As a bisexual girl with a boyfriend, who ive been with for a couple of years. I dont have any friends, as he gets very insecure, jealous and paranoid. Do you all think it is fair for me to want friends who are gay/bisexual, purely for the reasons that they share the same interests as me. Thanks!Advice about sexuality and friends??
Why would you want to be with someone who is so insecure that he doesn't even like for you to have friends?
Yes it's fair for you to want friends.Advice about sexuality and friends??
you should have friends that are friends!!!! not because they are gay straight or bi. if they are real people and you trust them thats all you need if your boyfriend is insecure you should really think about your life later on. do you really want to be in this kind of relationship?
I think your boyfriend just wants you to have some friends. But it is not fair to just have friends who are gay/bisexual. Friends are people that you trust and care about a lot. Friendships last long when two people do not share the same interest and they talk about their differences. Hope my answer was helpful.
i feel u
no u should have gay/bisexual friends
because they know wats up
ur man is just insecure
u should cut him loose
Yes, it's fair but you should keep your mind open to being friends with other people also.
True friends are usually for life. It is your prerogative to have, meet and spend time ith your friends. I think you already know the painful answer to your question. Drop this guy as he is controlling your life. This will only end in disaster foryou.
I think it's fair, but what are your real motives here? Are you in a committed relationship w/ your boyfriend? If so, why do you describe yourself as 'bisexual'?
You should be friends with people because you like the kind of person they are and their personality. If they happen to be bisexual or gay than it is even better.
Of course it is fair. You have the right to do what you want to do and feel the way you want to feel. If he doesn't agree on that then he doesn't deserve you! Also try to ask to him about it and can you try to answer my question?
It's human nature to want other people to hang out with and I can understand your wanting to know other people like you, even not wanting to date them..just know there is someone you can relate to. (I am gay also ^_^) Personally I don't think it's healthy to be around only one person everyday, even if it is your significant other.
You should make friends for your own sake. A good couple should be a partnership (both of you helping the other, not one of you suffering to make the other feel better; which is what it seems he is doing to you).
I don't know what is it you see in him (frankly he sounds like an *** to me..lol no offense), but if you love him and want to stay with him you should talk to him about letting you have friends.
He's being rather selfish and undeserving of your care... If he can't agree to at least let you have friends, maybe you should find a different lover. You shouldn't have to suffer for someone that selfish. But I won't tell you how to live your life.
it's fair because you should be open minded if you want people to be open minded about you.
It's fair for you to want friends, period. Who doesn't want to have friends they have things in common with?
Threesome.
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