Monday, August 23, 2010

Advice about ejaculation, the pill and if I could be pregnant?

Hi - first, I am not a stupid, young girl who has unprotected sex and isn't careful. I just had a situation last night that wasn't completely normal, and I just want some REAL advice (not people telling me I am ';stupid';) My boyfriend and I were having sex last night, and I am on the pill so we sometimes/sometimes don't wear a condom, but he NEVER finishes inside of me. If he isn't wearing a condom, he ejaculates on my stomach. But the position we were having sex in last night kinda of aimed his penis right at my vagina and he ';fired'; toward the outer lips of my vagina (he wasn't inside me anymore) so I tried to catch most of it with my hand, and lead the rest on my stomach but I know some got on the outer lips. Now, I am on the pill and have been for several years, and I am very particular about never missing a day and take them exactly 24 hrs between each, or at least within the hour. This ';incident'; happened yesterday at about 4pm, so should I consider the ';morning after'; pill? I know it loses effectiveness the longer you wait and is no longer effective after 72 hours, but do you think this should even be an option? I have just never had sperm that close to my vagina before. Please only helpful answers, and quick! It will be 48 hours tomorrow and I would need to know soon! Thank youAdvice about ejaculation, the pill and if I could be pregnant?
You're paranoid! The pill is more than 99% effective. Taking it properly (which you say you are) is protection enough. Your chances of being pregnant now are pretty much the same as when he doesn't come on the out lips of your vagina, because you still get plenty of sperm in you during sex because of pre-***. Pulling out isn't even as effective as you think.





Anyway! I would highly recommend NOT getting the morning after pill because it will likely just mess with your BCP. You are very very very likely NOT pregnant!!Advice about ejaculation, the pill and if I could be pregnant?
No need. That is why you are on the pill. When taken correctly (an it certainly sounds like you are) than the pill is about 99% effective all month long even if he ejaculates inside of you.


Oh, and the 1% chance of you being pregnant is not 1% each time you have sex but only about 1 in 100 women will get pregnant in an entire year using birthcontrol pills.
It IS possible to get pregnant from this, but it is a very slim chance. If this happens again, make sure to wash the exterior of your vagina as soon as possible with water and a mild soap. If your on the pill and this happened, I highly doubt that your pregnant. But, there is always a chance, as you know. I wouldn't fret too much about it.
Um no morning after pill, the pill is around 99% effective. If it didn't even reach the inside your fine im sure. And if some did...im sure your fine too, thats what the pill is for. So couples can have sex without condoms and the woman wont get pregnate even if he cums inside. There is that 1% chance yes... but thats really rare. I'm sure youll be fine and have nothing to worry about.
what kind of pill are you on?, do you take it everyday same time?





By the way your not a stupid girl, alright so just answer the questions and ill be gladly to help
Take it just in case.


Better to do it than be sorry later on! Just take the pill now!
You don't need the morning after pill.


You have been taking your pills regularly for several years. You're safe from pregnancy even if the buggers from your boyfriend got inside you.


The pill is protected sex.





I was on the pill for fourteen years. I started having sex six months after I started them and it was always without a condom. I never got pregnant.
Being on the pill, the odds of you getting pregnant are significantly reduced. If you have not gotten pregnant yet, then it is unlikely that you will just from that. Have you heard of pre-***? It is ejaculated as lubricant before/during sex and it can get you pregnant, so although your boyfriend has never ejaculated inside of you, his pre-*** has probably been released inside you before which means you are at risk of pregnancy every time you don't use a condom. I would not be so worried, the pill is a good form of contraceptive and the fact that you do use condoms sometimes is also good. Hope this helped put your mind at ease a little that you aren't going to get pregnant from a one time thing, and you're not stupid at all. ;D
Sweetie I am a mother of two.. BC is great it works 100% no nothing does..


Anyway if you have been on it for 2 years and not always use condom and he comes etc. it doesn't matter etither way he ejaculates in you..it's call pre ***.


Once a guy e-jacks and its on your thigh leg stomach vajaja lips etc it doesnt matter it needs certain temps to live... I think personally you are all set.. I wouldn't worry and if you stress you will make yourself miss your next period.. also what section of the pill are you at right now week one two etc etc


dont stress

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