Hi ... i need some advice... about a guy?

i have this guy that i had a crush on from high school, dat was about 5yrs ago. now i'm in canada and


he's in the U.S(Indianapolis).. we've got talking again for over a year now... i really like him and we have great conversation. and were so close. he says if we were in the same place we'ed be going out. and i feel the same way too. anyway, he wants to come see me; he'll be driving down actually. and i'm afraid that we'll have sex when he comes...i kinda want too also.. but then what happens next 'cos we still wont be in the same country. and i want him for myself... he's so cute.. but i dont want to have sex with him and spoil everything.. i'm i making sense?... this sucks.. wat do u guys think?Hi ... i need some advice... about a guy?
First off, follow your instinct about not having sex with him! ESPECIALLY under these circumstances, it's almost assured to make things difficult.





The real issue is: How real do you think this relationship is? And, how far would you go to take it to the next level? If it is ever to be, one of you will eventually have to relocate. If that's a possibility, proceed (but still don't get sexual!) If neither of you are willing to relocate, then you are only torturing yourself for no reason.Hi ... i need some advice... about a guy?
Don't SCREW...not yet atleast!





Until you guys can have something a little more real.





If you guys do the nasty and he's another country, what makes him no have someboby else?





Long distance does not work!
i think u should kawa him . hehehehehe
Personally, I wouldn't have sex with him because if he gets the goodies and then leaves and finds someone else, I would feel played. Another reason is that I don't know what or who he has been doing. Just because he says one thing to you doesn't mean he won't say it to anyone else or that he means it. I would spend more time with him and get to know him better. On the other hand, many people have found their soul mates in situations like this. You need to think about the possibilities of your meeting someone else and his meeting someone else. In this situation you want to be fair to yourself and him as well. You should also talk to him about your concerns but only if the situation presents itself. You don't won't to bring it up if it doesn't because depending on what kind of guy he is, he may take it as that is all you think he wants and get offended. But be patient and the time will come. I can not tell you what to do but only give you my opinion. However, I will tell you this, when he speaks listen with your mind not your ears . Look at his actions with your spirit and soul not your eyes.Follow your heart not your body and it will show you the right way.