I like this guy is is really nice, cute and has a smile that makes me melt, but im afraid that I might be to much of a ';bad girl'; for him. He is kind of shy but opens up sometimes, but like if i cuse (even if its a total accident) he gets quiet, and i think i said something bad while i was around his mother but i didnt mean to. I think that he was interested in my the first couple of weeks that we knew each other but i think that he is changing his mind. Any advice?I need some advice about a guy I like!!! please help!?
Learn from your mistakes, speak differently when you're around adults and think before you do or say something.
Simple? NO! But it's part of growing up.I need some advice about a guy I like!!! please help!?
My best advice would be watching your words in front of him if you're really interested. But don't completely change the way you are because there is no point on somebody liking you if your not yourself. You can straight on ask him if he thinks you have a bad mouth, tell him you don't mean to offend anybody and its just the way you and your friends joke around each other, tell him you can talk different if it bothers him and that if you said something you shouldn't is because you were a bit impulsive and didn't mean to be rude. Watch the way he acts and go along if you're that interested, go back to the way you said he met you and see if his original interest for you comes back. Apologize when you say a bad word so he sees you are trying but at the end be yourself and don't worry a lot because many of us cuss and are inappropriate at times. You just have to watch your words more from now on not only because this guy finds it unattractive but because most guys do.
Try your hardest not to swear or do ';bad girl'; things. It is very unattractive to guys if you are the ';bad girl.'; But most important above all...be yourself. That's what guys really want. Good luck and keep trying not to swear and such.
i think you should try to talk to him. ask him if you cursing bothers him, and what the deal is. does he like you? is he nervous about starting a relationship? let him know that you have been wondering and bothered by his change of behavior. if you are too scared to talk to him in person/on the phone, do it in an IM. best wishes!!!!
Don't curse like a sailor and act like a lady...That might help.
I really dont understand why you have to ';cuss'; in the first place... only people who dont think they are not understood have that habit, and I've always thought it was to be ';noticed'; but it gets the wrong kind of attention.Of course he doesnt want you to swear especially in front of his Mom.
grow up.. cant you see he likes you but you make him unsure when you act that way, because Im telling you guys like it when thier Moms like the girl they pick. If you are willing to trade some of your bad habits for other good ones, you may have a chance, see it as a wake up call to change and grow. If not with him, some one else, in your future. Good luck!!
that happened to a friend i know... she confronted him and told him that she curses accidentally and just to ignore it if it was bothering him... it worked for her
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