He sorta became wild after our breakup like getting drunk every day and sleeping with random girls. It was hard but i did end up mostly just letting it go...it took me awhile because like i said he was my first love..and i regretted the way i dumped him because i was scared. But eventually it passed ya know. I mean like i said we r civil with another. Well...like i said he went wild..which wasnt my business ne more...but he started dating some girl and it was only 3 weeks they went out lol...and i guess she dumped him yesterday. I've been going through a lot of crap lately...and posted a new blog on my myspace and he commented on it saying u go girl..some people just suck..sorry if i was ever an ******...and he called but i didnt have my phone..and weI need advice about an ex.....should i or should i not go?
Same thing happened to me but I hadn't seen him for 2 years and we met up and ended back together and we as well had a bad breakup I say just go for it.. Yea the bad memories will come back start building new ones.... Good Luck.I need advice about an ex.....should i or should i not go?
I wouldn't go. Getting over people is hard, this will just make it harder.
so what if he went wild who doesnt once in a while real love is worth going the extra mile
I wouldn't do it. You need a lot of time because when you see that person again all of the pain and bad memories come streaming back.
Hun I seriously wouldn't go trust me it will just be painful. I know you want to see him %26amp;nd what not, but ugh it will just suck. Give yourself time....most hated word in these kind of things I know but TIME heals all.
thank him for the offer but politely decline - you need to move on with your life - and it is not going to happen by spending time with him - you two will drink - you know what it will lead to...and you wind up hurt and confused...
If it were me, I wouldn't go! Breaking up is painful, almost like an open wound. Leave it alone and protect it and it will eventually heal. But if you accidently bump it, you will bleed all over again! You may eventually get to the point where you will remember the bad instead of the good everytime you see him...that's when you know you are over him. There are valid, serious reasons why we break up with someone...it's important to remember what they were, and don't be taken in again by lonliness or by forgetting the pain . Once you forget the pain, you are doomed to have it repeated. Time to move on and enrich your life somewhere else. Focus on tomorrow and let yesterday go.
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