I'm 15 and I used to have a best friend. We had so much in common and we could tell eachother anything... Well, On monday, I got raped and the police picked me up from school... The next day, my friend asked me what happend and I told her... Then she said that what I told her was unbelievable and that I'm a liar and she never wants to talk to me agian... I have an emotional disorder and it hurts me very bad when I lose a close friend... Now she is going around my school telling all my other friends that I'm crazy and I need professional help. Is there any chance that we will be friends again or can u tell me what to say to her or anything?I need some advice about a friend?
sorry about that.Just be yourself. And make new friendsI need some advice about a friend?
I am very sorry such a horrible thing has happened to you and I will be praying for you. By any chance do you know who the person was that raped you? And if you do, might your friend have feelings for that person? If so, that is the reason for her anger. If not, I can't honestly say why she would be angry. I had a horrible experience with a friend and it took 6 years for us to be able to speak to each other again. You will have to let her get over her emotions before you can try to heal your friendship. It is possible to be friends again, but it may take some time. Tell her how you feel. That she is your friend and you love her and you want to continue to be friends. From there it is up to her.
what kind of friend was she! my advice is that she's crazy to not have been there for you. give her the cold shoulder cause a real friend wouldn't do that. u may hurt for a while about the loss but that doesn't mean your alone in the world. new friends are an option or talk to your parents or a counselor.
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