I took some advice about my best friend snogging me but it's all gone wrong!!!?

Someone on this site told me to tell her I wasn't interested so i did but she got upset and told my boy friend. He's gone and told all his mates and it's spread and now every one is hissing at me and calling me 'LESSIE' and 'DYKE'. I've always been quite popular so I really don't know what to do! It is really upsetting and embarassing. And I miss my boyfriend soooo much!!! I need some GOOD advice!I took some advice about my best friend snogging me but it's all gone wrong!!!?
i would find another group of friends. your boyfriend cant think much of you to spread gossip around to his friends. i would dump him for sure. when people say things to you just ignore them, the more they see you upset the more they will tease you and upset you. it will all die down soon, but i would find another group to hang out with.I took some advice about my best friend snogging me but it's all gone wrong!!!?
I am sorry, but I really didnt understand the meaning of 'snogging'. I found out anyway that snogging is ''A tongue kiss is a romantic or sexual kiss in which one participant's tongue touches the other's tongue (or lips), and usually enters their mouth. Also known as a French Kiss, or Deep Kiss.'' (wikipedia). Now, would that mean that you were involved too ? If that is what is meant by snogging, you must have got carried away yourself, right ? I dont know, cos' it would involve two people to do it anyway.





Well, it happened, and you cant do anything about it. After it was done, you went and told her you werent interested, so possibly she took her grudge on you by talking about it. Since she was at your place, and it was just the two of you, the best way would be to brush it off and pretend that you had nothing to do with any of what she says, and that it was her who tried to 'snog' you, and that she's talking about you cos' you did not submit to her 'whatever' advances. Your freind has no proof or witness, or anything else to support what she talks about you, specially since you already have a 'super hot' boyfreind. So why would you go snogging her ? Thats what you should ask. If your boyfreind has been a part of the whole scenario by talking rubbish along with your freind, then forget him. He's not worth it. You ought to point it out to him that not only what she's saying is rubbish, but you also got to know how mean he is. Leave it at that, and let everyone wonder whats the truth. Maintain at all times what you are saying is the absolute truth, and you dont have the slightest idea why she went around saying something you have no clue on AND THAT it was her who was up to something and you had to stop her from this. Leave it at that. You dont know. All you know is it was her, you brushed it off, and she decided to talk rubbish. Full stop.





No one on Yahoo told you to go and say it. I read your question. Some of them have, but that is only if she 'freaked' you out. Not otherwise. Those are advises, but for you to go ahead and do it is completely up to you. However, since you did have a part in the snogging (I assume) you could have just waited, ignored her after realising that it was a mistake, and carried on as if nothing happened, until ofcourse she really starts pushing you around or starts doing something else.





Anyway, whats done is done. Not to worry. Just keep your conscience clear. Say its absolutely ridiculous and you have no need to do such a thing as you did love your bf a lot.





good luck !
Deny, deny, deny! Tell them she's lying! Tell them she was the one who went to kiss you and cause you've told her 'no' she's lying about you! Call your boyfriend and tell him you need to talk to him. Get him on his own and explain that she's the one who tried it on and you told her 'no' for 2 reasons - First because you love him.


Second because your not interested in women.


Good luck and even though I've giving you this advice you need to do what you think is right. It's okay people giving advice but your the one who has to live with the consequences
maybe he is not interested in YOU
What? What is snogging? If it is what I think then you boyfriend is a jerk for talking about you like that and your friend should never have imposed something like that on you in the first place, you will do good to not to speak to either again.
its obvious your boyfriend doesnt treasure your relationship if he did he would be there standing by you not telling his mates. slap him and find someone else, dont worry about what other people think coz then you'll always be their prisoner!
Find a new boy friend and move forward.