Advice about boyfriend please!!?

So my boyfriend and I were in a serious relationship of about a year and we broke up about 2 weeks ago (he constantly lied about smoking weed, talking to girls, etc.)





Lately, he has been telling me that he still loves me very much and that he wants to be with me but can't because we're at ';different places in our lives right now';.. Hes also told me that he wouldn't be talking to/dating anyone else because I'm the one for him.


He still wants to do things like go out to dinner, have sex, just as if we were still together, but he isn't willing to make it totally official again. What does that mean?!?





I still love him very much although it is hard to trust him. I want to be with him but I don't know if I should.





Help I need advice!!Advice about boyfriend please!!?
He wants friends with benefits without directly asking you. This is just an easy way for him to have his cake and eat it too. For example, even though he says he won't be hooking up with anyone but he'll still be having sex with you, he could go out and fool around. Then he could pull the ';Well, we weren't together'; card to get out of it. This doesn't work, and even though its rough because you've been together so long, you'd just be putting yourself through emotional strain continuing on in that way. Be strong, try to move on. Feel better!!Advice about boyfriend please!!?
OK, why do boys asking for sex so much in this century?


No, he just likes you, he needs to love you





did he ever say you're beautiful or gorgeous? or just cute or hot? cute and hot doesn't work.





even though names like sweet-heart or honey or sweety may sound nice and stuff, make sure he calls you by your name, this will make sure he only thinks about you.





avoid having sex before you are married, if you have to do it, make him work for it and actually earn the right to be with you.
Darling, simply put, this guy is a looser.





What kind of man will claim to love a woman and yet fail to follow through with a relationship.





The first red flag I see here is the whole lying bit. He lied to you about something as serious as drugs and other women. That's a huge strike against him.





Personally I feel like you can do so much better.
Simple enough - he wants all the benefits without any of the commitments. If you can live with that then up to you.


However if you are as he describes in ';different places''; ( what a cop out line!) then perhaps he should just get on with his life.


Just because you love some does not mean it always right to be with them.
Maybe its best that the both of you take it easy for a little while cause sometimes having a little breathing space is good for a relationship. But if it were me i would not have sex with him cause I'd feel like i was being used.
More than likely he's thinking if he can still act like your together but not make it official then if somebody better comes along he can dump you without him feeling to guilty cos u didnt make it ';official';


Basically, he wants to walk all over ya!
He's a *****.