Thursday, July 29, 2010

Busy or ';busy';? HELP i need advice about my boyfriend!!!!!?

my ex and i stayed friends long after we broke up from our 2 yr relationship, and recently (a few weeks ago) we started a relationship again. it's become long distance this time because i'm taking a semester off from college (we met at our college). the distance seems to be helping because seeing eachother everyday in the past has caused arguments from school-related stress. he is busy lately because he is studying for the mcat (he will die if he doesn't get into med school). however, he doesn't want to talk on aim like we used to. and we usually get together on saturdays. this particular weekend we were supposed to celebrate my birthday. however, he pushed the day back to sunday, because he said that he doesn't have enough money to buy me a present till then (sunday is when his parents visit him/give him money). the thing is,that seems like a stupid reason to push our day back to sunday. i know he is busy with classes/mcat, but i think he's not telling me something. ADVICE?Busy or ';busy';? HELP i need advice about my boyfriend!!!!!?
if you are having problems the try to see him and aim him or maybe he's having an afair(if you 2 are still together) but try to confront him and notify him of the situation.Busy or ';busy';? HELP i need advice about my boyfriend!!!!!?
Emrees,


Did you re-read everything you just wrote? I understand that relationships are great to be in and it is great to have someone there for you. But listen to yourself. You guys already broke up once and still can't stand to betogether every day. Not saying that whle dating you have to see or talk everyday but where do you think this is all going to lead? Eventually dating leads to living together or worst yet marriage. And seeing eachother everyday is kinda mandatory. Just a thought and good luck sweetie.
u can't have a relationship built on a foundation of doubts or it might just come tumbling down u need to talk to him and tell him how this makes u fell u may be surprised to realize that u jumped into ur accusation's too quickly.
Girl, you already know he is not telling you something. Now I'm not saying it has something to do with another woman, but most cases it does. Do you go and visit him? You could have went to see him. that could be the problem, he is probably tired of coming to see you all the time. Really it could be a number of things, just don't stress your self over because it could be nothing. You just know that things you use to do, you all is not doing it any more. So now you are use to it, you are spoiled. Just talk to him. He seem understanding. Having a long distance relationship is hard, trust me I know. I have been in a for 6 years and we been together for 7. We went through a lot of emotional dis-stress. We go through so far. If y'all relationships is strong, y'all will get through it. The key is just tell him how you feel.

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