Advice about sexual abuse: my mom keeps acting like i've been sexually abused?

(telling my grandma that i had been and then my grandma asking me about it and putting internet articles on the subject on the fridge and things like this)





and a few years ago she, ';took me out for lunch'; to ask me if i had been...she asked me to ';go out for lunch'; again and i can tell she's going to bring it up





my question is how do i handle this considering that i feel that SHE (marginally) sexually abused me? what happened is she put ';medicine'; (that i later found out was just moisturizer) on my vagina every night and periodically circled my nipples when i started entering puberty. i don't know if i'd call it sexual abuse but i definitely feel extremely uncomfortable about what happened.





it really isn't something that i want to talk to her about at all but i especially don't want to tell her how i feel about what happened because it would really hurt her to know that i feel that way but she just won't drop it





i really just need advice because the way that i'm handling it right now (just ignoring her or telling her that she's bein ginappropriate) is making me feel horrible and i can't say that i want to do anything different but i am having trouble thinking of options and would appreciate adviceAdvice about sexual abuse: my mom keeps acting like i've been sexually abused?
I think that you should just tell her. Say that it made you uncomfortable. Or tell someone else that you're close to - someone that knows you and your mom and could see it from a different perspective.Advice about sexual abuse: my mom keeps acting like i've been sexually abused?
Your grandmother or mother?


Anyways, that is not right. You can contact your school counselor, or you can contact someone that's extremely close to you. Best thing to do, tell the person that touched you if they actually touched you sexually. They will probably say no, of course. Please be aware that is perfectly fine to call the police. Its against the law to sexual touch kids. I hoped I helped.





----A note.


If you don't want to hurt her feelings, just tell a counselor asap. They will know what to do. (:
There is nothing ';marginal'; about what your mother did to you.





It is and always will be considered sexual abuse. No one has the right to touch your private places, period.





It sounds like you need to get out of that atmosphere. Children and teens who are sexually abused need assistance, not advice.





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