Saturday, July 31, 2010

I need advice about having a baby...?

Okay, so I am 17. BUT, I have been married for 2 years, I have a 2 year old with my husband, we are financially stable, we have a three bedroom house (plenty of room for another little one) and I will be done with school in Oct. Now, I am SUPER baby hungry and I don't see any reason we shouldn't get pregnant other than my age, which I would be 18 by the time the baby was born anyway. What do you think? Should I wait to even get pregnant until I am 18? Please, don't be rude.





I am curious to hear some advice! =)I need advice about having a baby...?
Married at 15? Crazy.





Anyway, you should look at all the medical aspects of having children so young and the negative effects on both you and your child.





But, it's your life and your body, so if you want to have another one then don't let anyone stop you. But... Yeah, I agree with the statement that if you have to ask on here, then no. You're just going to get rude people or 16 year olds saying ';YOU GO GIRL!'; and neither of that is very helpful.





Think it over for longer, talk to your husband, discuss your options, think about the current economy and whether or not your husbands job is going to be there in a couple months (not to be mean, I just know plenty of people who have lost their jobs), and whether or not you'll be financially stable to have TWO kids (I hope you remember how expensive it can be to have a baby, or if your parents did everything, I hope you can understand how expensive it can be). Just because you're financially stable now does not mean you should have one now, you need to be mentally and physically ready as well, not to mention things like insurance and plenty of backup money for emergencies.





But, good luck either way. I only hope the best for you and your family. You're so young, you have a lot to learn. I'm only 21 myself and I know I have a ton of growing up to do still, but I'm pregnant with my second child and my life is crazy right now, so I can't really tell others that having a child isn't in their best interest without being a hypocrite.I need advice about having a baby...?
Sure why not if your responsible enough to have one baby and both want another one and can take care of it. Which sounds like you can. I think it is your decision and if you feel like your ready why not. I mean you are young but that doesn't make you a bad parent. I get baby hungry but i don't want to have another baby until my husband and I feel ready. And after our last baby we decided to fix that problem.
If you honestly have to ask on *here* whether or not you should have another baby then, no, you should not have another one yet.


Talk to your husband.





**To Army Mommy and wife - medical aspects? The optimal age for females to reproduce is between 18-22. So really, this girl's body is primed at this time. What 'medical aspects' are you talking about??
wow 17 and married and a 2 yr old and want a baby


well thats the gap thats my kids are its a nice gap in age


u can get the 2 yr old potty trained then have one to change


i realy think school should come first then the 2 baby so u don't put to much on your dish at one time


u are young u have lots of time take your time
I would say, wait until you are out of school in Oct


Then talk to your husband about what he wants and what you want





Maybe by next summer you will have or be pregnant with your second child





I would suggest you wait until you are done with school
Have as many kids as you want. its your life, be happy with kids if that's what you want, I have 4 and another on the way..no one can tell you when to stop having kids or when you should have them, go on and be happy...best of luck to your family...
You are way to young for a baby. Babies need a mature mom and dad and a stable life. I think you are just trolling but thats besides the point. Don't bring innocent children in this world.
Am I the only person who thinks that the phrase ';baby hungry'; is a little disturbing?
I think you should figure out who you are. I don't think you ever had a chance to do that. :( There will be plenty of time to have more babies. Go to college!
I think you should wait till you are a lot older. Its bad enough to have 1 at that age let alone 2
Sure, go for it if you guys are happy and stable.
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