Advice about an older boyfriend?

Ok so i'm 14 and there's this guy and hes 18. 4 years between us. We've known each other for quite a while and we've found we really like each other. I know what most people think, they think he should be put on a sex offenders register or something, but because I have known him for ages do you think it's ok for me to be with him?





I know he wouldn't pressure me into anything, and all of his ex-girlfreinds say hes really kind, but I'm still confused. Do you think i should forget what everyone else thinks and go for it, baring in mind my mum wouldnt be intirley happy?





please help!Advice about an older boyfriend?
when i was your age i liked guys that were 17 and up which means guys that were more then 3 years older then me. personally i don't feel like 4 years is a huge difference. I think that you should do what you feel you want. If your mom see's how happy you are she will eventually come around. Explain to her that you are responsable for your age if you are. and tell her that you are not interested in sex right now that will make her feel at least a little bit better. But don't push it. if she is really against it don't throw a fit or yell or anything like that but talk to her and try to compramise. When i was 12 the first guy that i liked asked me out and he was almost 16. stay calm when talking to your mother and ease into it don't push it or her. she may consider letting you be just friends and that's what you can be around her or atleast that's what you guys can act like. FYI there are 7 years between my mom and my step father.





you can't help who you like.


don't feel weird about any of it.





good luck.


--- a 16 year old that's been there. =]Advice about an older boyfriend?
he's a legal adult. youre not. thats also going to be rough. and your mom will ultimately control if you can see him. if she doesnt approve, it will be very difficult for you guys to hang out. but if you think itll work, then go for it. but just because youve known him for so long doesnt mean its okay to date him. when he was your age, you were 10. so its kind of hard. do what you think is right, good luck!
hey :)


if you do have feelings for him, then there should be no boundries between you's, expecially age.





as long as you dont do anything stupid, you should do well, good luck !! :)
if your sure he wont pressure you in to anything you dont want to do then why not? go for it :) x
go for it hun!


just dont do anything you will regret :)


xx
go for it
It's illegal. %26gt;_%26gt;
first off


theres nothing wrong with dating an older guy


nothing wrong at all


unless he does things u dont like


u should definitely go for it


BUT


not just yet





y dont u try hanging out with him more


infront of the ppl who disapprove.


make them see hes a nice guy


and he wouldnt do anything to hurt u.


they'll tell ur mom and that'll be good


cuz trust me u dont want ur mom against u.





try having him at the house more


when ur parents are there


so ur mom could get used to the idea of having him there


maybeh then


once shes sort of okay with it


go for it!!!
Being honest here, 14yrs is too young to, first off have sex. I know that may not be what you鈥檙e talking about, but being a mom myself, even though the 18 yr old is a great guy, he is still a guy, and it would be tough for him to not want to have sex. My opinion is that being really good friends is a great thing. Keep it that way! Your 14 and you need to enjoy being a kid! Enjoy just that as long as you can! I know some will disagree, but I think kids want to grow up too fast! Lol..thats coming from a mom of a 12yr old and an 8yr old.