Advice about a guy? pleeeease answer?

ok well im 16 and this guy i met about a month ago are really close and weve had sex but idk i feel like i cant be his g/f bc





A) hes 18 i feel like im too young


B) he lives 45 min away





but i realllly like him but i dont see it working out what should i doAdvice about a guy? pleeeease answer?
This is tough... i'm also in a similar situation (though not the sex part)...me and my ex got very close again and started developing what i call a ';semi-relationship';...i love him and i know he has feelings for me too...but the situation and circumtances get in the way...making us reluctant to pursue a relationship...though we are very close now and trying to be happy with just being friends for the moment...





so regarding your situation,i have to ask you:


why do you think it won't work out? are there reasons for you to think this way? Does he feel the same way too or is it just you?(about the ';will not work out'; thing)





the age gap is ok...for me at least...it's no big deal. As people say: Age doesn't matter...aslong as you like/care for each other it's enough...





Distance is not a problem too...if he's really into you...he'll try his best to be with you and spend time with you...and you'll probably do the same...





Try to asses your feelings about him and really try to know if you could give it a shot. it might help too if you open up to him about your apprehensions and ask him of his opinion...communication is the key...it will enlighten both of you...





Lastly, don't rush into things. Take your time,after all you're still young. Really think about it and decide only when you're ready...don't let anyone pressure you. If he really likes you, he'll be patient...





Good Luck!=)Advice about a guy? pleeeease answer?
Speaking on personal experience, a womans gut feeling is usually right (I'm married and my wife gets me with this one all the time). I think you should leave him because:





A) What he did is called statutory rape and he could go away for a long time.





B)The reason that he looked for someone so far away is that no one in your town knows him and vice versa. He could get away with things in your town without anyone in his town knowing about it. Hint: He might have someone from where he lives and you are second bannanas.





On the other hand, you should tell him how you feel and see his reaction. When you do, you will know what to do. Women always do.
Tell him you want to stay friends but can't be serious right now. give him your reasons..... it might still work out.. or not.
My advice is this...





As a fellow sixteen year old i know your tI'me is precious. The last thing u want is to waste it being involved with something you have doubts with. Once sex enters the picture though there is the problem with emotional attachment and im sure it wouldn't be easy for you just to leave him cold turkey. So what you should do is have a talk with him to see what his intentions are with the relationship..





one Q though





I'm not saying its wrong to not have titles such as gf bf, but would you be offended if he had a girlfriend and still wanted to be intimate with you?? Because that's always a possibility when there are no titles in place.. just a thought to keep in mind that might influence your decision.
ok so you decide to have sex with a guy 2 years older than you and THEN you feel like you can be his gf.. thats just stupid.. u made a stupid decision with the sex... if your unsure about being his gf but have sex... ... bad idea
hell yeah son ****** on the first date. i like it we should meet up some time
Tell him how you really feel ......You can still be friends ...an see where it goes from there.
Why did you decide to have sex with someone you hardly know and don't want a relationship with?





Love is not about sex or a physical relationship. You need to wise up and learn to respect yourself. This guy sure doesn't.





Maybe you could talk to someone older and wiser, who you can trust to give you good advice. Maybe your mum or dad or a pastor or your school counsellor.





Come on...you know this deep down. You don't need a bunch of strangers on the internet to tell you this.
unfortunately, the real issue here is that he has now become a sexual predator (he is an adult having sex with an underage {read minor here} female. If he gets caught or someone rats him out, you could lose him forever in the penal system as a convicted felon...


this may change your thoughts on having intercourse with him...
quit having sex with him.


he could get charged with rape
Sex right away?First of all, are you pregnant?
Try it, and if you are right and it doesnt work out, you will meet many more people who are your age and live closer, I personally dont think it is a good idea but if you like him that much then you deserve to give the relationship a try
You can't force yourself to love someone. It's not illegal. When I first got together with my boyfriend I was 16 and he was turning 21. We've been together for almost 3 years and we have a beautiful baby. It's your choice. Maybe You should think twice about having sex. If You feel you are too young to be with this guy then you are definately to young to have a baby. It does happen. Trust me and Babies are no cake walk.