PLEASE HELP. I need advice about a girl.?

I'm in grade 12 and I have really, really liked this grade 11 girl for three years. I can't even explain it. I only just got to know her these past 2 months. She's really nice and seems comfortable around me. She never minds talking to me or anything. Anyways I'm pretty shy and I never asked anyone out before but I eventually built up the courage to ask her to prom with me. I think I caught her a bit by surprise but she seemed really flattered that I asked. She told me that she would let me know the next day. So the next day she came over to talk to me and she thanked me but she said no. I was cool with it, at least on the outside but I went against my better judgement and asked her why. She said it wasn't me but that was it. I decided to let her know how I really felt. I hadn't done that the day before and I told her I still wanted to be friends.


I was wondering, if she didn't say no right away is there a chance that she might like me anyway? What if I just ask her out casually?PLEASE HELP. I need advice about a girl.?
My wife and I were friends in high school, went out with each other for a very short time, and about 3 years later we hooked up again. However, this may have made her uncomfortable. I'd just take it slow, and enjoy her friendship. Sometimes time is a good thing.PLEASE HELP. I need advice about a girl.?
There might be a chance that she likes you since if she didnt like you she would of told right then and there when you asked that she didnt want to go. You might want to try asking her out casually and acting like its not a big deal. Your shyness can be a real turn-off. Show her your true colors and let her get to know the real you. Don't be shy. Take a chance.
There is a chance she might like you.. but I doubt it.. No offense, but if a girl likes you she will say yes right away.. Unless she liked you, But she also likes someone else more, and she was banking on going to prom with them.. that is a possibilities..





Also she probably didn't want to say no on the spot because she didn't want to hurt your feelings, so she decided to ';give it some thought'; .. and she probably did give it some thought..





If you ask her out casually and she says no.. don't be surprised, but it is worth a shot.
If your shy maybe you and her were having fun and nice time, but she was doing all the talking, the problem is did you feel comfortable around her, you probably did since you asked her. Girls are complicated things, I'm a girl and if a guy would ask me, I'd have to say no because of the rules at my house, no dating until your 20.


Don't ask why? because that just seems desperate.





Good luck!


Remember there are other girls, just open your eyes, there might be one right in front of you.