PLEASE HELP. I need advice about a girl.?

I'm in grade 12 and I have really, really liked this grade 11 girl for three years. I can't even explain it. I only just got to know her these past 2 months. She's really nice and seems comfortable around me. She never minds talking to me or anything. Anyways I'm pretty shy and I never asked anyone out before but I eventually built up the courage to ask her to prom with me. I think I caught her a bit by surprise but she seemed really flattered that I asked. She told me that she would let me know the next day. So the next day she came over to talk to me and she thanked me but she said no. I was cool with it, at least on the outside but I went against my better judgement and asked her why. She said it wasn't me but that was it. I decided to let her know how I really felt. I hadn't done that the day before and I told her I still wanted to be friends.


I was wondering, if she didn't say no right away is there a chance that she might like me anyway? What if I just ask her out casually?PLEASE HELP. I need advice about a girl.?
i am sorry to hear about ur sitaution, that's a tough one, but the thing is by being friends with her ur just asking for more heart break, are u ready for that??? that's ur personal deicison, n prerogative. I say move on, n find another girl that has the same qualities that she does, y don't u ask a different girl to the prom just to make her jealous. Good luckPLEASE HELP. I need advice about a girl.?
i think that you should talk to her see how she feels about you. if you just apperantly ask her out, she might not be prepared. wait untill you really know her better... good luck there is always a chance for something so dont loose hope
No means no. Sorry. Your feelings are so strong for her...how can you expect to just be friends???
Well it seems she has a bit of a sweet spot for you. But she jus might have her eye on another guy. And honestly jus like a lot of guys do she wants to keep you as a friend but get to know someone else in that way you'd like to know her. And jus by the answer she gave you that's what it sounds like. She knows you'll be a good friend and might not want to mess that up. So build a good friendship and if things designed to go your way. Then they will. And you second question. I could see her hanging out with you just as friends. It'll give you a chance to really know her and more about her life. But it won't seem like you're pushing her to date you. So jus take it slow. Cuz it sucks to lose a good friend because you can't be one!

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