I need serious advice! About love....?

I've dated someone for about 2 years and a half.


We've been through alot. I lost a child with him and we've just been through it. But lately I've just been feeling as if he didn't respect me, so I let him go......





It's been almost 4 whole months and I feel like I'm going crazy! I just can't get him off of my mind. I love him deeply, but he does not respect me like he used to.





I don't know what to do. Could I please get some serious advice!I need serious advice! About love....?
Okay first of all, to be completely honest I do not understand any man that doesn't have respect for women, especially his own wife or gf. Why try to save a relationship with someone that you feel doesn't respect you anymore? Is there a reason he may have lost respect for you? Like I have told many of my girl friends, you can develop feelings for anyone if you are with them for a significant amount of time. I have developed feelings for ex boyfriends but now that I look back I don't know what I was thinking. Woman work differently than men. Most guys don't waste their time on a woman they don't feel is worth it. Woman invest time hoping to change or better their significant other. We all have at least one family member (or for us lucky ones, more than one) that we may have never associates with if they weren't part of our family, but since they are related you, you have to love them. The same can be said for lovers, you end up just falling in love with the idea of them and the relationship but not for who that person is. If you have doubts it isn't the real thing. When you find true love there is no question. Good luck and I hope it works out for you.I need serious advice! About love....?
Sorry for your loss...


Because of the seriousness of your loss, you are always going to have a sort of emptiness.


A bit of warning, if you don't mind...I don't know the other circumstances but a loss as you have had can affect your perspective of his actions.


The best thing to do is to have full, open communication with him and ask what is going on.


It's common for a guy to pull back because a guy is incapable of understanding the full impact of a child loss. He may just not know how to approach you anymore.
Take a break. He'll come around, especially if you can just be dignified enough to look and act like you have your stuff together, and that you don't need him. That will drive him crazy...he'll be back!
to be honest its been 4 months, thats a lot of time apart. Depends on each of your mind sets, but if you really feel that deeply your gonna have to confront him and talk to him.....sounds like you have a lot to talk about
Actually, I believe there no one able to help you but yourself.
sometimes it takes years.





whatever you do dont think of other people and just hurt them.
If he doesn't respect you then try and let him go. It takes time to heal from a serious relationship, especially with all that you went through with him.
by respecting you do you mean he should baby you all the time because you lost a child together? well if thats the case then he isnt wrong. i know it hurts but u have to try and move on. you should talk to him and get back togther and possibly considering trying for another baby if he is not already with someone else.
getting over someone you love is not easy. it can take weeks or even months, but doing this can bring out something wonderful in you.





breaking up takes a lot of courage. it strengthens your self esteem b/c you know you deserve better, the trust you have in yourself and your judgments, your faith because you know there will be someone else, and most importantly it builds your character because you will then realize what you need and want from your partner and you learn from your mistakes for the next relationship.





hang on, you know he is not good for you but you love him. one day you will wake up and your heart will be on the same page as your mind.
If it didn't feel right, you made the right decision in leaving and love is not the easiest thing to find and should not be rushed, take your time.
i think u should move on....... ikn ow what ur going thru i broke up with my ex of 4 years cause he was disrespectful its not worth it u have so much more to give and so much more to live for im sorry to hear about ur baby....but maybe it happend for a reason.....u 2 were not ment to be together! good luck with whatever happens
when a guy loves a lady, he wouldnt act like that -he would do whatever is necessary to be true to you and with you already. people will tell you anything-when its the blind leading the blind-some dont have a clue


truth is if he respected you he would have acted it and married you-as a past enabler may I say welcome to the team. When we are used we just want to be used again, I pray you break out of it and see your worth true love first from above.


In amazing grace, John 3 repented of sin (even one lie) and let Jesus to my heart in, to be my best friend, as the bible says to be born again.





be the princess you are -your worth true love first from above-feel it believe it and receive it, David
Talk to him about y he doest respect u anymore.
You're probably right about what you're feeling. As a female, it's good to usually go with your gut. There's some underlying reason for his behavior. You will, I promise, in time get over this guy. Don't go where you used to hang out, that's a bitter reminder. Go to fresh new places..change your train of thoughts - buy a new outfit, make-up, C-D, something to get your mind around the bend. It will get easier with time. New places, new faces... now be off to the races! Good Luck!