I was talking to my friend called Jess, and she said that my other friend; who is my best friend in the whole world called Kelly. Jess said Kelly told her that Kelly said to her in class that she was not a virgin and must of had sex about 10 times on holiday. So I questioned Kelly about it, and she said that it was true and she was sorry she didn't tell me sooner. She was persuading me that it was true, because I was quite shocked about it. I was already quite annoyed because she didn't tell me in the first place. But then Kelly said that she lied to Jess, and that she still was a virgin. I kept asking her why she tried to make me believe it aswell and then tell me half hour later that it's all a lie. She was apologizing and said absolutely loads. But I wasn't really paying attention, because whenever something happens she always apologizes.
We're all 15 by the way, and I don't know what to do. At the moment i've been ignoring her completely since Wednesday when she told me. Advice?Advice about one of my friends?
a bestfriend wouldn't lie to you. honesty is always important in relationships. personally, i wouldn't hang out with someone who tells lies as much as she does.
but if you guys have been through a lot (after all, you did mention she was your really best friend), maybe she's worth another chance and hearing out. ask her why she's doing this or observe her. Has she done this sort of stuff often?? If she does, then I don't see why you still listen to her. If not, then there must be a reason behind her actions.
Make it clear to her that you don't like hearing lies from her and that it makes it difficult to trust her. Make her really understand what she's doing is wrong.Advice about one of my friends?
What I could figure out is,that Kelly is actually not a Virgin....She denied it b'coz she could see that when you came to know about it...You got really Annoyed when you came to know about it...Moreover,she knew that you felt Bad that she didnt tell you about it herself and that you came to know about it through someone else....
So,now when she comes to know that you are annoyed...she tells you that she lied earlier and tht she's a virgin assuming that you'll get back to normal since you will now not think that she hid it from you and also,you'll not have a bad impression about her...
Well,I would advice...If you have control over yourself and you feel that you'll not gain this thing from her even if you continue to be with her then U should continue talking to her...but,dont get too close to her....
and I believe she's too young for this now...and she needs your support and guidance...You try and talk to her about this....Show her the right way...and if she follows what you say then go ahead with your friendship...or elz let her know hwta you feel about her........and you cant tolerate her this way.....
..15 ?
you guys are young. you want attention.
But when you get older you'll reflect back
and think : ';wow, I was really ___';
Life. It's the way it is.
Deal with it.
maybe she feels shes not as pretty as you and jess so she lied to seem just as pretty.then told you cos she didnt want to lie to her best friend forgive and forget.
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