But later on I discover that she's never had a boyfriend, and apparently she sees a boyfriend as someone she's become really good friends with first. Now I had only known her for like 3 weeks when I told her how I felt about her... (note I didn't ask her to be my girlfriend, that was how she interpreted it.)
So I left it a bit. And things seemed to have changed slightly in the past 6 weeks. I've started flirting with her, grabbing hold of her hands every now and then (not too often and not holding hands though), sending her nice texts/emails telling her I think she's great and beautiful, and i've started to call her up (our phone conversations are slowly increasing in length i think...the first few times they lasted just over 5 mins, then 10 mins, then 15 mins, and the very last one lasted 1/2hour.... but i dunno how long the next one will last)
ANd also... firstly: sometimes she does reply to my texts/emails and sometimes she doesn't (but I've found out she does this with all her friends)... and sometimes, more recently though, she's started emailing me randomly- like in reply to a small text, she sends me quite a long email.....perhaps I'm reading too much into this.
But more importantly is the fact she doesn't seem to act in the slighest bit awkwardly around me- We've been out with a group of friends several times (never alone though), and we share a common class 4 days a week. Its not that I think my ';actions'; towards her are particularly flirtacious, I mean she has very flirty friends so i'm sure they do similar things, but its the fact that I have already told her a few months ago how I felt. Surely that has entered her mind hasn't it? I know if a girl did that stuff to me after telling me she liked me, I'd feel uncomfortable!
And what she does is mixed as well! Sometimes if i'm sitting very close to her, she'll move away slightly, other times if we're standing up together, she'll come and stand right next to me-practically touching me... also if we are having a three way conversation andif im standing next to her often she leans in towards me. Quite frequently she looks into my eyes even when she's talking to someone else, but other times when we're having a three-way conversation for example, she looks into the eyes of the other person. She has also suggested, when we were talking 1 on 1, offhand that we really should grab a coffee etc, lol, but its hard to tell when she says ';we'; should grab a cup of coffee/lunch does she mean, ';me and her'; or our small group of friends? Advice please?Any advice about this girl?
Well for a start,WOW you sound like a real nice guy who is full of respect for woman and the girl should be grateful.From reading what you said i see this girl as a very laid back and chilled out person who goes with the flow. The signal's shes sending you are up and down tho, but from my own experience i can say that i've done the same,i was great Friends with this boy,then he told me he liked me in another way (i was pleased as i liked him) but i did act differently around him because i knew he was watching me! some days id be confident and flirty n other days i'd be more shy. So i think she likes you she's just testing the water herself. You've told her how you feel so i'd seriously leave it at that for the time being,she knows you like her,what more can you do. She's probably just enjoying the fact she's got a nice admirer and maybe if you back of slightly she may even chase you!! Good Luck whatever you do hun,hope this has helped x xAny advice about this girl?
You shouldn't flirt with your friends, because you will end up misleading them. But since you only have known her for 6 weeks, it is mandatory that you flirt with her.
And have you and her ever had a conversation 1 on 1? I know girls bring their friends with them whenever they want to talk to the ones they like, the premise behind that is because they are scared.
You have freedom when you are behind that cellphone, but when it comes face to face, its all about will power if your gonna faint or throw up.
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