Ive been dating this girl since she was 16, and i was 19 at the time, for 3 years. She has hurt me a lot in the past but i still love her. Some of the things she has done in the past are....
She cheated on me and made out with another guy.
She kissed 2 of my previous best friends and gave one a hand job.
Made out with a guy more then once at her apt. near college.
Said she got raped by a guy she thought was very hot.
went to a dorm party where i saw pictures of naked guys prancing around.
Kissed a guy downstairs of her apt.
Broke up with me then 2 weeks later had sex with another guy.
This stuff has all mosty happend in the past. Is it still cheating if even tho we werent exacty together but on a break did this stuff? I feel like im blind and cant leave her. Should i leave her? I feel like she has made me numb now because of all the stuff that has happend. I cant trust her. Its hard for me to leave bad relationships. Please help me.I need relationship advice about if i should end it or not?
you need to move on she is using you just to say she has a boyfriend. If she loved you she would not do any of those thingsI need relationship advice about if i should end it or not?
You gotta walk away. Her sexual appetite is too strong to ever be faithful to you and you will be forever betrayed. You will be hurt again and again if you try to continue this. Just take a deep breath and suffer through ending this now for good. Now that you're 21, you might then look for a girl in her early- or mid-20's because she'll be well past the sexploratory stage of a teenager or college girl.
Once a slut always a slut.....She'll f$#@ your mother if you let her. Dump her. First find a new girlfriend yourself. Then when the time is right....let her catch you cheating on her. But by the time this happens you will really like your new girlfriend and won't even care. Remember....A liar will cheat,a cheater will steal and a thief will kill....she'll boil your puppy if you let her think she can get away with it. No matter how much it hurts to read this. She doesn't love you enough to not rub on your friends nuts.....sorry
leave her! how often should you be hurt by her lack of respect before you get cheated on again?she should broken up with because she's immature to be in a relationship and thinks she's hot stuff to be kissing and sex with other men. then find a better person to be with that does know the word COMMITMENT.
If there's no trust, there's no real realtionship as that is a key part of the foundation of a successful one. You have to decide for yourself to go or stay, but if you cannot trust someone, why stay? Can the trust be repaired? Couples counseling perhaps? If not...s'up to you but I wouldn't be with someone I couldn't trust. This life is too short to stay in a situation that isn't happy and pleasant when it's within our power to change it.
Dude, I'm sorry to hear all that has happened to you. People don't deserve to be put through such hell. But you have to allow her to let go of your heart. Right now she knows that you will be there for her and she is using your for that. Don't let her do it anymore. You need to somehow shut her out of your life for a while until you can get over her. I know it's hard after 3 years because you can still think of the good things that went on in the relationship...but she's not that person anymore. Think about all the bad stuff for a while until you have no feeling of wanting her back. I'm sorry to tell ya, but she is never going to change. She doesn't want you Hun, she is sleeping around and you are convincing yourself she still loves you when she wouldn't do that to someone she loves. You gotta move on with your life, there's a lot of women out there that would appreciate you.
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