Need good advice about a relationship?

Me and My ex-girlfriend have broken up three times now. One of the problems in the relationship was she was black and I was white. I knew mt parents wouldn't approve, so i never told them. for the first two months we were madly in love with each other. But over the course of the relationship things happened between my parents and how I handled them.





After the last break-up which was three weeks ago we had been talking. the problem is that right after we broke-up she went out on a date with the guy I thought she was cheating on me with. she says that there little more than friends. now I still have feelings for her, made the mistake of saying I still loved her and all that. For a while it was normal, we hanged out and it was fun. then it became painful to be around her. it put me into a depression and I told her how I felt. Im over that part. but she said that there was a slim chance that we would get back together.





im willing to take that. so any advice would help.Need good advice about a relationship?
i sat here thinking, but im out of advice here man lolNeed good advice about a relationship?
something similar happened to me...





the best advice i would give that people break up for a reason...





me and my fiance have broken up like 20 times now and i went thru the same thing with her...





things got good but there is still that something in the back of my mind that i hate remembering seeing her with someone else..





the best thing to do is to let it go...





you will find a girl for you i guarantee it!
You were being spineless and she got passive aggressive with you.





The damage is done - learn from your mistakes and move on.





Don't date girls of a different race if you are so wanting your mom and dad's approval.
haha im not too good at giving advice, can i interest you in a sarcastic comment?
First of all do NOT act desperate. She will just blow you off most likely.Act like you love her without sounded corny, or it sounding forced so shell come back. Explain to her why you love her and she just might come back





And good luck, Im also white with a black girlfriend.
don't chase after a chick who's not even sure if she wants you.


but if you truly do like her then put in effort without throwing yourself at her.
Shes going out with some one else and your feeling sick...Uve broke up 3x....she told you theres a slim chance of u 2 getting back together..sorry my friend but ur pretty much done...
Maybe she's saying there's a slim chance that you guys would get back together just to see how you react and so she's playing with your head. since you told her you still love her and want to be back together, she might be thinking that she can easily call the shots.


girls do that a lot.


If she continues to act as if she doesn't want you back, then try and stay cool and act as if things are okay and that she isn't so important to you anymore. by doing this, she might be scared that she would really lose you or might be upset that she won't mean as much to you for you to care anymore.


Or you can hang out with another girl and get her jealous.


But if things don't work out then might as well walk away and not make a fool out of yourself after so long if its obvious she's not going to get back with you.





best of luck :]