I need advice about my neighbor?

im having proplems with the lady that lives beside me,she lives with her 88 yr old mother who is the nicest neighbor you could have,her daughter is in her 50s and her mind isnt right,anyway she got my phone number off the side of my truck(i have a painting service ad on my truck) any way she says shes legally blind but everytime her mother leaves she calls and leaves me messages,,,like sis you ok?..she actually asked my husband last week if we are seperating?..he couldnt beleive it,he works out of town alot so she knows his truck isnt here.its begining to be a everyday thing,her leaving message after message.i dont want to start any trouble with them,but somehow this has got to stop,ive lived here for 4 yrs but shes all of a sudden doing this,its not that i dont want to talk to her but this is becoming very frustrating.i dont know how to approach this situation without coming off as being mean. help?I need advice about my neighbor?
call back the number she called from and talk to her, if you don't want to be face to face.


let her know that theres nothing wrong with you or your hubby.


you guys are fine.


thank her for her concern


and say, that you'd appreciate it if she respect your privacy.I need advice about my neighbor?
You should just tell her that you appreciate her concern but that you'd rather keep certain things pricvate.





If it carries on it sounds like the only solution would be to take legal advice, drastic though that would be.
It sounds like she's a bit out of it tbh... My parents have a similar problem with their neighbour but i think she has a condition! It'd be no good talking to her its sounds like you just have to ignore her or tell her calmly to stop butting in. Sometimes you cant help being a little rude, sorry x good luck
Maybe shes really really lonely, although I do take onboard what you say about the mind wandering a bit. Is there a grey power or age concern organisation group where you live?
Oh gosh! She's absolutely off her rocker! All you can do is to confront her (preferably behind a security screen door) and ask her to stop being a psycho lunatic towards you. Point out to her that there are plenty of other painting services for her to acquire telephone numbers to pursue her ';message leaving'; hobby.
This seems like it could be a sticky situation. I would be openly honest to the neighbor's daughter. Tell her you appreciate her concern, but everything in your home is fine. I would also tell her you are a private person, and while you understand she is just looking out for you, you'd appreciate it, if she worry less about you, and more about her mother. Be kind about it, and thank her, but get your point acrossed. What goes on in your house, is your business, NOT hers.