Hey guys i need advice about this guy?

hey im 21 i know u guys have heard this story b4 but i know in my heart i shouldnt be with that guy i was with him 2 yrs and he treated me like crap and i know everytime i took him back 4 times he didnt change and i know if i took him back the 5th time im going to get attitude from my family bc they are worried about my safety when i was with him. i dont want to put them in that postion the 5 time around when i know he wont change. But i have tried not to answer his calls i have picked it up and hunged it up and he still calls. I have tried telling him to move on and it doesnt seem to faze him at all. Because he doesnt want me to be with anyone else and i have tried telling him to move on and he doesnt want any girl but me but my heart is telling me NOOO. because my heart and me are tired of being hurt by him and his emotional and abusiveness. then he said if i dont come over to see him that he will show up at my house .








what should i do i know i deserve better





help me hayleyHey guys i need advice about this guy?
DO NOT GO BACK! First and foremost - do not go back at all.





If he continues calling and does show up at your house - its harassment at the least and stalking at the worst. Call the cops and perhaps that will get through where your talking hasn't.





If you know its not a safe decision to go back - do not go back. It sounds like you have alot of family and friends who really care about you - use them as support to get you through this, be it someone to talk to or someone to keep you company.





Good luck!Hey guys i need advice about this guy?
Tell him that if he calls you and harasses you again you will get a restraining order against him.
Tell him how you feel about the situation. Let him know that he's really playing with your emotions and you're tired of it. Most guys, sad to say, don't even realize when they're doing something wrong. Communicate with him, and if he doesn't straighten up, move on.





I'm sure you'll find someone who can appreciate you.
You must enjoy abuse and it will escalate. You are part of the problem and now you must become part of the solution. Listen to your family, they love you and know what will be bad for you. You have an addiction to this guy, break it.
get on with your life, we'll get on with ours.





I can't tell you to get away from him because you have already been told. Nothing we say here will make you listen so forget it.
Dont go.. tell him he needs to get over it and it doesnt matter who you see or what you do because you are not together.. explain to him you tried to give him many tries and that he wont change.. say i cant get hurt again we are done move on.. but u need to get mean.. its the only way that will work Girlmy best friend was in a relationship like that.. I was scared but i told her she had to get rid of him because he was so emotional and abusive.. and she did.... and you should too If your scared of him.. if he does something else to you or threaten you .. you should handle it [cops] because no girl should get threatend understand?





I wouldnt want any other female to get hurt... You deserve better find a new guy. who will treat you good... go out and haveee fun ;]]]





hope i helped sorry its so long.. but i sat there when she cried to i feel you 100%
first if he is all vilolent at your house if he comes then call the police then try to find a person who is right for you.
I guess he need help, because if he loves you;he will not hurt you.He's selfish,he doesn't want you to move on;and even him.Yes,you deserve better!But you have to let it happen,solve it at once infront your family when he come as he said;but if he can't come,their you'll find out that he just want to threaten you,like coming to your house.Still you better tell your family about it,sometimes for help or protection.Your still young,good future still ahead of you.
It's hard but you either have to keep ignoring him or talk heart to heart with him. Just listen to what your heart says, it dosen't matter what anyone thinks but u. Remember that it's your life and u are in control of it. Tell him no over and over again until he get's the message.
find out how to block his call on your phone.


tell him you have called the police.


call the police if he shows up.





everyone is right , he is obsessed, not in love.





bad news all the way around
Date me and your problem will be over.
Girl you need to put up a security camera on your porch with a speaker. Then get a guard dog and keep him with you all the time. Also tell the police everything that is going on (of course you cant get a restraining order without proper proof of abuse).


idk...wow thats pretty serious but you definitely dont need to let him into your heart or your house.
Take a Boy Break. Thats what i'm do, I got aLL stressed out by this boy and so decided to just start over. I didn't 'like' anybody, I didn't think anybody was cute, I was starting over. Soon I met a boy and by that time, I was able to handle boys again. Just focus on your friends and their problems and yours wont seem so big.





Answer my question since I answered yours?
Keep giving him sex and getting nothing back... it's your life.. live it up!
Get rid of the creep.If he calls again tell him you will have him charged with harrassment.He sounds like a real loser.I say 3 strikes you are out.You must be able to find some one else by now,Keep looking Mr.Right is out there but he is not it.
It seems like you already know what to do...which is usually the problem! I would get a restraining order against him which can easily be done at your county court house or city hall. You could also change your phone number. Make it a common practice to turn off your ringer at night and lock your door. If you are concerned for your safety contact fellow roommates, neighbors or family to look out for your well being. Don't let someone like that back in to your life! Trust your family!

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