Ok We have been dating for 3 yrs and engaged for 2 yrs.. Hes a wonderful man... But I have had my doubts on him for awhile now b/c he is sooo controlling.. I don't have any friends, b/c everytime I meet someone there is something wrong with her..He has cheated on me on our 1st yr together.. And he is very selfish and thinks about his self all the time... He does make me laugh and I love his smile.. But Last tuesday night we get into a argurment and he hawls off til 4am.. I found out last Thursday that he was at a bar with another woman.
Since then I moved out Friday and moved in with my parents. Was that the right thing? Im 30 yrs old and hes 32 yrs old... Thanks for any advice and please no negative advice..Need Advice about my boyfriend! X?
I think for now, you should just be friends. If he is Cheating on you, then that is not right. If you like to sing, sing to him the High School Musical 2 song ';I gotta go my own way';. It's catchy and fun! I'm sorry things aren't working out for you.Need Advice about my boyfriend! X?
Yeh it was the right thing. Never let anyone control your life. Life is too short for that. You may like his smile etc , but there are many more out there with an even greater smile.
You know what cheers me up? Here try these
Recipe
Serve these pancakes with butter and syrup.
INGREDIENTS:
2 cups all-purpose flour, stirred or sifted before measuring
2 1/2 teaspoons baking powder
1/2 teaspoon salt
1 egg, slightly beaten
1 1/2 cups milk
2 tablespoons melted butter
PREPARATION:
Sift together flour, baking powder, and salt. In a separate bowl, combine egg and milk; add to flour mixture, stirring only until smooth. Blend in melted butter. Cook on a hot, greased griddle, using about 1/4 cup of batter for each pancake. Cook until brown on one side and around edge; turn and brown the other side. Recipe for pancakes serves 4.
If he is very controlling and doesn't allow you friends, especially other female friends, then you're probably better off without him. He can become very abusive, both mentally and physically if you aren't careful. If he cheated on you in the past, and it takes very little to set him off, you can bet the bar incident with another woman won't be the last. Drop him and go meet someone who'll respect you.
Leave. Leave. Leave. Jerks don't suddenly become faithful and nice when you get married, they only become bigger jerks. In two weeks, you'll feel a little better. In a year, it won't even matter to you anymore.
yes u r right. u must have love for your self????????
If he's doing this now... think of what he'll do when you guys actually get married! I think you should break it off with him! He sounds like a big jerk anyways! You'll find another guy I'm sure!
u shuld just break itoff now bcuz wen ya'll get married i have a feeling ur going 2 have a divorce eventuallt by how dis is going %26amp; plus he has a cheating history with u %26amp; dat aint rite so......yea
Hey girl! First things first, if he cheated on you before then he will do it again. And if you have to ask yourself if you should stay together then you shouldn't be together. I met my husband when we were teenagers and that was over 13 years ago and I have never once questioned if we should be together. If you are meant to be then the only question you should ever have to ask yourself is how to over come an obstacle when something happens in your relationship. I don't doubt that he loves you and you love him but being together should be the easiest thing to do, over coming the obstacles (big or small) will be the hardest but when something does happen and you lose trust in someone you shouldn't have to ask the question on weather you should stay together, you should only have to ask,';OK,this happened, so how do we get through it to make us stronger.?'; I hope that makes since to you, and hey that's just my opinion not everyone agrees with it.
Go Ms. Independant! So glad you got yourself out of that. he sounded like a REAL jerk!
Be strong. Get rid of this guy!
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