.....they don't go hand in hand. If you take a chance and he doesn't like it you've totally blown it. And, if he's interested let HIM make the move. Then your friend can't hate you.
just talk to him
i like salads
this might cause probs w/friend mabey u should talk to her about it to get a feel for her reaction
Ask yourself: is your friend important to you? If you date her brother, she may get VERY upset with you. For girls, it's more important to keep your girl friends than to date guys. The same goes for guys: it's more important to keep your guy friends than trade them for girlfriends.
Don't let fear stop you from exploring! Your path is your own have fun.
You should do what your heart tells you. If you like someone tell them if you think they might feel the same way. Your friend should understand any decision you make no matter what.
No Dear, it's not wrong to like him! You can't help when the love bug bites!! If she truly is your best friend then she will understand how you feel. Who knows, it might even help bring them closer together. Good Luck and relax and let nature take it's course. When you are around him, act just like you always have. You said that ever time you see each other you get closer, so have fun and take things easy!!! Good Luck, all will work out in the long run, don't worry too much!!
idk
I think you have the right to like anyone you want. I would suggest a serious talk with your best friend before you make a move so you can explain the situation to her, and she should understand your feelings, im mean shes your best friend. Just dont try to make it without her knowledge otherwise it could be worse.
Good luck ;)
maybe you can help them with their relationship...through the guy of course...you'll get closer in a positive way but won't be in a romantic relationship
Find someone else to like.... There are plenty of fish in the sea, and I am sure you will find someone wonderful, because you deserve nothing less... Sorry hon that you are in this situation, but chin up!
dont make the first move...
forget him
You're 15 and believe me there are plenty of guys in your future. Don't risk a friendship over some guy who lives across the country.
It is definetly not wrong to like him!!! I say you go and make a move, girl! If your best friend has a problem with you liking him, she has some serious issues. A best friend, in my opinion, is someone who loves you no matter what you get yourself into, even if it means dating her brother. If she's truely your best friend, she will love you no matter what you do in life. That's what BFF's are for!
You're Best Friend is Not You're Brain She's You're Partner. But Don't Choose A Guy Over You're Best Friend Or Else Yo u Won't Have Any';! So it's Really What You're Hart Desires For You Ask Him Out When You're Friend Not Around';! Inplus She'll Be Going Off To College Soon Right';?
I need relationship advice about if i should end it or not?
Ive been dating this girl since she was 16, and i was 19 at the time, for 3 years. She has hurt me a lot in the past but i still love her. Some of the things she has done in the past are....
She cheated on me and made out with another guy.
She kissed 2 of my previous best friends and gave one a hand job.
Made out with a guy more then once at her apt. near college.
Said she got raped by a guy she thought was very hot.
went to a dorm party where i saw pictures of naked guys prancing around.
Kissed a guy downstairs of her apt.
Broke up with me then 2 weeks later had sex with another guy.
This stuff has all mosty happend in the past. Is it still cheating if even tho we werent exacty together but on a break did this stuff? I feel like im blind and cant leave her. Should i leave her? I feel like she has made me numb now because of all the stuff that has happend. I cant trust her. Its hard for me to leave bad relationships. Please help me.I need relationship advice about if i should end it or not?
you need to move on she is using you just to say she has a boyfriend. If she loved you she would not do any of those thingsI need relationship advice about if i should end it or not?
You gotta walk away. Her sexual appetite is too strong to ever be faithful to you and you will be forever betrayed. You will be hurt again and again if you try to continue this. Just take a deep breath and suffer through ending this now for good. Now that you're 21, you might then look for a girl in her early- or mid-20's because she'll be well past the sexploratory stage of a teenager or college girl.
Once a slut always a slut.....She'll f$#@ your mother if you let her. Dump her. First find a new girlfriend yourself. Then when the time is right....let her catch you cheating on her. But by the time this happens you will really like your new girlfriend and won't even care. Remember....A liar will cheat,a cheater will steal and a thief will kill....she'll boil your puppy if you let her think she can get away with it. No matter how much it hurts to read this. She doesn't love you enough to not rub on your friends nuts.....sorry
leave her! how often should you be hurt by her lack of respect before you get cheated on again?she should broken up with because she's immature to be in a relationship and thinks she's hot stuff to be kissing and sex with other men. then find a better person to be with that does know the word COMMITMENT.
If there's no trust, there's no real realtionship as that is a key part of the foundation of a successful one. You have to decide for yourself to go or stay, but if you cannot trust someone, why stay? Can the trust be repaired? Couples counseling perhaps? If not...s'up to you but I wouldn't be with someone I couldn't trust. This life is too short to stay in a situation that isn't happy and pleasant when it's within our power to change it.
Dude, I'm sorry to hear all that has happened to you. People don't deserve to be put through such hell. But you have to allow her to let go of your heart. Right now she knows that you will be there for her and she is using your for that. Don't let her do it anymore. You need to somehow shut her out of your life for a while until you can get over her. I know it's hard after 3 years because you can still think of the good things that went on in the relationship...but she's not that person anymore. Think about all the bad stuff for a while until you have no feeling of wanting her back. I'm sorry to tell ya, but she is never going to change. She doesn't want you Hun, she is sleeping around and you are convincing yourself she still loves you when she wouldn't do that to someone she loves. You gotta move on with your life, there's a lot of women out there that would appreciate you.
She cheated on me and made out with another guy.
She kissed 2 of my previous best friends and gave one a hand job.
Made out with a guy more then once at her apt. near college.
Said she got raped by a guy she thought was very hot.
went to a dorm party where i saw pictures of naked guys prancing around.
Kissed a guy downstairs of her apt.
Broke up with me then 2 weeks later had sex with another guy.
This stuff has all mosty happend in the past. Is it still cheating if even tho we werent exacty together but on a break did this stuff? I feel like im blind and cant leave her. Should i leave her? I feel like she has made me numb now because of all the stuff that has happend. I cant trust her. Its hard for me to leave bad relationships. Please help me.I need relationship advice about if i should end it or not?
you need to move on she is using you just to say she has a boyfriend. If she loved you she would not do any of those thingsI need relationship advice about if i should end it or not?
You gotta walk away. Her sexual appetite is too strong to ever be faithful to you and you will be forever betrayed. You will be hurt again and again if you try to continue this. Just take a deep breath and suffer through ending this now for good. Now that you're 21, you might then look for a girl in her early- or mid-20's because she'll be well past the sexploratory stage of a teenager or college girl.
Once a slut always a slut.....She'll f$#@ your mother if you let her. Dump her. First find a new girlfriend yourself. Then when the time is right....let her catch you cheating on her. But by the time this happens you will really like your new girlfriend and won't even care. Remember....A liar will cheat,a cheater will steal and a thief will kill....she'll boil your puppy if you let her think she can get away with it. No matter how much it hurts to read this. She doesn't love you enough to not rub on your friends nuts.....sorry
leave her! how often should you be hurt by her lack of respect before you get cheated on again?she should broken up with because she's immature to be in a relationship and thinks she's hot stuff to be kissing and sex with other men. then find a better person to be with that does know the word COMMITMENT.
If there's no trust, there's no real realtionship as that is a key part of the foundation of a successful one. You have to decide for yourself to go or stay, but if you cannot trust someone, why stay? Can the trust be repaired? Couples counseling perhaps? If not...s'up to you but I wouldn't be with someone I couldn't trust. This life is too short to stay in a situation that isn't happy and pleasant when it's within our power to change it.
Dude, I'm sorry to hear all that has happened to you. People don't deserve to be put through such hell. But you have to allow her to let go of your heart. Right now she knows that you will be there for her and she is using your for that. Don't let her do it anymore. You need to somehow shut her out of your life for a while until you can get over her. I know it's hard after 3 years because you can still think of the good things that went on in the relationship...but she's not that person anymore. Think about all the bad stuff for a while until you have no feeling of wanting her back. I'm sorry to tell ya, but she is never going to change. She doesn't want you Hun, she is sleeping around and you are convincing yourself she still loves you when she wouldn't do that to someone she loves. You gotta move on with your life, there's a lot of women out there that would appreciate you.
Please i need advice about this guy?
well i found out he was cheating on me with one of my old friends. so i broke it off and everything (this is the second time he has done this) and now hes still emailing me saying hes sorry blablabla and still wants my friendship. but i dont want it though because how is there any way i can still trust him a third time? and he keeps on emailing me and stuff and its getting really annoying...i bet hes doing the same thing to the other girl to try and get her back too.
should i just finish it forever with this guy?? cause i really think i should.
hopefully this is understandable to everyone lol :)
please need your advice!
i think im ready just to end it forever because i cant stand him
and umm he JUST SENT ME ANOTHER EMAIL and hes mad because he said i shouldnt be talking about it anymore (he says im thinking about it to much and that we should get back together
wtf
how can i just end this once and for all?
any good quotes or something to just finalize it? lolPlease i need advice about this guy?
This is obviously one of those guys who wants to show his dominance over women and have as much fun as he can before he gets serious about anything in his life. Tell him that while you had feelings for him and had hoped things could be better between you he has not shown remorse for his previous actions and as you are trying to grow into a strong person who can fend for herself you would rather not get back together with him. Also mention that you need to be able to find that you can stand well on your own before allowing any man into your life, especially one that has proven detrimental to your mental and emotional health in the past.Please i need advice about this guy?
you should totally break if off with him...once a cheater...he;ll always be a cheater...he did it once...you forgave...you shouldn't have...but he did it again...if you get back with him...what makes you think he won't do it to you again...there are better fishes out there..he is not one of em...forget him..and move on...you deserve someone better than him....don't email him or take his friendship...
you shouldnt get back with him. the more energy you put into responding to his emails and things the more he will do it. he thinks because you forgave him the first time that he will be able to manipulate you in to doing it again. you know whats best for you
Chloe, ditch the douchebag, get a real man =) Good luck! Im single by the way ;) ... j/p
dont listen to that jerk! he doesnt care about you and neither should YOU care about him. finish it. and HEs thinking about it too much since hes begging for your forgiveness! just finish it. its over.
dont get back together with him he wasted hes chance date someone else and see how he reacts if he reacts jealous and begs for you to take him back do so!
should i just finish it forever with this guy?? cause i really think i should.
hopefully this is understandable to everyone lol :)
please need your advice!
i think im ready just to end it forever because i cant stand him
and umm he JUST SENT ME ANOTHER EMAIL and hes mad because he said i shouldnt be talking about it anymore (he says im thinking about it to much and that we should get back together
wtf
how can i just end this once and for all?
any good quotes or something to just finalize it? lolPlease i need advice about this guy?
This is obviously one of those guys who wants to show his dominance over women and have as much fun as he can before he gets serious about anything in his life. Tell him that while you had feelings for him and had hoped things could be better between you he has not shown remorse for his previous actions and as you are trying to grow into a strong person who can fend for herself you would rather not get back together with him. Also mention that you need to be able to find that you can stand well on your own before allowing any man into your life, especially one that has proven detrimental to your mental and emotional health in the past.Please i need advice about this guy?
you should totally break if off with him...once a cheater...he;ll always be a cheater...he did it once...you forgave...you shouldn't have...but he did it again...if you get back with him...what makes you think he won't do it to you again...there are better fishes out there..he is not one of em...forget him..and move on...you deserve someone better than him....don't email him or take his friendship...
you shouldnt get back with him. the more energy you put into responding to his emails and things the more he will do it. he thinks because you forgave him the first time that he will be able to manipulate you in to doing it again. you know whats best for you
Chloe, ditch the douchebag, get a real man =) Good luck! Im single by the way ;) ... j/p
dont listen to that jerk! he doesnt care about you and neither should YOU care about him. finish it. and HEs thinking about it too much since hes begging for your forgiveness! just finish it. its over.
dont get back together with him he wasted hes chance date someone else and see how he reacts if he reacts jealous and begs for you to take him back do so!
Help... I need advice about me.?
I am going through the tough times and need some cheering up. My mom just had a stroke, my dad has heart failure and is near death, My best friend is going psycho and not here for me, and to top it off I have been seperated from my husband for 3 months now. I have 2 kids but they are spending the weekend with their Dad. What can I do to cheer up? I am 31.Help... I need advice about me.?
go out and be social. get dressed up and go out. getting dresses will make you feel better and going out will make you be social. find a non sleazy bar and have a couple of drinks. go for a long walk. put on some head phones and walk. it is really good for you!!!!Help... I need advice about me.?
Looks as if you need to pray about your situation. You got alot going right now. YOu need to get in a quiet place and just relax.
What is happening to you is life ! Life has a habit of happening as you live. It is not what Happenns to you it is how you handle what Happens. What can YOU DO to cheer up some one els ?? News flash :::::::::::::::::::::
their is always some person you can help and cheer up. many people you know very close to you may need help and you don't know it. Good luck ! and remember %26lt; What will you do about your life as it is now watch or live it ?
You are still very young. Get a grip on life, don't waste it. If you need to have more friends, join clubs or take courses.
I'm sorry for what's being dumped on you all at once! I would say try and spend some time wiht your dad. I know it hard, but if he does pass later your going to regret not making a point to be there with him. Maybe drag him up some old pictures or something to sit and try and laugh about old times with you growing up.
Hi there, I'm going to give you my advice, you can take it how ever you wish OK?
First of all I'm so sorry to hear about your parents. Honestly I've not been through anything like that. But I wanted to remind you of this. You are not alone, Do you remember the poem ';FOOTPRINTS IN THE SAND'? your not alone. If I were you this is what I would do. I'd look up to the man upstairs for relief and ask for a peaceful mind set. why? our children need you to be there for them. Do you have any girl friends you can talk with? I'll listen. My best to you and your children.
Hi ! You really seem to be depressen and you sure have reasons to feel that... Have you ever tried prayer.. It really works.. Doesn't matter which god you beleive in...
Have you ever also tried helping the poor or the mentally or physically challanged... They do give blessings which surely makes our lives a lot better so visit any orphanage or old age home.. Bring a smile on others face..You will find you life worthwile
turn off the computer and go out in the sunshine
Call some of your old friend that you havn't seen in awhile, have a girls night out. Seeing old friends will do you good right now.
It all seems like your world is falling a part around you, I am so sorry to hear that, but believe it or not you will make it. When the kids are with there dad this weekend, go and do something for your self. What do you enjoy doing? Take a long bubble bath, with candles to relax have a glass of wine while in the bath. Spend time with a friend go shopping, or for a walk. Watch a good movie that will make you laugh. It will get better, when I do not no, but it will. God only gives us what we can handle. Prayer is another good thing. You are in my prayers.
1. a quart of chunky monkey monkey ice cream
2. all the tear jerking chicks flics u can rent
3. 1 box of tissue
watching someones elses sob story un fold before you priceless,we all have pain sometimes seeing someone elses problems put ours in perspective.
and if all else fails watch jerry springer then you can tell yourself atleast i dont live in a trailer i dont weigh a metric ton and im not pregnant with my cousin/grandfathers baby,and you have youre own teeth.
unless of course you live in a trailer have no teeth weigh aton and are pregnant with your cousin/grandfathers baby in which case im so sorry if i offended you...and im sorry you live in a trailer....atleast you dont live in lebanon... i hope
surrender all your worries to God and think that all the things that currently happening to you right now is with gods purpose, he won't give this kinda situation if you can't handle it..he just wanted you to learn something in this situation.. you need to pray and ask for his guidance...
No one in this world could ever help you more than God...
because he is everything....
go out and be social. get dressed up and go out. getting dresses will make you feel better and going out will make you be social. find a non sleazy bar and have a couple of drinks. go for a long walk. put on some head phones and walk. it is really good for you!!!!Help... I need advice about me.?
Looks as if you need to pray about your situation. You got alot going right now. YOu need to get in a quiet place and just relax.
What is happening to you is life ! Life has a habit of happening as you live. It is not what Happenns to you it is how you handle what Happens. What can YOU DO to cheer up some one els ?? News flash :::::::::::::::::::::
their is always some person you can help and cheer up. many people you know very close to you may need help and you don't know it. Good luck ! and remember %26lt; What will you do about your life as it is now watch or live it ?
You are still very young. Get a grip on life, don't waste it. If you need to have more friends, join clubs or take courses.
I'm sorry for what's being dumped on you all at once! I would say try and spend some time wiht your dad. I know it hard, but if he does pass later your going to regret not making a point to be there with him. Maybe drag him up some old pictures or something to sit and try and laugh about old times with you growing up.
Hi there, I'm going to give you my advice, you can take it how ever you wish OK?
First of all I'm so sorry to hear about your parents. Honestly I've not been through anything like that. But I wanted to remind you of this. You are not alone, Do you remember the poem ';FOOTPRINTS IN THE SAND'? your not alone. If I were you this is what I would do. I'd look up to the man upstairs for relief and ask for a peaceful mind set. why? our children need you to be there for them. Do you have any girl friends you can talk with? I'll listen. My best to you and your children.
Hi ! You really seem to be depressen and you sure have reasons to feel that... Have you ever tried prayer.. It really works.. Doesn't matter which god you beleive in...
Have you ever also tried helping the poor or the mentally or physically challanged... They do give blessings which surely makes our lives a lot better so visit any orphanage or old age home.. Bring a smile on others face..You will find you life worthwile
turn off the computer and go out in the sunshine
Call some of your old friend that you havn't seen in awhile, have a girls night out. Seeing old friends will do you good right now.
It all seems like your world is falling a part around you, I am so sorry to hear that, but believe it or not you will make it. When the kids are with there dad this weekend, go and do something for your self. What do you enjoy doing? Take a long bubble bath, with candles to relax have a glass of wine while in the bath. Spend time with a friend go shopping, or for a walk. Watch a good movie that will make you laugh. It will get better, when I do not no, but it will. God only gives us what we can handle. Prayer is another good thing. You are in my prayers.
1. a quart of chunky monkey monkey ice cream
2. all the tear jerking chicks flics u can rent
3. 1 box of tissue
watching someones elses sob story un fold before you priceless,we all have pain sometimes seeing someone elses problems put ours in perspective.
and if all else fails watch jerry springer then you can tell yourself atleast i dont live in a trailer i dont weigh a metric ton and im not pregnant with my cousin/grandfathers baby,and you have youre own teeth.
unless of course you live in a trailer have no teeth weigh aton and are pregnant with your cousin/grandfathers baby in which case im so sorry if i offended you...and im sorry you live in a trailer....atleast you dont live in lebanon... i hope
surrender all your worries to God and think that all the things that currently happening to you right now is with gods purpose, he won't give this kinda situation if you can't handle it..he just wanted you to learn something in this situation.. you need to pray and ask for his guidance...
No one in this world could ever help you more than God...
because he is everything....
I need some advice about my daughter...?
This is my daughter's account, but I am going to use it as I don't have my own account. My daughter and her husband got married last may and he was working at hardee's making 200 every two weeks, so i told them that since me and my husband couldn't take care of ourselves, they could live with us for 100 dollars a month if they took care of us. Everything was fine until he got on at the fire department and started making more money. Then he changed in every way, not just to me, but to my daughter too. And then I decided that since he was making more money he could pay 200 a month and help with groceries. Everything was fine there until my husband had another stroke. Now they want to move out. Am I wrong for being angry about it? I feel like they used me for a place to live and now that it's harder they want to abandon me.I need some advice about my daughter...?
they didnt take advantage of you, you said right in the letter that you told them they could move in, you offered!! and i commend you for that, and you state that he was working at hardees and only making 200 every two weeks, so this would lead me to believe that they are a young couple, you should be happy that he has taken steps to better his life and your dauhters life, now it is time for them to get out on their own and start their own lives, but that does not mean that they should move away and forget about you!! my in-laws let me and my wife live with them in the begining, and it is one thing for a parent to take back in their kids but to take in there spouse is not something every parent would do, so I will always be very grateful to them for that and they know it. so I do believe he owes you some respect and if it were me i would continue to help out as much as posible, and I believe he should to. I think some of the stress you are feeling and blameing them for, is just because you are in such a bind and feeling tired and woren out, and probley just want someone to take care of you for a while, and that is natural everyone needs to feel loved and feel like they matter and we all need some special atteion paid to us, and with your husband in the condition he is in you don't get any of that I'm sure, maybe you could get them to watch your husband for a weekend and take off and check into a hotel go to a spa, get a massage and just baby yourself for a weekend!!I need some advice about my daughter...?
You're mad because they want to move out and start their own life?
Yes you are wrong to be mad. They stayed at your place but paid you what you stipulated.
i can see your point of view. They did use you until they were ready to move out. From their point of view they probably think that you were helping them out and they don't need it anymore. Either way, it is their life. I would talk to them about it.
No I would totally feel betrayed if I were you. You were a loving place for them when they needed it the most and now you need a loving place and they are trying to abandon you! Maybe you could tell them about this. Good luck and God bless!
You were wrong in asking them to move in and take care of you!! Young adults need to take care of THEMSELVES! And to learn how to live on what they make! If you had no other resources, you should have applied for Welfare, or Medicaid and/or move into a nursing home if you were unable to take care of yourselves!! I know that sometimes there is no other answer--but it sounds as if you weren't up against a brick wall! Parents need to stay out of their children's lives--until they ask for help/talk with you re their situations. They sound very young and have a lot of growing up to do! Without your help! You may just have been lonely for her--but we can't feed our own needs from our children!!
You're being selfish. Your daughter and new husband need to start their new lives together (away from ';mommy and daddy';). She isn't abandoning you, YOU are abandoning HER at this very special time in her life. Couldn't you be there for her and congradulate her? You must have done a good job in raising her, she married a good man who is going to provide for her. And I am sure he loves her very much, and doesnt want to see her being used by a selfish Mom. If he has changed, it's only because he's fed up with living with his inlaws. He needs to spread his wings too.
Your Daughter, ans Son-in-Law, aren't Grown-ups. They're all about themselves. Most Younger Kids are. If you try to fight `em/ They'll revolt, even worse. I'd vote to let 1`em see Life is. Once they see how rough, it really is? She'll be back with apologizes. But make her learn a lesson. Blood is gotta be thicker than Water. Good Luck. My Sympathies on your Husband's Condition. Prayers are on their way!
you shouldn't feel wrong about it and in my opinion you need time to talk to your daughter and her husband.
you may think about getting profesional help as it will help and be better off in the long run.
it could also be inocent because your husbands / her father had a stroke
but i think you should start by speaking up.mineral makeup
they didnt take advantage of you, you said right in the letter that you told them they could move in, you offered!! and i commend you for that, and you state that he was working at hardees and only making 200 every two weeks, so this would lead me to believe that they are a young couple, you should be happy that he has taken steps to better his life and your dauhters life, now it is time for them to get out on their own and start their own lives, but that does not mean that they should move away and forget about you!! my in-laws let me and my wife live with them in the begining, and it is one thing for a parent to take back in their kids but to take in there spouse is not something every parent would do, so I will always be very grateful to them for that and they know it. so I do believe he owes you some respect and if it were me i would continue to help out as much as posible, and I believe he should to. I think some of the stress you are feeling and blameing them for, is just because you are in such a bind and feeling tired and woren out, and probley just want someone to take care of you for a while, and that is natural everyone needs to feel loved and feel like they matter and we all need some special atteion paid to us, and with your husband in the condition he is in you don't get any of that I'm sure, maybe you could get them to watch your husband for a weekend and take off and check into a hotel go to a spa, get a massage and just baby yourself for a weekend!!I need some advice about my daughter...?
You're mad because they want to move out and start their own life?
Yes you are wrong to be mad. They stayed at your place but paid you what you stipulated.
i can see your point of view. They did use you until they were ready to move out. From their point of view they probably think that you were helping them out and they don't need it anymore. Either way, it is their life. I would talk to them about it.
No I would totally feel betrayed if I were you. You were a loving place for them when they needed it the most and now you need a loving place and they are trying to abandon you! Maybe you could tell them about this. Good luck and God bless!
You were wrong in asking them to move in and take care of you!! Young adults need to take care of THEMSELVES! And to learn how to live on what they make! If you had no other resources, you should have applied for Welfare, or Medicaid and/or move into a nursing home if you were unable to take care of yourselves!! I know that sometimes there is no other answer--but it sounds as if you weren't up against a brick wall! Parents need to stay out of their children's lives--until they ask for help/talk with you re their situations. They sound very young and have a lot of growing up to do! Without your help! You may just have been lonely for her--but we can't feed our own needs from our children!!
You're being selfish. Your daughter and new husband need to start their new lives together (away from ';mommy and daddy';). She isn't abandoning you, YOU are abandoning HER at this very special time in her life. Couldn't you be there for her and congradulate her? You must have done a good job in raising her, she married a good man who is going to provide for her. And I am sure he loves her very much, and doesnt want to see her being used by a selfish Mom. If he has changed, it's only because he's fed up with living with his inlaws. He needs to spread his wings too.
Your Daughter, ans Son-in-Law, aren't Grown-ups. They're all about themselves. Most Younger Kids are. If you try to fight `em/ They'll revolt, even worse. I'd vote to let 1`em see Life is. Once they see how rough, it really is? She'll be back with apologizes. But make her learn a lesson. Blood is gotta be thicker than Water. Good Luck. My Sympathies on your Husband's Condition. Prayers are on their way!
you shouldn't feel wrong about it and in my opinion you need time to talk to your daughter and her husband.
you may think about getting profesional help as it will help and be better off in the long run.
it could also be inocent because your husbands / her father had a stroke
but i think you should start by speaking up.
I need some advice about a guy...?
so i just started working, and there's a really cute guy who works there too who has caught my eye. i need to know how to make myself stand out and catch his attention, as well as some great ice breakers to get things moving. i really want to know him better, but i need to find a way to help him realize that i'm interested
I need some advice about a guy...?
then you should start talking to him about the job and stuff like that
I need some advice about a guy...?
then you should start talking to him about the job and stuff like that
I need some advice about this girl.?
There is this women that I work with that knows this girl that is single. This women that I work with gave me this girls phone number. I call this girl twice and she never called me back. Should I call this girl one more time or just move on?I need some advice about this girl.?
I think you should move on.. You called her twice already so she knows your interseted ..now its up to her to make the next move!I need some advice about this girl.?
If you would really like to meet try one more time!! ;]
move on eventually she is not interested if you called you and she hasnt returned your calls, or try one more time 3rd times a charm but if not move on she is not interested
u already called her twice..so move on...its not like u know her already so there's nothing to lose...tell ur workmates that she doesn't respond to ur calls so that they'll know u tried to contact her and that u r not rude or something.
Give her a call one more time and if she doesn't call you back, then yes move on!!!
move on
LEAVE HER ALONE,IT SOUNDS LIKE SHE DOSENT WANT TO BE BOTHERED !
Move on she must not want to talk with you. Find someone who does
maybe she knows that you look like amonkey %26amp; thats why she didn't call back...move on..
I think you should move on.. You called her twice already so she knows your interseted ..now its up to her to make the next move!I need some advice about this girl.?
If you would really like to meet try one more time!! ;]
move on eventually she is not interested if you called you and she hasnt returned your calls, or try one more time 3rd times a charm but if not move on she is not interested
u already called her twice..so move on...its not like u know her already so there's nothing to lose...tell ur workmates that she doesn't respond to ur calls so that they'll know u tried to contact her and that u r not rude or something.
Give her a call one more time and if she doesn't call you back, then yes move on!!!
move on
LEAVE HER ALONE,IT SOUNDS LIKE SHE DOSENT WANT TO BE BOTHERED !
Move on she must not want to talk with you. Find someone who does
maybe she knows that you look like amonkey %26amp; thats why she didn't call back...move on..
Pls help.....need advice about a wierd reaction....am confused and my ego hurts!?
I am confused about a reaction from this guy I've been seeing for the past few months...since we met, he has persued me %26amp; wanted to move fast into a commitment %26amp; I held off, saying I'd like to be friends for a while...recently, I thought I should reciprocate to him also %26amp; started doing that a couple of dates we got quite cozy %26amp; all his friends have the impression we are going out.....now, i went on vacation for 2 weeks %26amp; came back, since then, i met him a couple of times %26amp; he's been really wierd....not like his usual self, then yesterday, we met %26amp; in the middle of a convo he said he's been thinking about us %26amp; where we are going %26amp; we should be friends! i was surprised, it was like he s saying i m the one behind him than vice versa! i didn t want to make a big deal so i said yes we are friends only but i want to know Y the sudden change of heart? should i talk to him about it? I don t want to lose this now that i m also feeling some attraction, can i get him back without sounding needy?Pls help.....need advice about a wierd reaction....am confused and my ego hurts!?
sounds like you're both pretty confused. You should talk to him about it seriously. Men like t ochase women and you denied him maybe he's trying to do it now.Pls help.....need advice about a wierd reaction....am confused and my ego hurts!?
Listen carefully. the vacation was overexposure. too much of you and he is saying ';lets ease off';. You need to leave some distance between you, make him miss you. You shouldn't be on his answering machine every day and he should not see you standing there every time he walks in a room. give him space. It is worth continuing the relationship if you see he starts to chase again. Otherwise, accept that the fire is out and move on.
If you were not on the vacation with him chances are that he found someone else while you were away
sounds like you're both pretty confused. You should talk to him about it seriously. Men like t ochase women and you denied him maybe he's trying to do it now.Pls help.....need advice about a wierd reaction....am confused and my ego hurts!?
Listen carefully. the vacation was overexposure. too much of you and he is saying ';lets ease off';. You need to leave some distance between you, make him miss you. You shouldn't be on his answering machine every day and he should not see you standing there every time he walks in a room. give him space. It is worth continuing the relationship if you see he starts to chase again. Otherwise, accept that the fire is out and move on.
If you were not on the vacation with him chances are that he found someone else while you were away
HELP I need advice about a guy?
and when i say he seemed happy i mean that he was not mad at me or anythingHELP I need advice about a guy?
Text him your number. The chances are largely that his Mum must have forgotten to give the number to him.
In fact the guy will be happy to get your new number. That will show your concern for him.
Thank you for answering my question too, Romance fan.HELP I need advice about a guy?
I would text him, like you text ur friends, say something like
'; Hey, whats up?'; or '; How was your weekend'; and if he doesnt ask who this is, than his mom gave him ur number and if he does just tell him it you
Just text him something and if he asks who it is, just be like ';Its me duh, lol'; and if he knows who you are from that, then that means hes thinking about you ;)
you should text him your number and say who it is.
Text him your number. The chances are largely that his Mum must have forgotten to give the number to him.
In fact the guy will be happy to get your new number. That will show your concern for him.
Thank you for answering my question too, Romance fan.HELP I need advice about a guy?
I would text him, like you text ur friends, say something like
'; Hey, whats up?'; or '; How was your weekend'; and if he doesnt ask who this is, than his mom gave him ur number and if he does just tell him it you
Just text him something and if he asks who it is, just be like ';Its me duh, lol'; and if he knows who you are from that, then that means hes thinking about you ;)
you should text him your number and say who it is.
In college. Need advice about a girl. What do you girls think?
At my college that I used to see a girl in my lecture of 200 people 2+ years ago. Recently I've seen her studying in the library. She is very beautiful and I only see her alone. We look sort of alike. We're both tall, have straight brown hair and tanned skin. It's been 4 yrs and I haven't had a girlfriend since I've been here (never had a girlfriend). I haven't had a job for 2 yrs (looking). I'm just doing classes. I don't have many friends but I run with a club, climb and lift weights.
I feel like saying, ';My name's *. What's your name? What are you studying? Do you have a boyfriend?'; Would it be bad if I tried to talk to her while she was studying? Is it bad to ask right off if she has a boyfriend? Should I sit near her a lot (not good?) and wait for her to do something?
How do you feel about random (good looking) people talking to you? I don't want to be creepy. All the nice girls seem to have boyfriends. If she just became a friend I'd be happy. Am I stuck?In college. Need advice about a girl. What do you girls think?
Girls love confidence and the best way to get them to notice/ like you is to make them laught. If you can do that you are in. If she is studying all the time, everyone likes a break here and there. The first time I would keep it short and dont push anything, just get her to laught once. Then just wait a few days and then when you see her again say hey whats up yada yada. Most girls even if taken arent going to be mean, they love attention!In college. Need advice about a girl. What do you girls think?
I think something more like: Sit down in the library close but not too close, and say Hi I'm (name), I remember you from (whatever class you had together). See if you can get a conversation about that class going. If she seems chatty ask her for coffee. If things are clicking ask her if she would like to meet for lunch, she will let you know if she has a boyfriend you don't have to be blunt.
here's what you do...you guys were in the same class, right? Ask her if she's got that old book you guys had to use for that class. Just go up to her and say, ';hi, i'm sorry to bother you but i was wondering if you had this book for this class...'; so and so. Obviously, she took that class before and she'll have some thoughts about it - you've just broke a common barrier right there, take advantage of it. She might mention that she's taken the class before.
If she says ';no';, then tell her it's for a friend that you lost your book and you're trying to look for him. THen you'll mention that you were in that class and she'll start talking...
once you've got that going, ask her about her opinions of the class, teachers, people in the class, what she's doing now and if she's taken any similar classes...just start small and work your way up
and not like this is gonna happen but...
if she happens to have a book and is willing to let you borrow it then and there, take it, say ';Thanks';, ask for her number ';just in case your 'friend' doesn't need it...'; Use and play with this idea. in a few days or so call back and just say, 'thanks but i won't be needing it...'; and just talk with her from there...
sorry soo complicating i hope this made sense!
Ask her first if u could sit with her and if ur lucky a yes may come out of her.Then ask her if u could ask her somethin but don't make it obvious that ur hittin on her.Ask her :- her name, say urs, (ask her)when'd u join skool ,where'd u live, etc; then start sittin with her but not a lot, get a job and fast, what were u doin al those years shoulda applied before.
I don't mind if good looking random ppl talk 2 me, im really open person and like talkin and knowin ppl better and makin friends and maybe bfs as well.
Ur not stuck just give it some time, know her and then hit on her.
I feel like saying, ';My name's *. What's your name? What are you studying? Do you have a boyfriend?'; Would it be bad if I tried to talk to her while she was studying? Is it bad to ask right off if she has a boyfriend? Should I sit near her a lot (not good?) and wait for her to do something?
How do you feel about random (good looking) people talking to you? I don't want to be creepy. All the nice girls seem to have boyfriends. If she just became a friend I'd be happy. Am I stuck?In college. Need advice about a girl. What do you girls think?
Girls love confidence and the best way to get them to notice/ like you is to make them laught. If you can do that you are in. If she is studying all the time, everyone likes a break here and there. The first time I would keep it short and dont push anything, just get her to laught once. Then just wait a few days and then when you see her again say hey whats up yada yada. Most girls even if taken arent going to be mean, they love attention!In college. Need advice about a girl. What do you girls think?
I think something more like: Sit down in the library close but not too close, and say Hi I'm (name), I remember you from (whatever class you had together). See if you can get a conversation about that class going. If she seems chatty ask her for coffee. If things are clicking ask her if she would like to meet for lunch, she will let you know if she has a boyfriend you don't have to be blunt.
here's what you do...you guys were in the same class, right? Ask her if she's got that old book you guys had to use for that class. Just go up to her and say, ';hi, i'm sorry to bother you but i was wondering if you had this book for this class...'; so and so. Obviously, she took that class before and she'll have some thoughts about it - you've just broke a common barrier right there, take advantage of it. She might mention that she's taken the class before.
If she says ';no';, then tell her it's for a friend that you lost your book and you're trying to look for him. THen you'll mention that you were in that class and she'll start talking...
once you've got that going, ask her about her opinions of the class, teachers, people in the class, what she's doing now and if she's taken any similar classes...just start small and work your way up
and not like this is gonna happen but...
if she happens to have a book and is willing to let you borrow it then and there, take it, say ';Thanks';, ask for her number ';just in case your 'friend' doesn't need it...'; Use and play with this idea. in a few days or so call back and just say, 'thanks but i won't be needing it...'; and just talk with her from there...
sorry soo complicating i hope this made sense!
Ask her first if u could sit with her and if ur lucky a yes may come out of her.Then ask her if u could ask her somethin but don't make it obvious that ur hittin on her.Ask her :- her name, say urs, (ask her)when'd u join skool ,where'd u live, etc; then start sittin with her but not a lot, get a job and fast, what were u doin al those years shoulda applied before.
I don't mind if good looking random ppl talk 2 me, im really open person and like talkin and knowin ppl better and makin friends and maybe bfs as well.
Ur not stuck just give it some time, know her and then hit on her.
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