Thursday, August 19, 2010

I need some advice about a boy. Can anyone help me please?

So there is this guy and he likes me but i dont like him . And he thinks that I like him but i dont. He keeps texting me to talk but I dont want to lead him on and keep this thibg going, but I dont want to be mean and tottally blow him off. I dont have to guts to tell him that I dont like him. I dont know what to do. If any one has any adivce that would be great!I need some advice about a boy. Can anyone help me please?
Telling him you don't like him is harsh. Why did you give him your number if you don't like him? The honest approach would be to say ';Look, I'm really not interested in a relationship with you';. There's nothing wrong with that and you don;t have to be Queen ****** to do it. The back door approach (and to be honest, this would be me), would be to either ignore his text or just be rude and blow him off. He'll get tired of trying after awhile. But be prepared for some nastiness while he tends to his bruised ego. Do not under any circumstances tolerate any bullying or abusive behavior. Good luck.I need some advice about a boy. Can anyone help me please?
okay here is what i think you should do!!! first talk to him see what his motives are...... then after he tells you say hun i see you as my reall good friend right now. one i think your moving way too fast for me and two your like one of those friends i could talk to and i love that about you so lets just be friends for a while you put in a while in there so he thinks he still has a chance if he does what you suggest. good luck.
Is it more cruel to let him think he has a chance than to be honest and tell him you are not interested? Be honest with him, and if he insists, tell him you are not worth the trouble. If he doesn't believe that, prove it by ignoring him. For good. 'Cos if you ignore him for a while then give in, you are just teaching him he has to try harder.
tell him to screw off
just tell him right away that all you can be is friends...
Okay personally I would rather just be told right out. Of course it would be best if you break it gently, but just say something like just wanting to remain friends or, if you don't, just say you do not want to be friends with him. If he has a crush on you, at least that way you will give him all the hints he needs. If you break it too gently there will not be closure. If someone is attached to another person and is going to be abandoned, they will need closure. They need to know in their heart that person was not for them. The worst kind of relationships I've been in are ones that just faded out because the other person was not very involved... I didn't know if I was doing too little or doing too much. If you just tell them you are not interested in them, they will either get the idea or they will never give up. If they never give up, they are on the expressway to harassment.
Well, since you don't feel comfortable telling him straight out, you could try going through a friend.





Have you got any friends in common? If you feel comfortable getting a friend to do it, there's a solution.





You could completely act like you don't like him. Don't be mean to him or anything, just don't act too friendly. As a guy, I get feelings like a girl likes me, even if we're just having some friendly fun. Try not to joke around a whole lot. He might just lose interest.





Good luck.
Just ignore his texts and if you see him on a regular basis, then tell him you never got them. If he flirts with you, don't flirt back. Hope this helps.

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