Okay this is kind of a long story. I have a good friend, Beth. Me and Beth have always been very close friends to Susie, who moved abroad in August. I've kept in touch with Susie, I don't know how often Beth has talked to her. Susie just emailed me that she's coming to visit ';over the holidays'; but that's all she said. I asked Beth, and she found out (from another mutual friend) that Susie is flying in tomorrow and saying with her friend Paula, who me and Beth know a little through Susie but rarely if ever talk to. Beth and I are feeling betrayed, as Susie didn't even bother to tell Beth she was coming, barely told me, but yet informed her ex-boyfriend (who cheated on her) that she was coming and that they should get together. Susie cannot drive. Beth and I would really liek some one on one time with Susie but are unsure of the friendship now, and feel awkward asking her to leave Paula behind and hang out with us. I know this sounds silly but i still need advice.I need advice about a friend.?
If you really want to hang out with her just tell her, if you were close before she left it should not be wierd to ask her to spend some timeI need advice about a friend.?
just tell her you feel neglected and request some time to hang out, just the three of you.
Susie can be friends with whoever she wants, especially if she lives far away from you. She probably has grown away from you and has moved on to friends that are more compatible to her.
Just tell Susie u want some 1 on 1 time, if this is what she wants she'll go out of her way to sort it, if it isnt what she wants than the fact it aint happeneing is best for you all.
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