there's this guy i really like and i can't ever get him out of my head. hes hot, atletic, sometimes funny, smart, but shy. we dont really talk alot cuz we're both shy, but i really like him. but it just never seems like ill ever have a chance with him. and i've tried moving on but i just keep going back to liking him. and i dont really talk to a lot of guys so its not that easy for me to move on. what should i do, should i just keep talking to him or somehow move on? i just feel like this relationship-well not really a relationship-is going nowhere. when we first met we barely talked but now i've noticed him staring at me sometimes and it always seems like he wants to say something but never does, so i guess we have become better freinds but i just cant keep waiting forever for him. ahh what should i do?
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prom is coming up this weekend, but im not planning on going cuz i have a track meet, but i also kinda want to go with him, but i just think it would be really akward and i dont really know what group we would go with cuz im not really friends with his brother's date and their group. and hes not really friends with my friends dates. so i think that would be kinda weird but im sure we could figure out something. and i also told a friend we decided toegether not to go to prom if we dont have a date and we'll hang out and stuff. so those are a few reasons why i dont think i should go. but would it be ok if i maybe got the courage and asked if he was going with anyone. boys would you go with a girl who asked you when its like 5 days away?Any advice about this boy i cant get out of my head!!?
first of all don't skip your prom, it'll be awesome and you'll regret it... second just suck it up and ask him that's only way to find out and the only way anything will ever happen if you're both as shy as you sayAny advice about this boy i cant get out of my head!!?
that is way too long, sweety.
your shy? coulda fooled me with that essay.
Your the one that's going to make it a dead end street if you don't make a move. Unless you think he will but it doesn't sound that way. Ask him about the prom. All he can do is say he'd rather not but seriously, it's a good way to find out if he does like you as I think he'll say yes if he does care.Let's face it, it a door opener for both of you. You guys can work it out as to who you're going with. Where there's a will , there's a way.
hey, just ask if he has a date and if he says no then ask him to go with u its worth a try. if u don't u'll regret it. i know, i liked a guy for a long time before i got the courage to ask him out and now i wish i would have asked him out a long time ago cause he liked me 2. but it didn't really work out cause there's 2 year between us and we could never really find the time 2 be together
Well for your shy issue i have a solution, im shy at times and when i get that i just think of the most confident friend i have and what he would do... Also if he dosent have a date and he got asked out 5 days before he would most definitley say yes... if he likes you
ok girl...here's the answer for you...i have in the same place over and over again...and at last i have overcome it..the best thing to do is to tell your piece and get over with it..you have to tell the guy what you feel, and let him figure out the next move..shyness is not far from undecisive, so be very sure about what you feel..if this is a definitve impossibility; which i am surely is not, use your friends as a block and go out with them..they are the only people that can get you out of him..don't even try talking to him at any way you know how for days...let him go crawling after you...and trust me, we do..
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